Ukubona ukuphanga kwindlu ephupheni
U-Sonnik Miller ukholelwa ukuba indawo yokuphangwa ephuphayo ibonisa ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo umphuphi akayi kwenza izigqibo ezizimeleyo, aziguqule emagxeni abo abathandayo okanye aze akhokelwe ngcebiso kwabanye abantu. Isizathu esinokuba sisenokungakwazi ukuphendula uxanduva lwezenzo zakho.
Ngokutsho kwencwadi yephupha kaTsvetkov, ukuphanga kwiphupha kubonisa imeko ephikisanayo kwaye, nokuba kunjalo, ukuhlukana kunye nomlingane. Isizathu esibonakalayo sengoko asiyi kuba kukungaqondi, kodwa ukubonakala komthandi okanye umthandi kwisiqingatha sakho sesibini.
Intombazana encinci, eyaphupha ukuba iphangiwe, iincwadi zephupha zithembisa ukubonakala kwemfihlo kunye nabavuliweyo abavulekileyo, phakathi kwabo uya kukwazi ukukhetha iqela elifanelekileyo kakhulu lomtshato.
Ukuba uphupha ukuphanga indlu yabantu abacebileyo, oku kubonakalisa umona wakho ngalabo bangcono ababekwe kulobu bomi baze banandiphe ubutyebi obukhulu.
Okumangalisa kukuba, ukuphanga kwendawo kunokubonisa ezinye iimpawu zobuntu abaphuphayo, ngokugqithiseleyo, ukuzithemba nokuzithemba. Ukuze kuphephe iingxaki zengomso, kwanele nje ukuba ilahlwe ngokukhawuleza kumaziko amasha kunye neemvakalelo.
Ukuphanga kwendlu kungabonakalisa ukungakwazi komntu ukulala ukuxolela umoni. Kule meko, ukungaxolelwa kubangelwa kukugwetywa komphuphi ukuba umntu lowo anikezele inkonzo okanye uncedo kwinto ethile akazange ambulele ngokufanelekileyo.
Ezinye iinguqulelo zephupha elingathandekiyo
- Intsapho iphupha isichaza ubusela njengento elahlekileyo ekhoyo. Ngaphezu koko, ziyakuboniswa kwisicwangciso sezinto eziphathekayo okanye ngohlobo lweengxabano kunye neengxaki kwiintsapho kunye nasemsebenzini.
- Ukuphangwa kwindlu ephupheni, ngelixa ungekho, ubeka iingxaki ezinkulu ezibangelwa ukunganakwa kwakho nokungakhathali.
- Ukuba ephupheni iindleko zobusela zinikezelwa kuwe, ngoko ityala elicwangcisiweyo aliyi kukwazi ukuqhutywa ngenxa yokungaqondi kakuhle.
- Iphupha apho umntu ongummangali osolwa ngokuba, uyalumkisa malunga nezigqibo ezikhawulezayo - musa ukukhawuleza ukugweba umntu, umntu unokungenacala ngokupheleleyo kwinto eyenzekayo.
- Ezinye iincwadi zephupha nazo zibango ukuba ukuphanga amancinci amaphulo, kodwa ukuba ukutya okanye isonka kukuthembisa iindleko, kunye nokweba izinto ezincinane ezibalulekileyo.
- Ukuba uphangiwe kwisitalato kwaye wambona umphangi, incwadi yephupha yeLongo inikezela ezimbini iindlela zokukhetha ukuchazwa: isela elumkileyo nelingenasiphelo likuthembisa ukukhula kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, kwaye ukuhlaselwa ngokukhawuleza kubonisa ukulahleka okukhulu kwezinto eziphathekayo kwixesha elizayo.
- Umphuphi weTaflishi uphatha ukuphanga okanye ukweba kwiphupha laluphi na uhlobo lwepropati njengoko kuchaza inhlekelele enkulu. Ukuba lowo uphuphayo ngokwakhe usebenza njengomphangi, ngoko ke izenzo zakhe ezingenangqiqo kunye nezigqibo ezikhawulezayo ziya kuba neengxaki ezizayo.
Nangona ininzi yokuba ukutolika kwephupha elinjalo alibi, umntu akafanele alahle. Emva koko, amaphupha ayenjalo okufunekayo ukuba axwayise umntu malunga nobunzima obuzayo kwaye amnike ithuba lokuthatha amanyathelo afanelekileyo.