Eyona ndawo iqhelekileyo:
- Amaphupha okulwa ongeyithatha inxaxheba, kodwa ukhangelele ngaphandle - kuthetha ukuba kwikamva elikude uza kufuneka ugwebe impikiswano phakathi koogxa bakho, abahlobo, abaqhelana nabo. Mhlawumbi uza kucelwa uncedo, ngokubanzi kwimicimbi yobuqu.
- Ndiphupha imfazwe endiyithatha inxaxheba-ndingathetha ngokulahlekelwa kwipropati yomntu siqu, ukusuka kwizihluthulelo nakwesikhwama, kunye nokuphela kwezinto ezixabisekileyo njengezindlu. Oku kwenzeka ukuba uphoswe ephupheni. Ukuba uphumelele empini, unjalo, ngokuchaseneyo, nayiphi na into efunyenwe ngokunenhlanhla kunokuba inzondelelo kunye nokusebenza kanzima.
- Ukuba ulwa negazi, umntu osondeleyo kuwe, abahlobo okanye abahlobo abahle baceba into embi. Qaphela, unokungcatsha abantu ongalindelanga. Enye inketho kukuba awufumani uncedo kulabo oye wababala, okanye uya kufumana umntu omthandayo.
- Ukuba uyilwa nentombazana, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba luphi na icala intombazana ethatha inxaxheba. Ukuba wena, njengentombazana, uthatha inxaxheba ekulwa nomntu ongaziwayo-ubuthongo buyakwazi ukuthetha ngeengxabano emsebenzini, kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke okanye kwisitalato. Oku ahlobene nentsapho. Ukuba ibhinqa lilwa ne-ex-boyfriend, ke ivumela ukuba ihambe yakhe yangaphambili. Iphupha elinjalo liya kubangela ukuqiniswa kwesibini esibini. Kwimeko yokulwa nomlingane wakho okanye umyeni wakho, kulindeleke ukuba ube neengxabano, ukuxabana, mhlawumbi ukuhlukana kwixesha elizayo. Ukulwa nomlingani kubonisa umona kumyeni wakhe.
- Ukuba uphupha ukuba uthatha inxaxheba kwiqela elilwa, lungela iingxoxo kumsebenzi okanye kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke. Mhlawumbi, ingxabano iya kubakho kwisakhiwo sokutya kunye nabahlobo okanye abangaziwayo. Oku akusiphupha elihle kakhulu.
- Ukulwa, apho ubulala umchasi, kuthetha ukuba kwikamva elikufutshane uza kuphosa ngaphandle kwakho, ukuthukuthela, ukucaphukisa abantu abakujikelezile. Kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele kwaye uzigcine usesandleni sakho. Ngaphandle koko, kunokusongela ngeengxaki zomsebenzi okanye iintsapho.
- Ukulwa ne-monster, i-monster iphupha ingxaki. Mhlawumbi, ngoku okanye kwikamva elikufutshane uza kufumana imeko ebonakala ingathembeki kuwe. Ukuba ubalekela kwi-monster ephupheni, okanye kukunceda, kuthetha ukuba iimeko ziya kubonakala ngendlela engavumelekanga kwaye awukwazi ukuzisombulula. Ukuba uphumelele, uya kufumana indlela yokuphuma. Ukuba emfazweni umdwebo, okanye i-monster ngokukhawuleza ikhuphuke - uya kufumana indlela yokuphuma, kodwa iya kuba yinto ende.
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba amaphupha malunga nokulwa akusoloko kuthethwa ngeengxabano ezisemakhaya kwintsapho okanye iingxaki eziphikisanayo ngaphandle kwekhaya. Ingakumbi musa ukuthatha yonke into ngokwenene. Konke ngenxa yokuba amaphupha ngumsebenzi we-subconscious yethu. Kukusebenzisa imifanekiso efikeleleke ekuqondeni kwethu ukuba ibika ngeemeko ezithile ezinokuthi zenzeke kuwe okanye ziya kwenzeka.
Konke kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezenzeke kuwe kude kube mzuzu uphupha malunga nokulwa. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba iveki eyadlulayo uxabana nommelwane phezu kweqonga lomhlaba, mhlawumbi iphupha likuxwayisa ukuba ummelwane ngeveki okanye ngenyanga uya kufaka i-suit kunye nenkundla.
Ngokuqhelekileyo zethu izikhumbuzo ngamaphupha malunga nokulwa, kumzekelo womchasi, kunokuthetha iimeko, ubunzima beemeko. Ukuba uyilwe ekulwa - kwixesha elizayo uza kuhlangabezana nayo yonke into, ukuba ulahlekelwa - iimeko ziyakwazi ukunqoba. Ukulala, apho kwakukho umgca - uza kwenza imizamo kwaye ekugqibeleni unqobe zonke iimbandezelo, kodwa oku kuya kuthatha ixesha.