Yintoni enokuyilindela ukuba uyalunywa yinja ephupheni?
Ukuba ukuluma kwawela esandleni sakho, ngoko uyazama ukukhusela ukuhlaselwa. Ngoko ebomini bokwenene: uya kulwa ukuze ufezekise injongo, kodwa abantu oya kuba nako ukujamelana nabo baya kukumangalisa ngokungahambi.
Ukuba isilwanyana sihlaba umlenze, akusiyo nje isixwayiso malunga neengcambu zeentshaba, kodwa inkcazo ngokubanzi malunga nokuba baya kuzama ukukulimaza njani. Kungenzeka ukuba, abacebisi baya kuzama ukunqothula umhlaba wakho ngaphantsi kweenyawo zakho ukuphula ishishini lakho okanye ukutshabalalisa umsebenzi wakho.
Inja emnyama ikubetha into embi. Qiniseka ukuba uyayithobela le ngcaciso ukuze ukhusele iingxaki kwixesha elizayo. Inyaniso kukuba isilwanyana esinobukrakra balo mbala sibonisa ukuba omnye wabahlobo bakho akwenyanzelanga kwaye ulindele nje ukuba umzuzu olungele ukujongana nendlela yokuzimela.
Iinguqulelo ezidumileyo
- Kwincwadi yephupha kaMiller ibhaliwe ukuba abantu abavusa ukuba bangaziwayo ngokupheleleyo kwiqela elikhulu labantu babona amaphupho anjalo. Ukungaphumeleli kuya kuhamba kunye nomphuphi kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi: kokubili emsebenzini nasemakhaya. Ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo kufuneka ihlawulwe kubantu abaqhelana nabo, kuba umntu ocingayo ukuba ungumhlobo wakho omhle uya kuba ngulotshaba oza kulinda nje ukuba ityala lenze ngcono imeko yakho esele ibuhlungu, isasaza iindlebe.
- Ngaba ubonile inja ehlabayo okanye ehlambalayo ikubetha? Zama ukudibanisa kwimeko yokuthula. Inyaniso kukuba kuwe kuza ixesha leengxabano ezandisiweyo kwaye unokuxabana nabanye ngeenxa zonke. Kubalulekile ukuba uzame ukuzigcina uqobo, njengoko iingxabano ezingabonakaliyo ziya kubonakaliswa kakubi kwiindawo zobomi ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
- Ukuba isilwanyana sikubethele egazini, iingxaki zekamva ziyakhathalela enye yezihlobo. Kungenzeka ukuba uya kudanisa umntu osapho lwakho. Ulindele ukukhohlisa okanye ukukhwabanisa.
- Ukubona indlela inja ihlaba ngayo ikati, ithi umphuphi ulinde ixesha leengxaki ezincinci kunye nobunzima. Zonke izicwangciso zakho azikwazi ukuzenza ngenxa yemo yobomi. Ngoko ke, incwadi yephupha ikhuthaza ukuhlehliswa kwesigqibo seemeko ezibalulekileyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
- Isilwanyana esincinci, simise ngokukhawuleza kwaye sikubetha, sithi kufuneka ubuyekeze ukuziphatha kwakho. Unokubandezeleka kakhulu kwiqhayiya lakho kunye nokunyanzeliswa kwabadlali bakho.
- Inja enkulu, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ithi uninzi kakhulu unethemba lokuncediswa ngumphathi onamandla.
- Isilwanyana esimhlophe sisilumkiso. Umntu osondelene nawe usebenzisa iinjongo zakhe kwaye wenza into embi kakhulu kule nto. Imiphumo yayo awuyi kuva, kodwa ukuhlala okungahambi kakuhle kuya kuhlala iminyaka emininzi.
- Ukuhlaselwa nokubetha inja yi-harbinger yeengxaki ezizayo. Ukuba oko kwenzeka kumphuphi, iingxaki ziya kuwela kuye, kwaye xa ixhoba eliphambili ngumntu osuka kwizihlobo okanye ngabahlobo, ngoko kufuneka balungiselele iingxaki.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, isimo sengqondo esinobudlova 'somhlobo womntu' ephupheni sibonakalisa kakhulu. Akufanele uwutyeshele loo mboniso, ngenxa yokuba ukukhanya kwakho kukhange kube nzima kakhulu imeko esele idangele.