Ukhulelwe, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna ukwazi ngaphambili ngubani oza kuzalelwa, inkwenkwana okanye intombazana. Kakade ke, kukho indlela yanamhlanje yokuxilongwa kwezesondo zomntwana - i-ultrasound okanye, ngamanye amazwi, ukuxilongwa kwe-postinatal. Kodwa siya kuthetha kancinci malunga nokubona kwangaphambili ngesondo somntwana ozayo - malunga namaphupha omama ozayo.
Ewe, enyanisweni, kukho amaphupha amabhinqa akhulelweyo azimisela isondo somntwana. Yintoni enye intokazi eyokuphupha ngayo kwiimeko ezithetha ngenkwenkwe okanye intombazana emathunzini?
Ukukholelwa kumaphupha kunye nokuxilonga ngesondo somntwana ngabo yindlela endala yabantu abadlulileyo kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana. Ngamanye amaxesha abafazi abakhulelweyo baphupha abantwana babo kwikamva, kwaye ephupheni babona abo bazalwa nabo, inkwenkwe okanye intombazana. Iphupha elinjalo ndiliphupha (lokwenyaniso, ngenxa yomsindo ophezulu, ndandisele ndiyazi ngesondo sekusasa lami). Ndaphupha ngentombi yam, ukuba wayelele njani kwisibhedlele, kwiingubo ezincinci. Emva kwexesha elithile, emva kokuzalwa komntwana wam, ndabona umfanekiso wangempela ndibonayo kwiphupha. Ukuba ndikhulelwe, ndaphupha intombazana yam njengoko wayekho, emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa emva kokuzalwa.
Bathi abafazi abakhulelweyo bahlala bephupha ukuba baloba. Umama waphupha ukuba yena noyise bathabathe isidumbu se-crucian, ngokuba ngumzalwana okhulelwe. Kodwa, elinde mna phantsi kwentliziyo yam, waphupha yehobe, eyayiza kuye. Ngendlela, ndaphinde ndaphupha ngentaka, ngokugqithiseleyo ngokutya-kwaye intombi yam yazalwa!
Oomkhulu bandixelele ukuba ukuba iringe iphupha - kuya kuba nentombazana, isela liphupha - kuya kuba nekhwenkwe. Kwaye ndiphinde ndikhumbule ukukhulelwa kwam. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba ubaba wasweleka iintsuku ezili-10 ngaphambi kokuzalwa, kwaye ngomhla wesithoba ndafumana iphupha, indlela endipha ngayo indandatho ngala mazwi: "Uvuyo lwentombi, ntombi!" Ephupheni, ndacinga ukuba ndibe nomhla wokuzalwa ngo-Oktobha ... Xa ndavuka, ndaqonda yonke into. Utata wam esele wandivuyela ngokuzalwa kwintombi yam yomsasa, wandinika indandatho njengesibonakaliso sokuthi i-heiress yakhe iya kuzalwa.
Ndisoloko ndiphupha ngokubeletha, inkqubo ngokwayo. Nangona, ukuhlalutya le ngxaki ukusuka kwimbono yengqondo, oku akuyiyo into eqhelekileyo.
Kuyaziwa ukuba ngexesha lokukhulelwa, amaphupha abe ngakumbi ngokucacileyo, azalisekile, ayenomzwelo, anemibala. Owesifazane okhulelwe unokufumana intuition engaphezulu kunokuba yenziwe, ngenxa yoko amaphupho okuprofetha ahlala ebonakala. Ngokuqhelekileyo umfazi ngokwakhe uvakalelwa ukuba uya kuba nobani, inkwenkwe okanye intombazana, ngaphandle kokufumana izifo. Iingcamango ziyimpawu ezifanelekileyo kulo mbandela. Kwaye, ukuba uphupha umntwana wakho wekamva, inkwenkwana okanye intombazana ephupha kwiimeko ezingama-90% zihambelana ngesondo somntwana kwixesha elizayo.
Iingcamango ezikunceda ukucacisa umfazi, isondo somntwana wakhe wekamva kuninzi kakhulu, kodwa bonke bahamba ngendlela yabo. Akukho festile ethile kubo bonke. Ukucacisa iphupha, kuyimfuneko ukwazi le ntokazi ngokukodwa, umlingani wakhe kunye nezinto eziza kuqala zokulala. Ukusuka kwam amava ndiza kuthetha ukuba akukho mntu ungcono kunokuba uya kuzichaza ngamaphupha akho. Intuition efanayo iya kuza kuncedwa.
Ukuba umfazi engamazi ngokukhulelwa kwakhe, ngoko uya kuphupha malunga nendlela yena okanye omnye umfazi ukhulelwe ngayo, unokuphupha iintlanzi, iintaka, intaka okanye indlela ethatha ngayo izandla zentsana. Konke oku kuchazwa ngenguqu eguqukileyo emzimbeni, ephantsi kwinqanaba elingaphantsi kwamaphupha lichaza malunga noshintsho oluye lwafika. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo amaphupha anjalo abonwa ngabasetyhini, abafuna ukukhulelwa nokucetywa.
Yintoni umntwana kunye nesondo lwakhe empeleni kuthetha kwiphupha? Umntwana ophuphayo, okokuqala, ubonisa ukulindela okanye amava omama ozayo. Inkwenkwana okanye intombazana, igama lomntwana, ukubonakala kwakhe umfazi ubona ephupheni ngenxa yezinto eziphathekayo zomzimba, ngokukodwa kwi-hormonal, ukulungiswa komzimba. Kodwa inyaniso ihlala: intuition intuition yowesifazane ngeli xesha lobomi bakhe linika ingqiqo ephantse echanekileyo malunga ne "puzozhitelya" yakhe engaqondakaliyo neyodwa. Ukuba ukhulelwe - phulaphula intliziyo yakho, jonga amaphupha akho kwaye wena, ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kufunda ezininzi ngekamva lakho "ummangaliso omncinci", kuba phakathi kwakho unxibelelwano oluqinileyo olungabonakaliyo ukusuka ekukhulelweni nasekufeni ...