Oomama abaninzi baqhelana neempendulo xa bebele. Iintsana zidibanisa izihlathi zazo, zibonisa ukugqithisa emzimbeni, njalo njalo. Yiyiphi imbangela yokunciphisa umzimba ekunceliseni ibele kunye nendlela ibonakala ngayo?
Ingxaki yokuphikisa ivela njani kubantwana abancelisayo?
Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, umkhiqizo oyintloko wesondlo sakhe ubisi lwebele. Ngethuba lokuncelisa, ngamanye amaxesha unina ubonisa iimpawu zendlela yokuphendula. Oku, ngokukodwa, akukho nto ebonakalayo yindlela ethile yokukhusela, okuyiyo indlela yokukhusela ekhusela umonakalo kwizicwangciso zamaselula kunye nezicubu. Ukuphendulwa kwezilwanyana ezincinci abakwazi ukucetyiswa kwangaphambili. Kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi zanele nje ukususa umama ekudleni kwakhe komkhiqizo othile kwaye iimpawu ezingathandekiyo ziya kutshabalala. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha akwanele, udinga unyango olude.
Kukho ukunyamezela ngethuba ngexesha lokuncelisa abantwana kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo. Kungase kube nemisipha ebusweni ebusweni, ezandleni nasezinyaweni, emzimbeni, ngamanye amaxesha uninzi olunzima kakhulu, oluzisa umntwana ukuba lube lusizi kwaye lunokuba yingozi kwimpilo. Kwakhona, kwisitulo somntwana onobuhlungu, kungase kube negazi (imithanjeni), kwaye akukho nto ikhona ukuba ibe nempawu zeempembelelo ezithintekayo kwesikhumba. Ingane inokuba neentlanzi ekhanda, inokuba yintlungu kwisisu, kuba inkqubo yokugaya i-crumb isekelwe ngokupheleleyo.
Yintoni ebangela ukungabikho komzimba xa uncelisa?
Into eyaziwayo kukuba ngamaxesha amaninzi ukuxhatshazwa kwabazali kuhanjiswa kubantwana. Ngamanye amagama, kukho imfuza yokuzalwa. Kwiintsana le ndlela ibonakala ngokucacileyo. Kwezinye iimeko, i-allergen emzimbeni womntwana ivela nje ngaphandle. Usulelo luya kufakwa kwisisu, kwesikhumba, kwindlela yokuphefumula.
Into eqhelekileyo yokunyamezela ekunceliseni ukunyamezela kukuxhatshazwa kokutya okutya kumama. Kungenxa yesi sizathu sokuba oomama balandele ukutya xa bebele. Musa ukukhutshwa yimveliso enokubangela ukuba umntwana aphelelwe ngumzimba. Ungabandakanyeki ekudleni kwabo amahle kunye nemifuno ekhanyayo kunye neziqhamo - ezi zixhobo ezinamandla. Kananjalo nakwiimveliso eziqinileyo zizinto: utywala, i-tshokoleta, izilondolozo kunye nezithako zokutya, i-citrus, i-sausages kunye nangaphezulu. Ngexesha lokuncelisa, akukho mzekelo kufuneka umama adle. Ukutya okuchanileyo kunomama kunokukhethwa ngabanye kuphela ngophando. Ngexesha lokuncelisa umntwana usona mveliso oyintloko ubisi lwebele. Kodwa ngokuqaphelisisa, kufuneka ulandele yonke imigaqo yokutya okuncedisayo, njengaleli xesha kufuneka uqaphele ngakumbi. Kubalulekile ukubeka esweni ukuphendula komntwana kwimveliso emitsha nganye.
Ngethuba lokuncelisa, umama uyayinyamekela ukutya kwakhe, kodwa umntwana unempilo. Ingaba yinto engaphelelangayo yokutya, kodwa kuthuli. Ngokukodwa ukuba kukho iipatethi ezininzi kwigumbi. Uninzi uthuli luqokelela kwiindawo ezinjalo, kwaye izilwanyana ezinothuli zihlala eluthulini. Kuyacaca ukuba umntwana ophefumulayo uya kuphefumula. Kukho ukucaphukisa kwenkqubo yokuphefumula, ebonakaliswa yimpendulo eyahlukeneyo. Ukuba igumbi ngumntwana omncinci, ngoko unonophelo olukhethekileyo kufuneka uphathwe lucocekile.
Ukongezelela, umntwana unokukwazi ukuphendula kwizilwanyana zezilwanyana, izityalo kunye nomama uyaqhubeka ecinga ukuba unetyala kuba engadli kakuhle.
Ukuba unobungozi buvela kwintsana, umama onesihlengikazi akafanelekanga nakweyiphi na imeko ukuzinyango, kuba le nto inomngcipheko omkhulu. Kubalulekile ukuchonga isizathu sokungabikho kokuqala, ngokuqhagamshelana neengcali. Ugqirha unokuncoma uvavanyo lwezilwanyana. Ngokusekelwe kwiziphumo zeemvavanyo kunye neempawu, oyingcali iya kubonisa ukuba yintoni ebangela ukuba umntwana angabikho. Ukuba oku kungukutya kokunciphisa ukutya, kuya kukwakheka ukutya komntu ngamnye kumama ngexesha lokutya. Ukuba kukho ezinye iimbangela zokuphendula okuphazamisayo, ziya kunika iziphakamiso eziyimfuneko. Musa ukunyanzelisa ukunyamezela ukunyamezela, ekubeni unobungozi obungenayo imiphumo emibi ingenayo imiphumo emibi kumntwana.