Ingaba lixesha lokungabelana neentambo? Indlela yokwenza le nkqubo ikhululeke ngayo kumama, kunye nendlela yokufundela umntwana kwi-pot emva kweminyaka emi-2?
Xa umntwana esicatshangelwa ukuba "sele ekhulu kakhulu"? Emva kokuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala? Emva kokubiza "umama" oxabisekileyo? Ufunde i alfabhethi? Mhlawumbi, kuninzi unina, umda ohlula abantwana kunye "nobudala obude" kukukwazi ukusebenzisa ibhodwe.
Uhlale ulungele?
Kukho iintsuku apho yonke imbuzi kufuneka ifunde indlela yokuya embhodini iminyaka emibili - kuba ngenxa yale minyaka yanikezelwa kwiindawo zokulala, apho kwakungenakwenzeka ukutshintsha i-diapers ngexesha. Nangona kunjalo, nangoku, kwixesha elisikelelweyo le-diapers elilahlayo, unina abaninzi abanako ukulinda ukufundisa iimvumba ukuba bahlangabezane neemfuno zemvelo ngendlela echanekileyo (kwimbono yabo). Oko kukuthi, ebhodweni. Owona msebenzi uqala ukuqeqesha, ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana efumana amandla okuhlala. Ngaba oku kunengqiqo?
Uninzi lwabahlengikazi banamhlanje luya kuphendula lo mbuzo, indlela yokufundela umntwana kwi-pot emva kweminyaka emi-2, ngokuqinisekileyo. Kukholelwa ukuba umntwana kufuneka 'aqokelele' ngaphambi kokuba atyala, kwaye kwenzeka ngexesha leenyanga ezili-18 ukuya kwezi-24. Ngelo thuba iimbilini kunye nezihlunu ezilawula izenzo zentshukumo yokuhamba kunye nokucoca kungabonwa ngokufanelekileyo.
Kukho imiqondiso emininzi yokuba i-crumb ikulungele ukuqala izifundo "ebhodweni":
uhamba ngokuzithemba, uyazi ukuhlala phantsi aze avuke; Uqala ukulawula ukuchama: uhlala omile ngaphezu kweeyure ezimbini, ngokukodwa, emva kokulala komhla;
uyaziqonda iimfuno zakhe (umzekelo, ukuba ulambile okanye ufuna ukubhalela) kwaye uyakwazi ukubika ngeempawu okanye amagama;
kususa i-diapers ezimanzi okanye ezingcolileyo;
ufunda umzimba wakhe kunye nemveliso yobomi bakhe;
4- uyazi amagama achaza inkqubo yokucoca kunye neengxube - "ukubhala", "kakat" okanye iinguqu zabo ezifingqiweyo.
Hooray, uqeqesho!
Ngoko, abanye (kwaye mhlawumbi bonke?) Kwezinto ezidweliswe zicacile. Uqala njani ukwazi umntwana wakho ngobulumko bombulu?
Ukunyamekela umntwana kwaye uzame ukuyitshala "ngokwemfuno", oko kukuthi, kulawo maxesha xa kubonakala ngathi "inqubo ihambe." Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana uyathula, umise umdlalo, angene ekhoneni elifihliweyo, izikwere, izikwere zakhe. Yonke le miqondiso ibonisa ukuba unomdla wokuvuthwa okanye ukuhamba. Umsebenzi wakho kukunceda u-crumb ukuseka uqhagamshelwano phakathi kwentshukumo kunye nesenzo. Ngenxa yoko, ngokukhawuleza xa unomuvo wokuthi umntwana ufuna ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese, mcele ukuba ahlale phantsi ngobumbanyo. Xa umntwana engaphenduli kwiimfuno, mvalela "uqeqesho", ngokucacileyo, ixesha labo alikafiki.
