Sekunjalo kwimpumlo yoNyaka omtsha kwaye lixesha lokwenza isifiso. Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba amaphupho omnyaka omtsha kunye neKrismesi azaliseka. Mhlawumbi lixesha lokukholelwa kumlingo? Iphupha liyakunceda ukuqonda ukuba yiyiphi iminyaka esilindele. Kufuneka nje uchaze amaphupha akho ngokuchanekileyo. Ukuchazwa kwamaphupha okubhiyozelayo akufani nokuqhelekileyo.
Iiphupha lizaliseka nini?
Kukhohlwayo ukuba amaphupha ayenzeka kwi-Christmas Eve, iKrisimesi kunye noBhapathizo zizaliseka. Yonke iphupha inentsingiselo. Emva koko, malunga nomoya weeholide.
Iphupha lomnyaka omtsha ukususela ngoDisemba 31 ukuya kuDisemba 1 kubonisa ukuba ulindele kusasa kunyaka ozayo. Ngoko siyakhumbula ukuba laphupha kwaye lahlaziya ukulala kwethu.
I-Krismesi iya kunceda ukujonga kwikamva. Ngoko, ukuba liphupha ukuba izifiso zakho zizalisekile, ngoko zenzeke ngokwenene, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ngeliphi ixesha. Ukuba uphupha ukuba uya kufumana umsebenzi wephupha lakho ehlobo, ngoko kusehlotyeni ukuba umnqweno uya kuzaliseka.
Iiphupha likaKrismesi zibaluleke kakhulu. Emva kwayo yonke into, isiphephelo sitsho ukuba senze ntoni ukwenza ukuba iinqwenela zethu zizaliseke okanye njani ukukwenza ukuphepha ingxaki. Ngoko ke, iiphupha zeKrisimesi kufuneka zinikezelwe ingqalelo, zihlala zizaliseka. Ziyakwazi ukuzaliseka ngaphakathi kwenyanga okanye ngonyaka. Into ephambili kukuba ziprofeto.
Iphupha eliliphupha ngo-Eva yeKrisimesi lizaliseka zingangeenyanga ezintandathu. Kule miqathango, izenzo zethu neemvakalelo zibonakala. Siza kuqonda into esenza ngayo iphosakeleyo kwaye zeziphi izenzo ezifunekayo ukulungiswa. Azinxulumene neengxaki ezinzulu. Bavele baxelele iziganeko zethu eziqhelekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, ufumana i-bouquet evela kumntu othandekayo okanye imoto yakho yokuphuka.
Kodwa amaphupha e-Epiphany aya kuba nomdla kubo bonke abantu. Emva koko, lo busuku buya kuba liphupha ubomi bakho bonke. Eli phupha linokuzaliseka iminyaka eyi-10.
Xa amaphupha awaprofeto?
Kukho iintsuku apho amaphupha engathwali naluphi na ulwazi ngokwabo. Kungumqondo olula kwaye konke. Abaninzi bacinga ukuba kuMnyaka omtsha omdala, amaphupha ayiprofeto, kwaye i-nimozhno iyayiqonda ingxaki yabo. Kodwa ngeli xesha i-Old Age Year ayikho iholide sele ihlala kwikhalenda eyahlukileyo. Kwaye le holide yinto nje yokuhlangana nokubhiyozela. Ngoko ke, akufanele kulindelwe amaphupho oprofeti.
Akuyimfuneko ukutolika amaphupha aphupha ukusuka ku-1 ukuya kwi-Krismesi, kwaye ukususela ngo-8 ukuya ku-Eva. Eli lixesha apho amaphupha akho amaphupha nje. Kwaye akufuneki ukuba ukhange i-subtext. Jabulela iiholide kwaye ulale ngokwaneleyo. Makhe uphuphe iphupha elimnandi, elithambileyo neliphuphayo.
