Buyisela ubuhlobo kunye nomntu oyintanda

Kuze kube kutshanje, wena kunye nombono awuzange uvume ukuba indoda yakho ethandekayo ingashiya wena, kodwa umhlobo wam othandekayo onobuhlungu obufihlakeleyo emehlweni akhe uthi utshanje umfazi wakho othandekayo, onomlenze obomvu. Iinyembezi zifika kwamehlo kwangoko zingagunyaziswanga, umona kunye nokunyamezela kumphefumlo wam, kunye nentlungu evuthayo entliziyweni yam. Ingqondo ayinakucinezela ingcamango eyodwa: indlela yokubuyisela ubuhlobo, indlela yokuvuselela inzala yakho yokuqala? Enyanisweni, ubudlelwane kunye nentanda yakho kufuneka inikwe ixesha rhoqo, kodwa njengoko bethetha, "kude kube nokuduma kwezulu ...".

Kodwa, kholwani mna, kungekhona yonke into ebuhlungu kwaye le nkathazo ikulungiselelwe, kwanele ukulandela imithetho emininzi elula. Ukuba, ngokwenene, uyayifuna le ndoda.
Ngoko, lawula owodwa : ungakhathazeki! Emva kwakho konke, awuzange uhlukane okwamanje? Ngoko into ikugcina isondele kuwe. Kwaye oku kuyinto efuna ukugxininiswa nokuphuhliswa. Kwaye akukho ngandlela-thile ukuba ungabulungiseleli ama-hysteric and scandals - akukho mntu uthanda oku.
Akufuneki ukuthetha, ukubonakala kwakho, nokuba awuzange uyinike ingqwalasela efanele, kufuneka ube phezulu.

Ummiselo ombini : zama ukuyibiza ngenyameko kwingxoxo ephosakeleyo-ukuba ebantwini bayakhangayo kwaye kungenjalo, kwaye uzame ukunyamekela ubudlelwane. Ewe, eneneni, wakuxelela oku ekuqaleni kwencwadana kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo wayeyinto efanelekileyo, kodwa izihlandlo zitshintsha. Ngokusekelwe kwizimpendulo, yenza izigqibo.

Umthetho wesithathu : zama ukwenza umntu oyintanda ukumangaliswa, oko kukuthi, ukumangaliswa. Oku kungaba isimemo kwenye indawo yokudlela yasekuqaleni, isidlo esitsha esingenasidlangalaleni, esinikwe izibhengezo zayo zesisu-isaga sokuthi akukho mntu uphikile indlela eya entliziyweni yabameli besilisa ngesisu.

Kwaye kungcono ukuba utshintshe umfanekiso, kodwa kungabalulekanga - xa ubona entloko yakho, inwele ye "hair la" i-Iroquois "ayikwazi nje ukuyikisa indoda, kodwa iyakwenza ibe nokungabaza ukwanela kwakho. Ingqiqo enokuyenza ingenziwa ngokuthenga, umzekelo, ukukhwabanisa kwisitayela sokuthanda okanye ukuvumba komzimba. Inzala ebangelwayo iya kubangela i-lace entsha yengubo yangaphantsi kwengubo yangasese kwiziko lakho elikhohlisa.

Ngokubanzi, vavanya! Uya kunceda ukulwa nobudlelwane kunye nomntu obathandayo kunye nokubonakala kwento yokuzonwabisa entsha. Umzekelo, kutheni ungagxina ngeparachute kunye okanye ujoyine iqela le-flamenco. Ndikholelwe, ukuvuma, ukufudumala emva komdaniso ongcolileyo, ububele bakhe abuyi kuthatha ixesha elide. Kwaye kungcono - yabelane ngezinto ezithandwayo: ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi uya kuthanda ukuloba, ukufotshwa kweefoto okanye i-kayaking!

Umgaqo wesine : ngeendlela zonke ugxininise ukubaluleka kwakho kuwe, kodwa ungagqithisi ukuze angacingi ukuba unyanzelekile kuphela. Dumisani, niphakamise ukubaluleka kwayo emehlweni abanye - kubonakala: abantu abayize.

Umthetho wesihlanu : mbiza ngokuba yi-nostalgic. Amadoda anelungelo lokulondoloza ngokwaneleyo kwaye afune ukuba utshintsho olukhulu. Yinto enye - into encinane, enye-inguqu kwindawo eqhelekileyo. Se benzisa!

Ubudlelwane nomntu kuya kunceda ukuqinisa ukubukela kwezithombe kunye neevidiyo ezidibeneyo ukusuka kwindawo yeeholide yomnyaka odlulileyo, apho uvuyiswa khona, ngokubhekiselele kwimeko yangaphandle. Kwaye unokutyelela i-druse eqhelekileyo, izihlobo - makabamkele ukuba yiyiphi isibini esihle kakhulu!
Nazi izimpendulo ezibonakala ngathi zilula kumbuzo wabasetyhini abaninzi: "Indlela yokubuyisela ubuhlobo nomntu othandekayo." Yintoni ekumele ukuyisebenzise kule arsenal ifike kuwe. Ndixelele, yinto edala kunye neyayimdala, njani ihlabathi? Kodwa isebenza - ihlolwe ngokwenza!