Ukongeza, zama ukutshala iimvuthu ngexesha elithile. Okokuqala kwimizuzu engama-20-30 emva kokutya kwasekuseni. Kukholelwa ukuba nje ngeli xesha isisu esipheleleyo sivuselela i-rectum ukukhupha. Emva koko imizuzu embalwa ngaphambi nangemva kokutya, emva kokulala komhla nokuhamba. Musa nje ukuyithwala! Musa ukumnyanzela umntwana ukuba ahlale ebhodweni ixesha elide, lingenza isimo sengqondo esingalunganga malunga nenkqubo kwaye iqhube nokubhenca. Into ephambili ayilona ixesha lokutshala, kodwa rhoqo.
Ungaziqhelanga ebhodweni ukuba umntwana uyagula okanye ebomini yimeko ebandezelekileyo. Xhumana nomgqirha uze ufunde indlela yokufundela umntwana kwi-pot emva kweminyaka emi-2. Yithobela imeko yakho: ukuba uxakekile emsebenzini okanye ukhulelwe uqoqosho, uphinde ufundise kwi-pot ukuya kumaxesha angcono.
Ukukhawulezisa inkqubo yokufunda, umntwana kufuneka abeke umzekelo wakho-thatha i-crumb nawe xa uya kwindlu yangasese, kwaye utshale ngaphaya kwamanzi;
oontanga okanye abantwana abadala - ezinye i-carp-buns ngokwaneleyo ukuya kubatyelela abantwana abaye bafunda i-pot;
Iimpawu zokudlala - faka idoli yakho oyithandayo okanye ibhere kwi "pot" ecaleni kwentsana.
Khumbula ukuba ukutyala kufuneka kuqaphele kwaye ngokuzithandela. Ungalokothi usebenzise kakubi umntwana, nangona endaweni yombhobho wabhala kwiphepha elitsha, kwaye adla indumiso, nangona uhlala apha epopeni ngokuzenzekelayo.
Ukusebenza ebusuku kunye nesitalato (oko kukuthi, ukulala nokuhamba ngaphandle kwe-diaper) kufuneka kuqalwe kuphela emva kokuba umntwana ehleli ebhodweni "ngaphandle kokuphosa."
Qala phambili
Iintsana ezininzi, ezijwayele ibhokhwe kwiinyanga ezi-7-8, zikhulayo, zilahla ngokweenkcenkceshe olu buchule luncedo. Kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Ootitshala bezilwanyana bakholelwa ukuba unyaka wokufundisa okungazi kakuhle kwi-pot kunye nencoko ayikwazi ukuba: abantwana abaqapheli ukuya ebhodweni, kodwa benze umyalelo womama. Iindawo ezenza izizathu-kwaye-effect "zifuna ukuya kwindlu yangasese - zihlala phantsi kwebhodini - umsebenzi wakhe" iskimu "ihleli ebhodweni ngesicelo samama-pisses / croaks ngokunyanzelisa umama." Ukuba ube ngumntu ozimeleyo, umntwana uqala ukumbhikisha ...
Ukulungiselela umhlaba
Abaxhasi bemfundo yemvelo bakholelwa ukuba ngamnye umntwana unomnqweno wesimo sokuhlala esomileyo nococekileyo. Kanye kunye nokugqoba ngokukhatyayo kwezandla kunye nokuncelisa ukufunwa, inxalenye ebalulekileyo yale ndlela kukuhlwa (kungekhona ebhodweni!).
