Ziyabukeka njani izindlu ezonakalisiweyo?
Ukuba ephupheni lakhe umntu ubonayo ngokubanzi ngemvume yekhaya lakhe, ngoko nguphawu olubi kakhulu, njengoko lufuzisela utshintsho oluthe gqithiso lwebhodi lobomi olubi kakhulu. Kungangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba utshintsho luya kubangelwa ukungahambelani kunye nokungasebenzi komphuphi. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, amaphupha anjalo alandelwa ngongomahluko kwizondlo kunye nobomi babo.
Kwimeko apho umphuphi ngokwakhe wayengumqali wokutshatyalaliswa kwendlu kwaye wayithatha inxaxheba kuyo (ukuxubha izindonga, ukubetha ngeefestile, njl njl), oku kubonisa ukuqina nokuqina kwamagunya, loo mntu akayi kuyeka nayiphi na ubunzima kwaye uya kuhlala efuna efunwayo. Iphupha elinjalo linikwe amandla akhethekileyo, ukuba indlu yayigxininise kwi siseko kunye neendonga ezinamandla.
Ziziphi imifanekiso eyahlukileyo yezindlu ezonakalisiweyo
Ukubona kwiphupha lakho ukutshatyalaliswa kwendlu edibeneyo kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kujamelana neengxaki zemali, mhlawumbi kwintlupheko. Kodwa kuyafaneleka ukuba sicinge ukuba umntu ojongene nazo zonke iingxaki uya kuba wena, kungekhona iimeko, ngoko uzama ukubonisa isimo sengqondo esingakumbi sokusebenza kunye nobomi bakho ngokubanzi.
Ukuwa okungaqondakaliyo kweendonga okanye uphahla lwendlu entsha kukubonakalisa ukuba bonke abo babekunike inkxaso ngoncedo kunye nenkxaso ngokukhawuleza baya kutshintsha. Zama emva kokuba leli phupha lingalonakalisi ubudlelwane kunye nabani na, ngaphantsi kokuziqhayisa nokunyaniseka.
Efumaneka kwindawo yokuhlala ngexesha lokutshatyalaliswa kwayo, ityhilwa njengesilumkiso seengozi. Kwakhona, indlu yokuwa ephupheni ingabonakalisa inkathazo ebalulekileyo, umzekelo, ukuxothwa, ukwahlukanisa okanye ukulwa.
Umbala womzwelo
Ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo kufuneka ihlawulwe kwiimvakalelo zakho, owazifumana kulo iphupha. Ngoko, umzekelo, ukuba uziva ukwesaba nokuphelelwa lithemba ngexesha lokutshatyalaliswa kwekhaya lakho, oku kubonisa ukuba awukwazi ukumelana neengxaki zobomi kunye neengxaki.
Ukuze ujongele into yokuba uye waba ngubufakazi bokuzibonela loo mfanekiso kuchaza ukuba umzimba wakho unobuthakathaka kakhulu kwaye, mhlawumbi, unesifo esibi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amaphupha anjalo abonwa ngabantu abaye bafumanisa ukuba banezicubu ezibi.
Ukuba indlu ephuphayo yaphupha kwaye lesi siganeko sakwenza wakhala, ukutolika kungenziwa kabini. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, nayiphi na intshabalalo kunye nokuwa kuwuphawu lweengxaki ngempilo, ukungafani kunye nentlupheko. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, khala i-harbinger yovuyo olukhawulezayo ebomini bokwenene.
Njengomthetho, amaphupha okutshatyalaliswa aphupha ngalabo bantu bazama ukubhukuda kunye nokukhupha kwaye ngokukodwa abachasani iingxaki zobomi. Kodwa oku kungumqondiso ocacileyo kwinto ofuna ukuba utshintshe wena kunye nendlela yakho kule nto okanye kuloo meko. Cinga ngako!