Kutheni amantombazana ezama ukuhlala ehle?

Umxholo wobuhle uchaphazelekayo bonke abantu. Kakade, wonke umntu ufuna ukuba mnandi. Ngokukodwa esi sihloko sikhathazeke, ngokuqinisekileyo, isiqingatha esihle sabantu. Kutheni amantombazana ezama ukuhlala ehle? Ziintombi ezithintela ukubaluleka ngokubaluleka kwazo xa zifezekisa iinjongo zabo zobomi.

Kulo lonke uluntu lwaseYurophu, ngokuphindaphindiweyo abantu banokubonakala kwizitrato zezixeko, abaye baphawula ngokupheleleyo indlela abagqoka ngayo. Kubonakala ngathi ukongeza kwiikhati, ijee kunye nabancibi - ezinye iimpahla azikho. Kodwa oku akusebenzi kuwo wonke umntu. Kukho iimpawu ezifuna ukuhlala zihle. Kutheni amantombazana efuna ukuba mnandi? Yiyiphi iphosayo kule nto? Kwimimandla yanamhlanje kukho iingxaki ezininzi kangangokuba ngamanye amaxesha uyalibala ukuba igama lakho liphi. Kodwa, nangona kukho iingxaki, kukho nabasetyhini abafumana ixesha, abengabonakali njengendoda. Kwaye ukugxotha kuwo akukho nto engaphantsi kwamadoda ngokwawo. Kungenxa yabantu, ngokubanzi, amantombazana ahlala efuna ukuba mnandi.

Ukugqoka, iingubo zokugqibela eziqokelelwe ngabaqulunqi befashoni abadumileyo, ukwenza i-styles fashionable, bechitha iiyure ezinde kwi-hairdresser ukuze baqhube, ukuze bahlale behle. Amantombazana amahle ahlala efunwa kuluntu. Ndingathanda ukugxininisa ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, indoda iya kunika ulonwabo ngakumbi ekunxibelelana nomfazi ohlambulukileyo, egqoke kakuhle, egqoke, egxininisekanga nje kuphela, kodwa isithunzi sakhe, kunokugqithiseleyo kwindoda ehamba ngebhayisikili, i-jeans kunye ne-sneakers. Kodwa ngaba senza oku nje ngabantu? Ukuba oku kunjalo kwaye ndifuna ukubuza umbuzo we-counter-ithetha ukuba, siyazikhathalela, sigqoke kakuhle, sihlala iiyure ezinde kwii-salons nakwezinye iindawo apho kunokwenzeka ukuzisa ubuhle.

Umsebenzi owonayo, emva kokutya okumnandi kwindawo yokutyela, ukuxhasa isiqhelo. Ngaba konke oku kumadoda kuphela? Mhlawumbi, akunjalo yonke into kwaye akusoloko ihlala kumadoda. Okokuqala, zonke iintombazana zifuna ukuba zihlale zihle kwaye zilungele. Ndijonge kwisibuko, ndifuna ukubona umboniso omuhle kuyo, kwaye kungekhona i-zamihryshechku embi. Okwesibini, imbeko idinga oku, ubuncinane lo mgaqo-nkqubo wamaxesha asekude amazwe aseCIS kunye neRashiya. Kwaye, okwesithathu, ubuhle bangaphandle abubaluleke kakhulu, kubaninzi, ubuhle bangaphakathi bubaluleke kakhulu. Imilenze ende, iingubo ezintle, i-makeup enhle, u-manicure and pedicure efanelekileyo, kufuneka uvumelane, konke oku akuko kuntle ukuba akukho buhle obungaphakathi. Emva koko, ubuhle bokwenene buhlala bunxulumene nobuhle, obuphuma kwi nutria.

Ngelishwa akubona onke amantombazana amahle kwaye akayi kuqonda njalo le nto. Ukuzama ukuhlala ube mnandi , abaninzi bayakulibala ngobuhle babo bangaphakathi kwaye baba zidoli. Ngokomlinganiselo omkhulu, ibinzana lokugqibela libuhlungu, liyinyani, ubomi. Emva kokufunda amaphephancwadi amafashini, ukudala umfanekiso wefestile, ubuhle obuninzi abukhumbuli nakumxholo wabo wangaphakathi. Ngoko kutheni amantombazana efuna ukuba mnandi? Ndingathanda ukukholelwa ukuba kungekhona kuphela ubuhle bayo bangaphandle.

Emva koko, kwintlalo yanamhlanje kuye kwaba yimfashini kungekhona nje ukufumana imfundo ephakamileyo, kodwa nokufumana umsebenzi omhle. Kwaye ukuze ufumane le ndawo kufuneka ube phezulu. Ekuphakameni kokungaphandle nje, kodwa ngaphakathi. Ehlabathini lethu, abaninzi abaqeshi abaqashi, beza emsebenzini, okokuqala koyiko uya kukhubeka ekukhangeleni umqeshi wakho. Kwaye ukuba umqeshi ungumfazi, le mbono iya kuba yomelele kabini. Mhlawumbi, kuba le ntombazana ihlala ifuna ukuba yinto enhle. Ukususela kwisiqubulo somntu wanamhlanje kwiintombazana zanamhlanje: "Ubuhle kuyisitshixo ekuphumeleleni."