Yintoni kufuneka umntwana akwazi ukuyenza ngonyaka ongu-1?

Ixesha kubazali baqhuma ngokukhawuleza! Nanku ufika unyaka wokuqala wobomi bomntwana-ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye ibalulekileyo. Ukhulile kwaye unzulu - ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala kuwe ukuba umntwana ukhula ngokunyuka kunye nemida, yintoni umntwana akwazi ukuyenza ngonyaka 1? Siza kukuxelela malunga nale ngcaciso njengoko kunokwenzeka.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngunyaka wokuqala wobomi bomntwana, ubunzima bakhe bunyuke ngokuphindwe kathathu (okwenene, oku kuhambelana nomntu kwaye lo mlinganiso uyingqinelana), kwaye ulinganisa, mhlawumbi, ngaphezu kweekhilogram ezilishumi. Gqiba i karapuza yakho kule minyaka iyanele kwinyanga. Ndiqinisekile ukuba abazali abanomdla banokurekhoda ubunzima bomntwana etafileni. Ngoko, kwithuba ukususela kunyaka ukuya kwesinye, umntwana kufuneka athole malunga nama-250 gram ngenyanga ngenyanga.

Ngoko, yintoni umntwana akwazi ukuyenza ngonyaka 1? Oku kunokwenzeka, ngeli xesha uya kuba namandla kangangokuthi uya kukukholisa ngeendlela zokuqala ezizimeleyo. Abanye abantwana sele bekulungele ukuhamba, ngelixa abanye sele behamba bejikeleze. Ekuqaleni wena, uhola umntwana usesandleni, kodwa ke, xa umntwana sele esele aguqule, uyayeka ukuhamba kwaye - kuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala sodwa, ngamanye amaxesha uhamba kunye novuyo emehlweni akhe. Kodwa umntwana uyazama kakhulu, kuba ufuna ukufana nabazali bakhe.

Xa umntwana wakho ehamba ngokuzama ukuzama ukuzithemba izakhono zakhe, akafanele aphazamise nantoni na kwaye ezi zifundo akufanele zihambisane nokulimala. Ngaphandle koko, umntwana uya kuqala ukwesaba aze ayeke ukuzama ukuhamba, uya kuqalisa kwakhona. Akumangalisi-kuba kule meko, uvakalelwa ngakumbi. Qinisekisa ukuba phantsi, apho aya kugubha khona imilenze yakhe, akukho nto ngaphandle, akukho zixhobo zokudlala, kunye nephephethi iya kususwa kakhulu kwisono. Emva koko, abazali abancinci bamele bangalibali ukuba i-small crease kwi-carpet ingaba ngumqobo omkhulu kwisinyathelo esingaqinisekanga nesingaqinisekiyo sentombazana yakho.

Uninzi lwabazali banokuqiniseka ukuba ukuba umntwana uqale ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza, lixesha lokumphoqa ukuba akwenze ngokuphindaphindiweyo nangaphezulu. Kule mpazamo kakhulu. Umntwana ungumntwana, akanalo amandla omntu omdala, musa ukumlimaza, kuba emva koko unokufumana imilenze yakhe encinci iphosakele ngoqeqesho olusebenzayo.

Ungazami ukukhohlisa imvelo, ungacingi ukuba umntwana wakho ulahla emva kwintuthuko ukuba engayazi ukuba asebenze njani, kwaye umntwana wommelwane uye waqhuba amajuba ezimbini kwizitalato. Zithobe nje kwaye ulinde-yonke into iya kuhamba kwinqanaba layo, kuphela ixesha elifunekayo, kwaye umntwana uya kufumana.

Ngoko, waya kwiinyanga ezili-12. Inkwenkwe ivele ibonakala ihamba, kodwa uhlushwa yizinto ezinokuzithandabuza: bathi, kwaye umthwalo unjengodada, kwaye imilenze ibanzi. Ukusuka kwezi ngcamango uze ulale apho. Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba ngelixa umntwana eqala ukuhamba, ezinye izigulo ezindala kwaye zibonakala zilibalekile, umzekelo, izibophelelo, okanye ukutshatyalaliswa kokubambisana komntwana, okufunyanwa ngumntwana ngokunyamekela koogqirha okanye ngabazali, kubonakala. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kufuneka uqhagamshelane nodokotela ngokukhawuleza. Kwakhona kufuneka kuqikelele ukuba iintsana ezingaphambi kwexesha, kunye neentsana ezibuhlungu zikwazi ukuhamba kamva.

