Kutheni i ntlanzi iphupha ngentonga yokuloba?
Intsingiselo eqhelekileyo kukuba umntu obona oku kufuneka alungiselele iqela elikhanyayo ebomini. Ulindele ixesha elihle kakhulu, xa inhlanhla iya kuhamba nayo yonke into.
Kukholelwa ukuba ukuloba ngentonga yokuloba kuthetha ukuba umntu uya kuhamba kunye nenhlanhla kuzo zonke iinzame, ngoko le yithuba elihle kakhulu lokuqalisa iiprojekthi ezintsha nokuphumeza iingcamango zangaphambili.
Ukuba uthe wagxotha ukubanjwa kwamanzi ngaphandle kobunzima obunzima, ngoko kwakungeke kuthathe umgudu omkhulu ukufezekisa iminqweno. Ukutshatyalaliswa kuya kukunika zonke iintlobo zobomi kwisitya sesiliva, umntu kufuneka asebenzise kuphela.
Xa uloba emanzini, kufuneka usenze imizamo ethile yokufezekisa into oyifunayo. Ukufezekiswa kwezinto ezifunwayo kuya kwenzeka kuphela ngomsebenzi onzima, kwaye ukuba uvila, zonke izipho zexesha elizayo ziya kufuneka zilibale.
Ngaba ubonile ngexesha lokubamba echibini intlanzi encinci? Emva koko kufuneka ufumene iziphakamiso zokuthatha inxaxheba kwiiprojekthi ezahlukeneyo zoshishino. Oku kuya kuzisa ngokuqinisekileyo ukubuyiswa kwezimali.
Ukuchazwa okungekho kuphela kwemibono enjalo kubandakanya kuphela icebo obenalo kulokuloba phakathi kwehlathi. Kule meko, yonke imizamo yakho ayiyi kuzisa iziphumo ezifunwayo kwaye uya kudanisa kwiprojekthi oyisebenzayo.
Ukutolika kwezinye iincwadi zokuphupha
- Ngokutsho kwe-Freud, intlanzi encinci kwintonga yokuloba ifanekisela umgaqo wesilisa. Kodwa ukubamba intlanzi enkulu-ukukhulelwa nokuzala. Kodwa iphupha liya kuzaliseka kuphela xa igumbi lalihlambulukile.
- UFrud ukholelwa ukuba ukubanjwa kungasetyenziselwa ukuchonga ngesondo somntwana ongakazalwa. Ukuba ubona i-perch okanye i-carp, kuya kuba nenkwenkwe, kwaye i-trout okanye i-pike ibonakalisa ukuzalwa kwentombi.
- Uphuphe ukuba awubanjanga nanye, kodwa intlanzi eziliqela kanye? Emva koko uya kuba nexesha elonwabile ngokwenene, eliza kuhlala ixesha elide.
- Phuma emanzini asele ebolileyo intlanzi ithi ukujikeleza kwakho kuya kuzalisa inhlebo engalungangayo eya kukulimaza igama lakho kunye nokubonakalisa kakubi ubudlelwane nezihlobo. Iseluleko esiluncedo kuphela ukuziphatha ngokukhawuleza, ukuyeka ukubonakaliswa kwemvakalelo kwaye ungangeniswa kukuvuselela ngaphandle.
- Kodwa iNcwadi yeRota yeNcwadi yangoku ayikhokeleli kwingcaciso yobuninzi bokulala. Okokuqala, akanalo nento yokuzaliswa kwentsapho yesikhathi esizayo. Kwaye, okwesibini, kumntu ophuphayo, ixesha elibalulekileyo lobomi liza kufika, elingafumaneka kuphela ngoqoqosho oluqinileyo kuyo yonke into.
- Enye ingcaciso engalunganga yinto yokukhohliswa kunye nesizungu. Ukuba wena wasebenzisa intonga yokuloba, ngoko ukukhohlisa kuya kwenziwa nguwe, apho uya kufuneka uhlawule kamva.
- Intonga yokuloba, ebonakalayo phantsi kwamanzi, ibonisa ngokucacileyo ubunzima bezezimali. Zama ukuyeka kude nokuthengwa kwezimali.
Ukutolika kwala maphupha kunokohlukeneyo kangangokuba kunzima ukusho ngokucacileyo loo mbono eya kuzisa. Kodwa ke, ekubeni iinguqulelo eziphambili zichanekile, umntu kufuneka adibanise kwinqanaba lenhlanhla aze alindele izipho ezivela kwixesha elizayo.