Sisebenzisa isistim sokuziphatha ngokwesini.
Ukufezekisa ukulandelana kwamabhinqa, amadoda aya kuwo onke amaxesha. Kwaye into ebangel 'umdla kukuba bonke abantu bayazi kakuhle ukuba zisetyenziselwa, kodwa rhoqo xa befumana le nto. Uhlobo luthatha phambili ngaphezu kwesizathu kunye namadoda azalise ngokuzithandela oko ifuna umfazi. Ukuphathwa okunjalo kwindoda kunokude kakhulu, njengoko umnqweno wesondo uvuselela isondlo sakhe kwaye umntu ufumana ukuxhomekeka ngokupheleleyo ngokomzwelo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo badumisa amadoda.
Amadoda afana nabantwana. Bathandwa kakhulu xa badunyiswa. Ngaphambi kokuba unyanzele umntu ukuba enze nantoni na, qalisa ukumqinisekisa ukuba ngaphandle kwakhe akukho mntu unokukwenza ngcono. Kwaye akukho mntu unokumelana nesilingo sokubonisa.
Yabelana ngezinto ezithandwayo.
Indlela yokwenza umntu wakho ahambe nawe, umzekelo, kwimiboniso okanye kwimidlalo yemidlalo, ukuba akanalo umdla. Yonke inokusombulula ngokulula. Xoxa ngezinto ezithandwayo, wabelane ngeminqweno yakhe, uze uye kwibhola kunye naye, emva kwayo yonke into. Kwaye kuya kuba nzima ukuba anqabe isipho sokuhamba nawe.
Qala ukwenza oko ngokwakho.
Kukho indlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokwenza umntu enze oko umfazi afuna. Ngokomzekelo, kufuneka ulungise into endlwini, kwaye unenkani ngokubukela iTV. Ngoko qalisa ukwenza oku, ngokwakho, ukubonisa zonke izenzo ongenakwenza nantoni na. Ukujonga ubunzima bakho, uya kuba neentloni, kwaye uya kuziqhawula kwiTV.
Siya kumnika ilungelo lokukhetha.
Xa ufuna umntu ukuba enze into, njengoko ufuna, mbuze ngaye, kodwa umise umbuzo wakho ukuze abe nokukhetha, kodwa, ngelo xesha, akanakukunqanda. Umzekelo, emva kokumcela ukuba ahambe nawe kwisitorethi, uthi: "Mzalwana, ndingahamba ndedwa, kodwa ngaphandle kwakho kuya kuba nzima kakhulu, ngoko ke ndifuna ukuhlala ndawonye kwi-cafe."
Akayi kukukhanyela, ukulahlekelwa ukuxabisa kwakho emehlweni akho kuya kuba nomsindo kuye.
Sisebenzisa ukuthelekiswa.
Thelekisa kunye namadoda amantombazana akho kufuneka aqikelele. Inqaku lokuba umhlobo womhlobo wakhe uyavuya, umyeni wakhe uthenge kakhulu kuye, nokuba yintoni ingubo ayenayo. Kwaye umntu wakho uya kufuna ukubonisa abanye ukuba uyamkhathalela umfazi wakhe ngcono. Yintoni eyayifunwa kuye.
Menze afune oko ngokwakhe.
Esinye isazi senzululwazi esidumile uDale Carnegie wabhala ukuba ukunyanzelisa umntu ukuba enze into, umntu makamqinisekise ukuba kuyimfuneko kuye. Ngoko masisebenzise eli cebiso elilumkileyo. Ukuba umntu wakho uyathandabuza, umzekelo, nokuba uya kutyelela kumama wakho, yithi njalo: "Umama uya kukuthenga i-apula ipilisi, ethanda kakhulu." Kwaye kuya kubakho ukutyelela kumama.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukulila.
Kwezinye iimeko, xa zonke izinto zilingwa kwaye ungayazi ukuba ungayifumana njani indoda ukuba yenze into efunwa ngumfazi, ungasebenzisa indlela enqabileyo yokubhinqa, oko kukuthi, ukuyeka ukukrazula. Kodwa, ungasebenzisi kakubi oku. Akunabo bonke abantu abawela kulo qhinga. Ukulila rhoqo kunokuvutha kuphela okanye kubacaphukise.
Kwisisu esipheleleyo.
Wonke umntu uyazi umzekeliso othi "Uthando lwenhliziyo yomuntu luhlala esiswini sakhe." Ngoko sebenzisa le nyaniso engenakuphikisa ukwenza umntu enze oko ufuna. Ukutya, amanzi, uze ubuze.
Umoya omhle uyisitshixo ekuphumeleleni kwakho.
Kwaye, ke, zonke ezi ngasentla zingasetyenziswa xa umntu ehlala enesimo esifanelekileyo, kwaye xa efika ediniwe ngumsebenzi, umcele kuye into ethile ngokukhawuleza ukuba azigwebe. Ukuzalisekisa isicwangciso sakho, kungcono ukulinda umzuzu ofanelekileyo.