Indlela yokufumana umyeni ocebileyo onobubele

Njalo ngoLwesihlanu, thina kunye namantombazana sibuthana kwi-cafe encinci ukuthetha "ngamabhinqa". Namhlanje kwakunjalo nje usuku. Bonke babekho kwiqoqo ngaphandle komhlobo kaLyuska, kodwa naye wabonakala, ephosa iintshabhaka ezivuthayo emehlweni ethu. Njengoko kwavela, uLusya waqhekeza nesoka lakhe. U-Romance wamkhathaza, kwaye ngoku ke wanquma ukukhangela umntu osisityebi kunye nomntu ongatshatanga, kwaye wayefuna ukutshata naye. Le ngongoma yatshitshisa iqela lethu labesetyhini, kuba wonke umntu ngokufihlakele waphupha ukufumana umntu osisityebi owayesigqoke ezandleni zakhe, wanika ientyatyambo kwaye wayemthanda. Nangona kunjalo, kwakukho nemingcipheko kule ngcamango: emva koko, ukuba kwilizwe lethu "kukho abantwana abali-9 ngokweengxelo zabantwana abasithoba", sinokuthetha ntoni ngomntu omncinci, ocebileyo, kunye nomntu ongenalwazi? Yaye ukuba ungeze enye into, ukuba uyona nto intombazana eqhelekileyo yaseUkraine, esaphila uthando kakhulu, yintoni oyenzayo? Kodwa nangombuzo onobuqili umfazi wesiganeko ufumene iimpendulo ezininzi. Ngoko, umxholo wendaba yethu yanamhlanje ngu "Indlela yokufumana umyeni ocebileyo onobubele".

Ngamanye amaxesha ukuvelisa into engeyona engafanelekanga. Omnye wabahlobo bam, uZhenya wahlangana nomninimali wakhe emsebenzini. Wayengumlawuli, kwaye wayephantsi. Emva koko, ubudlelwane bokusebenza bukhula baba yinto engaphezulu. Umphathi wabhayisa ngokubambisana kwakhe: iintyatyambo ezinokhenketho, ii-restaurants zokudla, iingubo ezibiza. Ewe, yintoni na intombazana engazange iphuphe ngayo? Kwaye uZhenya akazange anganqikazi: wayiphosa isoka lakhe, owayenesisithiitiativen kwaye wayenanto encinane, kodwa wamnika inkululeko epheleleyo yokuthatha isenzo. Kubonakala ngathi apha kwaye siphile, siphile, kodwa kwakukho enye ingxaki: uTyhenya omtsha wayeyintsimi engatshatanga, akazange amvumele ukuba asebenze aze amphendule abe ngumfazi wendlu.

Njengendlela yokukhetha, unokufumana umsebenzi kwimbonakalo yokuzenzekelayo kwaye uzifumene isityebi. Nangona kunjalo, kulungile ukuba sikhumbule ukuba emehlweni ensimbi ebiza kakhulu "ihashe" umgidi-mali ulahlekelwa isipho sokuthetha, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuphawula nokuba ngowona wesifazane ophezulu. Kukho elinye ilitye elingaphantsi kwamanzi: abantu abazizityebi banqwenela ukuza kubathengi bemoto kunye namantombazana e-chic, ukubheka abanye baze bazibonakalise. Ngako oko, uya kufuna ukukhupha ngokukhawuleza ukutsala ingqalelo.

Kufuneka kwakhona kukhunjulwe ukuba abantu abanotyebileyo banqwenela ukuhlala emakhaya ase-elite. Ngoko ke kuyimfuneko ukusondela ngokusondeleyo kwindawo 'yabo yokuhlala'. Ukuba unayo imali eyaneleyo kuphela ukurenta iplati eduze kwendlu "yexhoba", kwaye kungekhona kwindlu yendlu yokuhlala, kwaye oku kuya kuhla. Sekunjalo, kuya kuba nemingcipheko yokudibana ne "iphupha lakho" kwindawo ethile esitolo okanye egcekeni lendlu.

