Namhlanje, le ndlela eyamkelekileyo yokunxibelelana phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Ukudlala ngothando kuququzelela unxibelelwano phakathi kwabasebenzi beeofisi zesini. Kuyinto engenakuphepheka, kuba umfazi ozimele ozimelayo usele phakathi kwabanye. Kwaye le nqanaba lokuqala lokudlala ngothando.
Ndingathanda ukucacisa ngakumbi kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo namhlanje ngokudlala ngothando nomphathi. Ibhinqa inelungelo lokudlala ngothando nomnye umsebenzi weofisi. Kubalulekile ukuba ahlukanise phakathi kokudlala ngothando kunye nokudlala ngothando. Ngokukodwa xa elala nomphathi wakhe. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kuphelisa ngomonde ngenxa yokuba ingqwalasela engaphantsi komphathi ibhekisela ekuqalekeni kwento ecocekileyo neqaqambileyo. Kwaye kukho iinguqu ezahlukeneyo zophuhliso lwezenzakalo. Ukususela kulonwabo kunokuba yincinci.
Kwaye ke kubalulekile ukukhumbula imithetho ephambili yokudlala ngothando nomphathi. Ndiza kubhala ngokubanzi kubo.
Ngoko, imigaqo ephambili yokudlala ngothando nomphathi ngu:
Okokuqala . Ukutsala ingqalelo yomphathi kufuneka ube ngumfazi oqinileyo, onamandla, onokwanelisekile, onomdla wokudlala ngothando. Yaye ungazenzeli nje ukuba nguyena kuphela oza kuba mnomdla kunye nokulungele ukuba angazami ukubopha kuye aze aphule inkululeko yakhe.
Okwesibini . Kubalulekile ukugcina umda ofanelekileyo phakathi komlawuli kunye nabangaphantsi. Ukungavumeli ukudibanisa. Yilungele ukumelana nobudlelwane bakhe. Ukunyaniseka kwakho kufanele kube lula kwaye kungabikho ukubophelela kwaye akuthethi ukuba kukho na ukuqhubeka kokulandela. Akukho mntu uya kukunyamezela ukuphulwa kwenkululeko yakhe kwinxalenye yomfokazi kuye. Khumbula: nina osebenza nabo emsebenzini. Akukho nto.
Okwesithathu . Kufuneka ube nesineke, ulunge, ungakhubeki kumphathi wezinto eziphathekayo, umthukuthelele, ngomsindo ombi, uphephe inkampani yakhe. Khumbula, ngokuyinkokheli yakho yintloko kwaye yindoda kuphela. Ngomdla unomdla kwiimbono zakhe, yiba ngumphulaphuli omhle, ungamphazamisi.
Wesine . Awukwazi ukuba nombi kakhulu, unenkani, ungagxininisi kwimibono yakho kwimicimbi yokuvelisa, uqinisekise ukuba yinyaniso kuphela. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba ngaphandle kwakho kukho abanye abaphantsi kwabo abanokuba neembono ezahlukileyo kwimbono yakho. Kwaye umphathi uyakwazi ukuphulaphula okanye athathe izigqibo ezivela kwimeko.
Ngesihlanu . Awukwazi ukuvumela ukuba ubanjwe kungakhathaliseki nayiphi na imeko. Kuba umphathi kufuneka uhlale uncumo kunye nehlaya kwindawo egcinwe kuyo, nokuba uhlawuliswe.
Wesithandathu . Kumele uqonde ukuthembela kwe nkokheli. Futhi ungakulibali ukuba ukudlala ngothando nomphathi akusiyo isizathu sokubonisa oogxa bakho ngolwazi olufihlakeleyo, oluphathiswe kuwe okanye ngemfuneko yokuvelisa okanye ngexesha lobuthathaka.
Imithetho yokudlala ngothando ayimkelekanga ukulibala okanye ukungahoywa. Kufuneka ukuba ukhumbule ukuthandana nomphathi - ngumdlalo nje. Umdlalo ongekubophelele nantoni na. Umdlalo osinceda inkqubo yokuvelisa, ukuphumla kwemoya ngaphakathi. Umdlalo othi, xa ungabonisi, uzakuzisa iziphumo ezibonakalayo njengokuhlonipha nokwamkelwa ngumphathi.
Kwaye, ngokuchasene noko, ukulahleka kolawulo malunga nemeko yokudlala ngothando kubangela ukulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi kwisithuba sokugqibela, kwaye ubuncinci kunye nokuwa kwegama lakho.