Amadoda amaninzi ukudonsa kwivenkile akunakwenzeka. Igama elithi "ukuyothengisa" lenza ukuba bahlulwe. Ewe, ininzi yethu ayiyiqondi indlela onokuyibona ngayo ibhola okanye ibhola yeeyure. Ngaba kuyafaneleka ukuba umntu othandekayo ahlupheke? Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ewe, hayi, kodwa kwenye ...
Ngaphambi koNyaka omtsha ukuthenga izipho kuzo zonke izalamane kunye nabahlobo, ukubeka impahla kwimveliso yeqela, kunye nazo zonke iiholide. Kwaye ukuphumeza oku ngaphandle koncedo lomlingane kunzima kakhulu. Okokuqala, yedwa awunako ukufumana wonke umntu ekhaya. Kwaye, okwesibini, ukuba unina okanye umphathi akuthandi okwangoku, makhe aphendule!
Beka iinjongo ezithile
Abafazi baqhelaniswe ngokufanelekileyo "emhlabathini." Umzekelo, siya kwivenkile ngenjongo - ukuthenga inqabana yomhlobo. Kodwa, xa singaboni nto ifanelekileyo, sinokutshintsha lula "isikhokelo" kwaye sithenge isikhwama. Ngokuba umamazala kunokuba imimoya izithenge izicathulo, kunye namacici oodade "aphendule" abekwe itiye. Yintoni eyakhangayo, yathatha.
Into ephambili kukuba isipho sisuka entliziyweni.
Le ndoda kufuneka yazi kakuhle ukuba kutheni esitolo. Imifanekiso "Siza kuthenga into ..." akayithathi ingqalelo. Kwaye kuya kuqondwa. Khawucinge, uxelela umphathi ukuba uza kwenza "ingxelo" ethile. Kunzima ukucinga ukuba uza kuthini ukuphendula kwakhe! Kubantu, ukuthengwa akuyonto, kodwa umsebenzi onzima.
Phambi kokuzulazula ngeenxa zonke ezithengeni ukujonga, uthinte, uthinte, uthinte, uqhathanise, uqhathanise. Unqume oko kufuneke ukuba uthenge. Yenza uluhlu uze uzame ukunamathela kuyo. Kwaye emva koko ungathatha umyeni wakho kunye nawe kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uyomkhokelela kwiirimenti ezifanelekileyo.
Abancedisi ababalaseleyo kulo mthengi othengayo. Fumana kwisayithi into oceba ukuyithenga. Bonisa umlingane wakho okhethiweyo, ncokola naye. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuthenga izixhobo zasemakhaya, ke uthembele ukukhangela umyeni wakhe: uya kuqhathanisa ubuncwane kunye nokuphazamiseka kwazo zonke iimodeli, amaxabiso, umgangatho kunye nokubonakala.
Unokuyalela ukuhanjiswa kweempahla ekhaya okanye ukuya kwisitolo. Ngendlela, emva kokuqhelana okokuqala kunye nokuqhagamshelanisa, indoda iya kuba lula ukuvuma ukuthenga, kuba, ngoku, unenjongo ethile. Ngaphezu koko, sele sele eqikelele zonke iinguqu, kwaye kumadoda akukho nto ebhetele kunokuba uzive njengomntu ongeyonto ethile kwimiba ethile.
Musa ukuyichukumisa inkwenkwe yam!
Kakade, nathi asifuni ukunyuka phakathi kwezihlwele zabantu. Kodwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, uhlutha xa kuthengiswa ikopi yokugqibela yokuthengisa yomntu ukusuka phantsi kwempumlo yakho - oko kungcono! Yile ndlela onokuyenza ngayo intanda yakho intengiso kunye nawe.
Amadoda kwisihlwele alahlekelwa ngokupheleleyo. Ingxolo, isidlo, ukubethekisa kuthatha into ecindezelekileyo kubo. Ngoko ke, zama ukuphuma kwintengiso xa kunokwenzeka, xa kungekho baninzi abantu kubo. Le yehora yentsasa nakusasa.
Ukuba ukhetha okuthile ngokwakho, unokwenza umhlobo wakho ukuba alinde wena emotweni okanye uhlale kwi-cafe.
Nciphise ixesha lokuthenga. Ukuba unethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo nje ngeyure - sebenzisa ngeli xesha ukuthenga okuyisiseko, kwaye uza kukhetha izinto ezincinane ngokwakho, elinye ixesha. Eqonda ukuba akuyikrele kwaye inzima, ngelixesha elizayo uya kuhlala ixesha elide.
Awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwakho ...
Ngubani umyeni wakho uziva ngexesha lokuthenga? I-porter, isikhwama sokuhamba, isikhombisi esingayichazi imibala, ubungakanani, imizekelo? Ukuba kunjalo, ngaba kuyamangalisa ukuba uyazizonda uhambo lokuhamba kunye nayo yonke imicu yomphefumlo wakhe?
Qinisekisa umyeni wakho ukuba ufuna ngokwenene icebiso lakhe: "Ngaphandle kwakho, ntanda, ndiya kuthenga oku!"
Ngethamsanqa, ininzi yamadoda ingaphezulu okanye ikhululekile ukuthenga. Abanye bethanda ukuthenga ngaphandle kobafazi babo - kulula kakhulu kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Into eyona nto ebhala ngayo uluhlu olubanzi lweempahla (ebonisa inombolo). Ngaphandle kwephepha "ukukopela" indoda ingabuyela ekhaya nge ketchup enye.
Kwaye emva kokuba esithwale iiphakheji ezininzi zokutya, musa ukususa zonke izidlo ezinqabileyo kwiqrijini. Yenza umyeni wakho izitya zakho ezizithandayo. Kwaye ngaphandle kwemimoya, vumela ukuhlwa wonke kwibhola yezemidlalo okanye udlale kunye nabahlobo bakho kwi-bowling. Ngendlela, uya kuba nethuba elihle lokuphinda ubuyeke ukuthenga konke. Ukuba iqabane lifumana "umvuzo" wokuthenga, uya kuthanda ... phantse uyayithanda!
Zininzi izilingo ...
Ukuze uthengise ngokubambisana ukuze uzonwabisayo bobabini, akufanele ufune umyeni wakho, kodwa uzame ngazo zonke iindlela. Ukuba unomculi womculo, qiniseka ukuba uhlolisise isebe ngeCDs - mabaye bazalise iqoqo labo ngee-albhamu ezintsha. Kwaye mhlawumbi sele efuna ukuthenga isihlaziyizi okanye i-headphone - yisikhathi sokwenza. Khumbula: indoda ngumntwana omkhulu, omele athathwe ngumdlalo. Kwaye udla ngokucebisa icebiso lakhe, nokuba wena ngokwakho uwazi kakuhle kwiifowuni, iifoni kunye neTV. Kuyamnandi ukuba nantoni na ekhanye ngolwazi lwakhe, ngakumbi nabangaphandle. Iindlela ezinjalo ezintle ziyiyo sindiso lokwenene kubo bobabini.