Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu baqala izilwanyana eziluncedo okanye ukungaqondani kwabo bathandekayo. Bafuna ukuqonda, ukuthanda, ukufudumala nokuthandana, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo bafumana le mizwa kuphela kwisilwanyana. Kukulungele ukubuya emsebenzini kwaye udibane "ubuso obonwabileyo" inja yakho oyintandokazi okanye ikati kwindawo. Oku kungenxa yekati engenamdla, izinja kunye nazo zonke ezinye izilwanyana "ngobuso obufanayo". Kuba umnini wezilwanyana, isilwanyana sakhe sinobuso obukhethekileyo, afundela kwiwaka. Abantu baqala izilwanyana, bakhuthaza ngothando lweekati okanye izinja, iiproto okanye ii-turtles, iintlanzi okanye iintsha. Enyanisweni, ngokuqhelekileyo yinto yonke into ekwakheni ubuntu. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba umntu akamele akhathalele ngabani na okanye akanakunakekelwa.
Ukuchitha ixesha elininzi. Iingxoxo zifumana iimpendulo ezahlukileyo, kwaye ezininzi zazo zi: kuba izilwanyana zinjengabantwana; kuba ndifuna ukunyamekela umntu; Ndifuna ukuba nomhlobo onyanisekileyo kunye. " Kwaye akuyiyo yonke impendulo yombuzo othi "kutheni abantu baqala isilwanyana".
Ngaba wakha wacinga ngento yokuba asikhethi sikhethe isilwanyana, kodwa isilwanyana sikhetha umnikazi wayo? Ngaba uye wakha iimeko xa inja okanye ikati ikulandela emva kwesitalato? Ndiyakhumbula xa ndaya ekhaya emva kokuhamba nomfana okanye kwiziko, enye inja yayingandilandela. Andikwazanga ukumthatha ukuba ahlale nam, ngelo xesha kwintsapho yam kwakukho ikati kunye ne-parrot. Kwaye inja yaqhubeka ndilandela malunga nonyaka. Ndize ndondle ukuqala kwayo, njengoko inja ayizange ihambe emva kwam ukusuka kude, yazama ukungilinda. Kwaye ndade ndalinda kuzo zonke iindlela zokuhamba ekhaya, ukuba ndaya kwiivenkile. Ngoko ke, andinakuyondla loo mlindi. Kwaye namabali anjalo ayenzeka ngaphezu kweyodwa ukususela ebuntwaneni. Andicingi ukuba ndedwa. Izilwanyana, njengezithunywa zezilondolozi, zikhusela kwinto engcolileyo. Emva koko, bahlambulukile kwaye bamsulwa. Abazi indlela yokungcatsha, kodwa bayazi ukuxolela ukutshutshiswa, ukuthengiswa kwethu. Akunjalo abo basiphosayo, siwaphosa xa sicinga ukuba asinasidingo. Okokuqala siyidumise "intsana" yebhola, inkabi, inkukhu, kwaye ke, xa eba ngumntu omdala, siziphosa entliziyweni yeso sizathu, sithi siyikhululile ngentando, okanye ngandlela-thile sichaza into yokungcatsha.
Izilwanyana zivame ukukhetha inkosi yazo ukuba zilondoloze kwaye zenze zibe zicocekile kwaye zibubele. Cinga ngeengongoma zeedons. Ithetha ukuba inamba ikhetha inkosi yayo. Ngoko, inja, ikati kunye nazo zonke ezinye izilwanyana zikhetha ngokwabo ukuba ziyakwazi ukwenza ububele kwaye zomelele. Yaye ukuba sithembela ithemba labo, lo mbuzo uhlala uvulekile de kube sekupheleni kobomi bokuba kanye.
Sabantu abadala, sikholwa ukuba sinelungelo lokulahla ubomi bezilwanyana, ngaphandle kokucinga ukuba le ncazana isindisa ubomi bethu ngaphezu kweyodwa. Abantwana bahlambulukile kunathi, bazinikezele ngakumbi kubahlobo babo bezilwanyana kunathi. Sisoloko sikhokelwa ngongoma ophezulu kunye nezezimali kumbandela, kwaye bathanda abantwana kwaye balungele ukunceda isilwanyana sabo, nokuba ngubani na.
Abazali bavame ukuqala isilwanyana kumntwana wabo, ukuze umntwana afunde ukuthanda ihlabathi elikufutshane naye. Kodwa umntwana akadingeki ukuba afunde oku, umntwana ufundiswa oku ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Ufuna nje ukukunceda ukukhumbula le nyaniso.
Xa uhamba epakini, uhlala udibana nabantu abanezinja. Yaye ukuba ukhangelelene, ngoko, njengokulawula, inja kunye nomnikazi wayo bafana kakhulu. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, akukho yingozi. Lo mgaqo awusebenzi kuphela kwizinja, kodwa nakwezinye izilwanyana.
Iingcali zengqondo zithi abaninzi abantu abaqala le nto okanye isilwanyana, bazama nje ukufumana ezo zimpawu zobuntu abangenakuzifumana kuzo. Okanye ngenye indlela - bayazibona ngokwabo.
Kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba uchithe umda ongaqondakaliyo phakathi kokufana kwamadoda nabasetyhini kunye neenja kunye neekati. Abasetyhini bakhetha ngokwabo ezo zinja ezingenakucinganiswa nomlingani wendoda yamaphupha abo, kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba isini le ndoda. Amadoda enteneni azibonele, nje ngokungazi. Kodwa umntwana ufuna umhlobo wangempela kunye nomncedisi inja. Ukuba umntwana ucela inja, ngoko yedwa, kwaye uhlawula ingqalelo. Asinakukusola ngolu hlobo, kuba siphila kwi-market market, kwaye siyaqonda ukuba awuyi kuzala umoya ongcwele. Umntwana akahlali ecacileyo, kodwa yena (umntwana) uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba inja ayisoze yamshiya ngexesha elifanelekileyo kuye kwaye iya kuba nayo, ngeendlela zonke, kwaye iya kumkhusela ekuhlaleni kwegazi lokugqibela.
Ngamakati, nayo, into elula kakhulu kunokuba sicinga. Naliphi na ibhinqa lifuna ukufana nekratshi, elimnandi, elincinci, elihle. Kwaye akumangalisi ukuba abafazi bayayithanda kakhulu le mibala ebomvu. Amadoda ayengaboni ngokucacileyo ikati elinomfazi. Kodwa abantwana bathanda amakati, njengoko inzululwazi ezininzi zithi, kuphela ngenxa yokuba lesi silwanyana sibabakhumbuza ngomama wabo onothando, onothando, onothambileyo.
Izilwanyana ezingabonakaliyo, khetha zonke iintlobo, kodwa ungakulibali ukuba kufuneka uzikhangele. Musa ukulibala ukuba izilwanyana nazo zifuna uthando lwakho nenkxaso, ehlala zivuyisa ukukunika ngaphandle.
Indoda yinto yokuba, kungakhathaliseki amathuba kunye nobuchule, ilangazelela amandla, nokuba ingaba lizwe elincinane, ilizwe okanye lonke ihlabathi. Kwaye amandla phezu kwezilwanyana, amandla agcwele, anika ukukhohlisa kwamandla ubuncinane. Kodwa ngubani owaziyo: ngaba abantu banamandla phezu kwezilwanyana okanye, izilwanyana zigcwele amandla phezu kwethu!