Iholide zentsapho ngexesha leeholide zihlala zifuna ukuchitha ixesha elingenakulibaleka, inomphefumlo nomzimba. Kule nto okokuqala ufuna ukugqiba ukuba yiyiphi iholide ehlobo: ukubonakalisa amatsha, amathuba okuchitha ixesha phakathi kweentsapho zakho, iholide enokuthula elwandle okanye ukufumana ukugqithisa okukhulu kwi-skiing downhill. Emva kokulinganisa zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki kunye nokuqwalasela iimfuno zelungu ngalinye losapho, umntu unokukwazi ukuqhubeka ngokukhuselekileyo kunye nokucwangciswa kwabanye.
Uninzi lwabantu luqala ukucwangcisa iholide yeholide ngexesha leeholide, ngokukhawuleza emva kokuphela kwehlobo lasekuqaleni. Ngokukodwa ezi zicwangciso zixhalabisayo ngabantwana abakho ngexesha leeholide kufuneka balondoloze ngokunyanisekileyo ngaphambi konyaka wesikolo kunye nemikhosi emitsha baze bafumane umbane onamandla.
Iholide yentsapho kunye nempawu zayo
Ukuba uceba ukuchitha iholide ngexesha leeholide enentsapho epheleleyo, lungiselela yonke intsapho ngokuqokelela ibhunga lentsapho. Hlanganisa kunye neenqwelo zeenkampani zokuhamba, uze uthelekise iminqweno yakho ngamathuba (okwenene, imali). Ngendlela, iindlela zokuhamba ezinomdla zingabonakaliswa kwaye zihlanganiswe ngokuzimela, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa iinkonzo zendlela yokuhamba.
Ukuphumla kwabantwana ngeeholide
Abantwana bokuphumla kufuneka bacetywe lonke ixesha lekhefu. Kungenzeka ukuba kwelinye leenyanga zasehlotyeni umntwana angathunyelwa kwikampu yempilo ekhethekileyo apho umntwana, ephantsi kolawulo lwabacebisi, uya kuchitha ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye neenzuzo zezempilo ezifumana abahlobo abatsha nabanomdla. Ezi nkampu, njengomgaqo, zinokuqhelaniswa neendlela zokuphucula kunye nokucwaswa kwabantwana, kodwa ziphuhlise ngokomoya. Ngoko iimvakalelo kunye nembonakalo emnandi yomntwana uya kunikwa kuze kube sekupheleni kweeholide.
Ngendlela, umba weemvume ugqityiweyo kwindawo yomsebenzi wabazali, apho ungayithenga khona okanye uyilungise. Kwanele ukufaka isicelo kule komiti yenyunyana yamanyano okanye nakweyiphi na indawo yamaziko okukhusela abantu okanye i-"Family" isikhungo.
Ngoxa umntwana wakho uya kuphumla eenkampu zasehlotyeni, unokuziphumla ngokwakho. Ngokukodwa kuya kunceda ezo ntsapho ezijongene nobunzima obubudlelwane.
Ukuhlala kunye nosapho lonke
Kungekudala kamva umntwana uya kubuya emkampini kwaye ngoku kufuneka ucinge ngokuphumla kwentsapho kunye naye. Kutheni ungayi eholide ukuya epakini yamanzi ethandwa kakhulu okanye uye kwindawo enqwenelekayo apho unokukhwela izinto ezikhangayo? Kunokuba ungahlali ujabule, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kukhunjulwa ixesha elide. Ngendlela, ungaya kulolu hambo ngoncedo lwevawutsha okanye indlela emelekileyo.
Enye inketho enkulu kwiholide yentsapho, eya kukukholisa kokubili abantwana kunye nabantu abadala, luhambo lwabo lonke ulwandle olwandle. Ngaba usho ngokuthobeka? Hayi, siya. Iholide leyo inikeza ithuba elihle kubantwana kunye nabazali babo ukuba bafumane iimvakalelo ezintle, belele phantsi kwelanga lehlobo elisezantsi kunye nokuhlamba elwandle olufudumeleyo. Ngendlela, uya kuphucula impilo yakho, kwaye uza kuvula amandla kunyaka ozayo.
Musa ukulibala malunga neentsapho zeentambo, ezinokubandakanya isethi yonke yokuzonwabisa kunye neentaba ezingalibalekiyo. Kungaba, umzekelo, uhambo oluya kwiintaba okanye nakwihlathi eliseduze neentente, unokuphila iintsuku eziliqela, into eyona nto kukugcina ukutya kunye namanzi ngokupheleleyo. Iholide enokubandakanya ukuloba, isobho lokupheka kwisibonda kunye nezinye iintlanga ziyakonwaba. Ngendlela, abantwana bathanda kakhulu ukuphumla okunjalo, ngokukodwa kubafana, abaya kuvuyisa kakhulu ukunceda uyise intlanzi, benze i-shba kebabs okanye bathathe iinkuni zomlilo.
Kwaye ukhetho lokugqibela, olunokuthi lukhanyise ikhefu lentsapho - uhambo oluya kwidolophana ukuya kwiintsapho (ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba kukho, kunjalo, kukho). Ngokuvisisanayo, yiphi enye indawo onokuphumla ngokukhuselekileyo yonke intsapho evela kwidolophu, njengokungathi kungekho kwidolophana apho ubomi buhamba kwikhosi yayo engaphili. Iiveki ezimbalwa zeeholide ezinjalo ziya kukhunjulwa ngokuqinisekileyo kuwe kwaye ziza kunika amandla amatsha phambi kokuqala kwemihla yokusebenza, kunye nomntwana ngaphambi kwesikolo!