Unyaka wokuqala wobomi sele sele ixesha lokuba umntwana wakho afune ukucela ibhokhwe, kodwa ukuba oko akukwenzekayo, mhlawumbi kunokwenzeka ukuba nguwe kuphela omele uxanduva. Yenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo kunye nomntwana wakho kwi "night vase". Kufuneka uqhubeke kwaye ukwazi ukunyamezela ngokunyanisekileyo umntwana wakho oko kuyimfuneko kuye. Musa ukwenza ngokukhawuleza uze unyanzele umntwana ukuba ahlale ebhodweni iiyure - akukho nto. Kufuneka nje ukwazi kwaye ukhumbule ukuba izitishi zezingane zihamba malunga nexesha elifanayo: ngaphambi kokulala okanye emva kokulala. Ngoko ke, yenza nje ishedyuli "yokutyelela" ibhokhwe, kuba intsana sele iyaqonda yonke into kakuhle ngeli xesha, kwaye ungathandabuzeki, ngokukhawuleza iya kufumana into efunekayo kuye. Xa uqala ukufundisa umntwana ukuba agijime ebhodweni, ayeke ukugqoka ii-diapers kunye ne-diapers. Umncinci wakho uya kuziva ekhululekile, kuba ngoku iingubo kuphela ezigqobileyo kwaye kuye kwaba lula kakhulu ukuhamba, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukumchazela ukuba ukuba awuhlali ebhodini ngexesha, induduzo iya kulahleka kwaye i-panties iya kuba yimanzi.

Sithe satsho ukuba abantwana abaneminyaka eli-100 ubudala sele beqonda yonke into ngokugqibeleleyo, kwaye ukuba uya kugxininisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kule nto, inkunzi iya kukhumbula, kwaye iya kucelwa ukuba iye endlwini yangasese ngexesha, ngenxa yokuba akafuni ukubuyela ekuvaleleni kunye neesayipu okanye i-diapers.

Kodwa nangona ngezihlandlo i-lylya yakho igxotha kwi-panties, akukho nhlobo ungayilungiseleli kule ntlekele, ungalili kwaye ungasebenzisi kakubi umntwana. Kwiimeko ezinjalo kubalulekile ukuchazela ngomonde kumntwana okokugqibela wayeyindoda elungileyo, kodwa ngeli xesha wadibanisa, kodwa xa ezama, oko akuyi kuphinda kwenzeke kwakhona. Ukumemeza nokuhlambalaza unako ukufezekisa ukuba umntwana uya kuyika lo msebenzi, kwaye loo ngozi encinane iya kuphinda iphindwe rhoqo. Ngoko ke, ngokuhamba ngokuphumelelayo kwipopi, ufanele ubonakalise uyonwabile ngomntwana, kwaye undikholelwe, umntwana uya kuzama rhoqo ukuba enze ngokufanayo njengoko ufundise ukuba abone ukummotheka kwakho.

Ngethuba eneminyaka eli-1 ubudala, umntwana unokuziqhayisa amazinyo angama-12. Kunokwenzeka ukuba, kuya kuba ne-8 incisors kunye namazinyo angama-4. Kodwa kulungile ukuba i-crumb ayinayo amazinyo amaninzi ngeenyanga ezililishumi elinambini - inokuphuma ngaphandle kweenyanga enye okanye ezintathu, kwaye leyo yinto evamile. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba abazali abayikulibala ngexesha lokukhula kwamazinyo kukuba umntwana kufuneka abe ne-calcium eyaneleyo, i-phosphorus kunye ne-vitamin D.

Xa uneminyaka elilodwa ubudala umntwana wakho kufuneka akwazi uku:

- yima emilenzeni ngaphandle kokuncediswa;

- Hamba ngokuzimela;
- Hamba, mhlawumbi, ngoncedo lwakho;

- ukuxelisa izenzo ezithile zabantu abadala;

- Phuza kwindebe, ewe, ngaphandle kokungenelela kwakho;

- ukuthetha amagama alula;

- baqonde iimfuno zabazali;

- yazi kwaye wabiza onke amalungu omndeni ngamagama;

- kwaye, ewe, yaya kubhobho.

Ukukhula komntwana kule minyaka kuya kuma-70 ukuya kuma-75 cm. Kodwa, kwakhona, musa ukucaphukisa kwaye ungazitheli ukuba ukukhula kwe-1 year of life yakho yeyona nto ihluke kule mimiselo - kuba zonke iintsana zikhula kwaye zikhula ngokukhawuleza ngokwexesha labo le-biological!