Unokusasaza amanethiwekhi akho kwimiboniso yezobugcisa, iintengiso kunye neendidi ezahlukeneyo. Emva kwakho konke, abaxhamli bethu banomdla kakhulu wokuhlobisa amakhaya abo ngezinto ezixabisekileyo kunye nezinto ezizodwa. Yinto enje into enokuthi ube yindoda ecebileyo, ukuba uyaphupha. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ubhalise kwezinye iikhosi ukuba ube ubuncinane kwizinto zobungcali, uze uqalise ingqungquthela iingxoxo kunye neendwendwe kwimiboniso, okanye kunye nomnini "wale mifanekiso yokubonakalisa engabonakaliyo." Omnye wabahlobo bam beqhelana nomnini womboniso, engazange ahambe ngaphezu kobusuku bubunye. Nangona kunjalo, wayesoloko ephindaphinda kuthi ukuba lo wayeyi-millionaire yokuqala, awayeyichithe.

Amanye amantombazana azingela abacebileyo kwiiklabhu ezizibiza kakhulu. Emva koko, ngoku kuyimfashini ukunyamekela impilo yakho. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, impumelelo ayiqinisekanga, ngenxa yokuba Amadoda amaninzi kwinkqubo yoqeqesho ayanyamekela ukwandisa i-biceps, i-triceps kunye nezinto ezinjalo, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo azibandakanyeki ngokuqwalasela inani le-blondes kunye nama-brunettes kwiengubo eziqinileyo. Kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba abazingeli "bodwa bodwa" kwiiklabhu nakuba i-daime ishumi elinanye, kunye nemali yokuba uyatsalwa kwenye yezigidigidi ziya kuthatha ininzi.

Inketho efanelekileyo kukuhamba. Kwaye ukuba kuseyindawo yokutyelela kwamanye amazwe, kuyinto enomdla kakhulu. Kulo liholide ukuba amadoda asisityebi avela kwishishini likrkki ajika abe ngama kittens ahluthayo afuna ukuthanda nothando.

Ukuba unomhlobo obusetyhini ocebileyo, yinto efanelekileyo yokuziqhelanisa nabadlali abatsha abacebileyo kumashishini abo.

Kodwa i-lazy, ukhetho ekhaya kukukhangela umyeni kwi-intanethi. Nangona kunjalo, ungafaki kwiprofayili yakho, kodwa ngokukhawuleza ubhale iimfuno ezicacileyo zomyeni wakho wexesha elizayo: isityebi kwaye siphumelele. Kuya kucetyiswa ukuba ufunde isiNgesi, kuba Iindwendwe ezininzi kwiindawo zokuthandana ngabangaphandle. Omnye wabahlobo bam bafumene i-chevalier, ixesha elide lihambelana naye kwi-ICQ, de wafumana isimemo esilindelwe ixesha elide ukuba ahlale nomhlobo wakhe osenyongweni eSwitzerland. Ngoku ubeka iipokethi zakhe kwaye akazi ukuba yiziphi iimpahla zokuthatha naye.

Kwaye, ke, unokuqwalasela ukhetho "lokulinda isikhulu kwihashe elimhlophe." Abanye banenhlanhla. Umhlobo wam wadibana nomyeni wakhe ocebile kwisikhumulo sezindiza xa ephuthumbile yendiza kwaye yenzeke ngephutha. Omnye wadibana nabaphulaphuli bakhe abathandayo phambi komnyango, waba ngumntu oshishino owaziwayo owafika ngesimemo ukuba anikeze inkulumo kubafundi beyunivesithi ngendlela yokuphumelela kunye nobutyebi.

Kuzo zonke ezi ngasentla, kulandela ukuba ukufumana i-millionaire akunzima. Kunzima kakhulu ukumgcina kwaye ube yedwa wakhe, kwaye sele usayazi indlela yokufumana umyeni ocebileyo onobubele.