Amaphulo omnyaka omtsha
Awudingi ukukhumbula onke amaphupha. Ukuba iphupha nenyaniso zifanelekile ukunakwa, ngoko uya kuzikhumbula ngokukhawuleza. Yaye xa kukho nantoni na, iphupha lilibalekile. Ngoko ungakhathazeki, amaphupha abalulekileyo akayi kusuka kwimemori. Maxa wambi bahlala kwimemori yethu iintsuku ezimbalwa. Xa iphupha lihlala likumemori kwaye kusasa, kuyafaneleka ukuchaza ngokucacileyo nokucinga ngentsingiselo yalo.
Ukuba ubona iziganeko zeentsuku ezidlulileyo ephupheni, oko akunakucingelwa. Iphupha eliqhelekileyo elidlulileyo. Iqulethe ulwazi. Kodwa ukuba kukho umntu ongenakwenzeka ukuba angathathi nxaxheba kweso siganeko, oku kufuneka uqikelele. Kungenzeka ukuba uya kuthatha inxaxheba ebomini bakho. Inxaxheba ebalulekileyo inikwe yona okanye imbi, uya kufuneka ukwazi igama lakho.
Xa umntu ebona ama-nightmares ngo-Eva wonyaka omtsha, kuthetha ukuba wenza into engalunganga ebomini bakho kunye nexesha lokucinga ngalo. Kufuneka uzifumane kunye nendlela efanelekileyo. Kufuneka ulungise iimpazamo zobomi bakho. Kakade ke, ukuphazamiseka kwiphupha kungabangelwa ukuxiliswa ngokuqhelekileyo. Kule meko, akufanele uwathathe ngokoqobo.
Ukuba ngamaphupha ubona izalamane ezifile, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuphulaphula oko bathethayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo bayabathunywa bexesha elizayo kwaye basitshela into esilindeleyo ngaphambili. Mhlawumbi baya kunika icebo leengcebiso ekufuneka zithathwe.
Khangela indlela ovuswa ngayo ngoNyaka omtsha. Ixhomekeka kuyo kunye nenjongo yokulala. Ukuba umphefumlo unzima kwaye unobungozi, kwaye uphupha ukudabuka, mhlawumbi ukuxabisa kwawo akubi. Yaye yonke imifanekiso kufuneka ichazwe ngokuhlukileyo.
Amaphupho aprofeto
NgoNyaka omtsha unokuba ngumfuziselo kunye namaphupho esiprofeto. Iinguqu ezifanekisayo kufuneka zichazwe ngokwemiqulu -phupha, kodwa abaprofeti baya kuzaliseka kanye njengoko bekunjalo. Ngoko sikhumbula ukuba sasiphupha ngeeholide, kwaye siqala ukukhangela "kwincwadi yamaphupha."
Iphupha elisekelwe kwiziganeko zangempela kunye nabantu ebomini bakho kunokubhekwa njengesiprofeto. Phantse i-80% yokuba iphupha liya kuzaliseka kwaye liphinde lihlangane, into ayiyi kutshintsha. Omnye unokukwazi ukuchaneka okwenyaniso kwaye ulinde ukuzaliseka kwephupha.
Kodwa iphupha elifanekisayo lingabakho kwilizwe elimnandi. Siyakwazi ukuhamba kunye nemigca yezinto eziyinyaniso kunye nokuxhuma phezu kwexesha lokuphuphuma kwiphupha. Sihlangabezana nezidalwa nezilwanyana ezingekho. Sithetha nabo okanye sibaleke ... Senza izinto ezingaqhelekanga. Zonke ezi mqondiso zithetha into, kwaye kufuneka zijongwe ngumculi.
Ihlabathi lamaphupha liyakwazi ukutyhila ikhefu lokwenyani kuthi kwaye lisibonise oko kusenzele. Mhlawumbi umntu othandekayo uya kuphula intliziyo yethu okanye umhlobo uthengise. Kodwa siya kukulungele oku. Musa ukoyika intsingiselo yobuthongo. Basikhokela endleleni efanelekileyo kwaye balungiselela ikamva. Ungatshintsha ubomi bakho kube ngcono, ukuba uyazi ukuba ulindele ntoni.