Amaphupha ethu akanamkhawulo kangangokuba unokubona nantoni kuwo. Yonke iphupha inentsingiselo ethile kwaye yonke into esiliphuphayo inokutolika ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Elinye lamaphupha aphindaphindiweyo ukukhulelwa. Makhe sibone oko kuthetha ntoni.
Ngomfazi ongatshatanga, kodwa engelula, umfazi okhulelweyo ophuphayo uphakamisa umtshato ongaphumeleli.
Ukuba uphupha ngentombazana engatshatanga, kodwa ukhulelwe, ngoko kwixesha elizayo uza kujamelana neengxaki ezinzima ukuyicombulula.
Ukuba uphupha umfazi okhulelweyo ogulayo, iphupha lithembisa iingxaki, kwaye liphilile - ngokuchaseneyo, inhlanhla.
Ukucinga ngomfazi okhulelwe ephupheni, abazali abagxothayo ngehlazo ekhaya, kuthetha ukuba ngokwenene kuya kufuneka uphulaphule isilumkiso kwidilesi yakho.
Ukuba uphupha ngowesifazane okhulelwe, ngubani oqalayo ekukhulelweni (oko kukuthi, ngaphandle kwesisu), ngoko iphupha libonisa ukungaqiniseki kwakho kwixesha elizayo.
Ukuba uhlala ukhulelwe ephupheni, ngoko awugculisekanga ngobomi bakho bobulili, kwaye unamaphupha angazalwanga.
Indoda ekhulelwe ikhupha amaphupha ukuba zonke izicwangciso owakhileyo ziya kuphazamiseka kwikamva elizayo.
Ukuba ungatshatanga, kodwa ubona intombazana ekhulelwe ephupheni, ngoko kwixesha elizayo uza kufumana uthando olukhulu.
Ukuba uphupha ukuba uphikisana nomfazi okhulelweyo, ngoko ebomini uya kudideka kunye nokuhleka.
Ukuba awusatshatanga, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo uzibona ukhulelwe, ngoko iphupha lithetha ukuba kwikamva elikufutshane uza kuphulaphula ukuhleka neentengiso.
Ukubona umfazi onamawele embonweni uthetha inzuzo enkulu.
Ukuba intombazana yakho iphupha ukuba ikhulile ize ibe yintombazana ekhulelwe, ngoko wena, Mama, kufuneka uhlawule ngakumbi intombi yakhe-engenalo uthando lomama.
Ukuba ubuthongo ukhulelwe kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ubona ekhulelwe, ngoko ukulala kubonisa indlela efanelekileyo yokukhulelwa nokuba ukuzalwa kuya kuphumelela.
Ukuba uthetha ephupheni nentombazana ekhulelwe engatshatanga, ngoko ebomini kufuneka unakekele umntu ixesha elide.
Ukubona umfazi okhulelweyo ephupheni, apho kuqalwe khona ukulwa, kuthetha ukukhathazeka.
Ukuba uphupha ukuba intombazana ekhulelwe, engatshatanga, iyabulala, ngoko ebomini, "ukukhanya ewindini" kulindeleke kwimicimbi yakho.
Ukuba umntu uphupha umfazi wesimo, iphupha libonisa inzuzo yokuqala okanye ukukhuthazwa. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukulala kunokubonisa iingxabano kwintsapho okanye ubunzima.
Ukuba indoda iphupha yintanda yakhe, isesimweni, ithetha ukuba uthando lwakhe luqinileyo kwaye luyinyaniso kuye intanda, kwaye nokuba ufuna ukuba nabantwana kuye.
Ukuze umntu azibonele ukhulelwe kuthetha ukuphunyezwa kwezicwangciso ezilindele ixesha elide, kunye nobutyebi okanye inzuzo. Ngokwezinye iinguqulelo, ubuthongo bungabonakalisa ingozi, ukugula okanye ukugwenxa.
Ukuba uphupha umfazi okhulelweyo okanye onokubi, ufanele uhlale ulindile - umntu obeka emva kwakho uceba.
Ukubona intombazana enhle nekhulelwe ephupheni kwaye ngexesha elifanayo kumangaliswa nobuhle bakhe kuthetha ukuba iphupha lithetha ngokufumana umvuzo ongalindelekanga, kodwa kuya kufuneka usebenze nzima.
Ukuba uphupha umhlobo wakho okhulelwe, kuthetha ukuba ukukhulelwa kunye nokuzalwa kuya kudlula ngokukhuselekileyo, kunye nokuba intombi ivuyelwe emtshatweni.
Ukuze intombi ikwazi ukuzibona ikhulelwe ithetha ihlazo kunye neengxaki ezahlukeneyo.
Ukuba umntu ubona kwiphupha umfazi ozalayo, ngoko ngokwenene ulindeleke ukuba abe neengxaki kwimicimbi yakhe.
Ukuba umntu ubona elele kufuphi nomfazi okhulelwe, ngoko ulindela ithemba elihle.
Ukuba ibhinqa ephupheni liyabona likhulelwe kwaye lizala unyana, koko impumelelo yakhe iya kuba kuyo yonke imicimbi, kwaye ukuba intombi izalwa, ngoko ebomini bakho kuya kuba nezihlandlo eziza kubangela ulonwabo olulindele ixesha elide.
Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo uphupha umfazi omdala, ngoko kufuneka alindele iingxaki zempilo kungekudala.
Ukuphupha owesifazane okhulelweyo kubantu abaneemali, ukhuthaza ukuphuculwa kancinci kwimeko yabo.
Kwaye kubantu abaneemfihlelo, iphupha elinjalo lithetha ukuba kufuneka uqaphele ukuba iimfihlakalo zakho azikho kwisizinda sikawonkewonke.
Ngoko sajonga ukuba ukukhulelwa kubonakala ngathi. Siyathemba ukuba uya kuba namaphupha amahle kuphela. Iphupha elimnandi kuwe!