Ngako oko, abafana abanobukrakra, ukuba abayikusihlawulela ngokupheleleyo kwisixa-mali, ngokuqinisekileyo bayabangela ukuba sibe nomdla omkhulu kunye nomnqweno wokufikelela kwilizwe labo elingaphakathi, ukuvusa ubuncinane iimvakalelo ezithile. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo abanye abantu babonakala nje bebukeka bebuhlungu ngokukodwa. Enyanisweni bazama nje oku, sinokuthi, umfanekiso onzima womntu awukucinga nje kuphela, kodwa nendlela yokuphila. Sinokukwazi ukwahlula njani, ngokupheleleyo kweli gama, ummeli onobundlobongela obuqinileyo besini?
I-pseudobrutality: xelisa yonke imiphumo
Yonke intokazi kufuneka ikhumbule ukuba akufuneki kuphela ukuba sidlale indima ezahlukileyo - amadoda analo talente ehlukileyo ngokupheleleyo kulo mbandela. Kungenxa yesi sizathu sinobubi kunokuthi sitshathwe nje. Masingazama ukubeka umgca phakathi kwezi ngcamango ezimbini. Eyokuqala, kubalulekile ukucacisa inkcazo yendoda enobuthathaka, oko kukuthi, ukuba uyintoni isizathu sokuba ubizwa kanjalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, le ngcamango ifaniswa nokunyaniseka kunye nobukrakra, kodwa ngokubanzi kwenkcazo yegama, eli lizayo liyabhubha ngokukhawuleza. Ukongeza kuzo zonke izinto, loo mntu uhlala ephazamisekile emkhatsini wemfihlakalo kunye nemfihlakalo. La madoda anamaphuzu angama-100 obugcisa beentliziyo zabesetyhini.
I-Charm kunye nokungaziphathi kakuhle yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kubafana ababi. Ukuhamba okanye ukufihla loo mntu kunzima kakhulu, kodwa ukumxelela "akukho!" Ngaba kunzima nakakhulu. Nangona ukususela ekuqaleni komnxibelelwano onjalo umqhubi unomsindo ngokukrakra kwayo, ngoko emva kwexesha iimo sengqondo ngokubhekiselele kuyo iguquka ngokukhawuleza kwaye iya kwinqanaba elincomekayo. Yonke inkohlakalo ebonakalayo iqala ukufumana uhlobo lobuninzi kunye nokuzithemba.
Iingenelo kunye namalungelo omkhonto onobunzima
Amadoda anjalo athembeke kakhulu (ungatsho ngokuphepha, kuzo zonke iimeko). Xa ecaleni kwendoda enjalo, le ntokazi injengewodonga lwamatye. Ngamaxesha amaninzi abameleli besondo esomeleleyo abanakuchukumisi imfesane kwabanye, ngokukodwa ngabazali bentombazana. Eyokuqala, ukukhwabanisa nokukhwabanisa, ngokuqinisekileyo, iyabuya .Abanye abantu baqala ukufihla umsindo nomona, ngenxa yokuba abanalo luhlobo oluxabisekileyo lokuba amadoda angamahloni anesimo esinobungakanani anakho okwaneleyo. Abaselula abavumelani nalokhu ehlabathini, bephikisana nokuziphatha kwabo ngokukhathazeka kakhulu ngeemvakalelo nokukhuselwa kwentombazana, kuba ecaleni kwayo yiyo, nokuba kude, ayifani nomfanekiso wesikhulu kwihashe elimhlophe okanye kwindoda.
Umdlalo weVulgarity
Amadoda aseBrutal akakhombisi ukushiya kwaye aqondise inkohliso kunye nokunyaniseka. Bazifihla kweso lesibini. Ukubonakaliswa kwezi zibi kukuchasene ngokugqithisileyo. Ihavalier enobuqhetseba ibhekana ngokucacileyo. Ihashe lakhe elingaqhelekanga lizama ukuhlambalaza nokuhlazisa, kwaye yenza njalo ngokuncedisa amahlaya angakhethiyo kunye neengxelo kwidilesi yomntu. Uninzi lwazo zonke, lubonakala, xa umfana efika kwinkampani yamadoda athile. Yaye ukuba bonke abanye bebancinci okanye banesimo esiphantsi sentlalo, kulandela ukuba lo mntu uqala ukuziva ungokoqobo. Kodwa kwimeko apho umntu omtsha eqala ukukrokrela okanye uqaphele ngokucacileyo ukuba inkampani iphendukele kuye, ngokukhawuleza "uyanciphisa amahashe" aze athathe ubuso bakhe bokwenene, abe ngumlingani olinganayo. Ngendlela, njengokuba kubonakaliswe isigwebo, abantu abancinci banjalo bahlala bekhawuleza ukuba baphumelele ukuba baziva ukuba le nto ayiphenduki.
Izibhengezo
I-pseudobrotal inokuya phantse yonke into engaphezulu, i-kprimeru, ingabonakali iliso ukucaphukisa umfazi okanye, nakakhulu nakakhulu, ukuphakamisa isandla esingenalutho. Ngoko babonisa ukunyaniseka kwabo nobukrakra. Kananjalo bazama rhoqo ukufumana isisulu ngenxa yezenzo zabo ngabantu abaphazamisayo kwaye banqobe imvume yokungavumiyo. Abafana abaneleyo, njengomthetho, musa ukunyamekela loo madoda angenakucala okanye ngenxa yemdla ngokuqhelekileyo bazama ukuwahambisa ekuhlambuleni amanzi. Ewe, amantombazana kule meko angakhokelela ngokwahlukileyo. Kukho amantombazana anjalo aqhubela phambili kule ntsebenzo, ngokukhawuleza ekhokelela kwiintlungu ezingenangqiqo kunye namava.
Indoda yindoda, engenazo izimonyo kunye ne-falseness
Ukulindela ibhinqa kwindoda enobuhlungu, eya kuphakamisa kuyo engekho ubuhle, ayifanelekanga, kuba akayi kuze akwenze. Loo mfana uhlala eyazi ukuba ufanelekile kwaye nangayiphi na imeko, ngenxa yesi sizathu sokuba akayi kukwazi ukugxotha umntwana ngeendlela zobuchule kunye neengcinga. Indoda enobuhlungu ihlala iziphatha kakuhle njengoko ikhululekile kwaye ikhululekile, ingaze ishintshe imodeli yokuziphatha kwayo imihla ngemihla. Ubunzima bomntu onobunzima buhlala bubonakalisa indlela yakhe yokuthetha kuphela, kodwa kunye nomgca wokugqoka nokuzigcina ngasiphi na umzuzu. Yonke into ehambelana kakuhle kwaye idibeneyo. Ngendlela, abaninzi baphosisa ukuba i-muzhiks enobukrakra ihlala izama ukubonakalisa njengabantu ababi - eqinisweni, oku kuphosakeleyo. Ukuphela kwexesha labo kunye nomkhwa wokuphila kukuba abayithobeli imvakalelo kwaye bahlala benza njengoko bafuna. Abameli abanjalo besondo esomeleleyo abanakuze benze into yokubonisa ubungqina babo besimo kunye namandla, kuba isimo sabo sobomi kukuba baqondwa njengokuba kunjalo, kuba umntu onobundlobongela uthembekile kwiintembelelo zakhe nakwiimbono zakhe!