Nangona oomama abangenayo kwizikolo zabazali banako ukujonga ukuba iintsana zihlala zinika izibonakaliso ezicacileyo zento abafuna ukuya endlini yangasese: ukugubha, ukuguquka, ukukhwaza okanye ukukhanda, kubheka "kungabikho ndawo." Kuloo mizuzu kufuneka "ihlulwe" ", oko kukuthi, uyibambe phezu kwesitya okanye isitya. Oku kunokwenziwa ngokoqobo ukusuka kwiintsuku zokuqala komntwana. Phantse isiqingatha sonyaka, i-crumb iqala ukulwa nokutshala kwaye ihamba ukuya kwindlu yangasese kwikona efihliweyo. Ukuba unina unako ukunyamezela ngokwaneleyo ngeli xesha, ungambathanga iimfumba kwaye ungamphoqeleli ukuba angene ebhodweni, ngoko uneminyaka yobudala kunye nesiqingatha umntwana usenokuqala ukumcela ukuba ahlulwe. Emva koko, uhlala nje ukumnika ibhokhwe.
Akusebenzi?
Kubonakala sengathi yenza konke okulungileyo, kodwa kunjalo ayisebenzi? Sinikela iinketho ezininzi kubazali babo abanomntwana obangelayo okanye abalahla ngokuzenzekelayo izibonelelo zokuhlangabezana nemfuneko yokubhodlela. Ngokuqhelekileyo badumisa umntwana ngenxa yento awayehlala kuyo ebhodweni, nangona awakwazi ukugaya okanye ukupumbaza, nokuba ufuna ukucela ibhokhwe, nangona ungazange uphumelele ukuya khona. Ngelo xesha, unike i-diapers (ngemini).
Phendulela imfundiso ebhodweni ekuxanduva lomdlalo. Ngokomzekelo, vumela inkunzi yenkomo ithulule i-pot kwi-toilet bowl, ize ikhulule amanzi. Ngenxa yolu hlobo baninzi bazimisele ukuhamba ngebhodi ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
Cetyisa umntwana ukuba akhethe kwivenkile ebhodweni oyithandayo. Lowo obonakala kuwe ukuba ukuphakama kokufezekisa akunako ukukholisa umntwana.
Phakamisa enye indlela kwifom yezingane kwindlu yangasese kunye ne-podstavochki phantsi kweenyawo. Abanye abantwana bakhetha ukwenza "ngokukhawuleza" kwindlela endala yabantu abadala, kwindlu yangasese, ngokugqithisa isigaba "samanzi". Ukuba konke oku ngasentla akuncedi, vele ushiye umntwana: susa ibhokhwe emehlweni kwiveki 2-3.
Omnye ulawulo oluqhelekileyo kubo bonke abazali: ukwenzela ukuba ugweme imibutho engebiyo, sebenzisa amagama angathathi hlangothi ngokubhekiselele kwizenzo zenkwenkwe ehambelana nebhodi, kwaye ugweme iiprojorative, njenge "panties eziphazamisayo", "bika", "stinks".
Unzima ukhetho
Ukuthenga ibhokhwe yokuqala kuyisiganeko esibalulekileyo. Ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka kukhethwe ebusweni bomntwana kwaye "ngokufanelekile." Yenza inkunzi yenyama izame ukuhlala phantsi ebhodini kwaye ukhethe lowo ayithandayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuchasana nokutyala kubangelwa ukuba ibhodlo ayinakulungele okanye ayithandi imvumba.
I-pot-saddle
Mhlawumbi, lo mzekelo uyona ethandwa kakhulu. Inzuzo yayo ihleli kwifom ye-anatomical. Ukuphucula phambili akuvumeli umncinci ukuba anciphise amadolo, ngaloo ndlela unikeze i-comfortable top "njenge-top", njengalesi sikhephe. Kodwa okokuqala, kunzima ukuhlala kwibhodlela elinjalo kunokuba ujikeleze rhoqo, kuba okokuqala kufuneka umele "kwindawo ebanzi" kwaye uze uhlale phantsi.
Itrone-Pot
"Isihlalo sobukhosi" sinobubele obufanelekayo beselula kunye nomama wabo .Ixhotyiswe ngeengalo zokubamba iingalo kunye nebhodi elikhutshwayo, ngokuqhelekileyo kunomlomo ngaphambili. Amadolo omntwana ahlukane ngokuzenzekelayo emacaleni, kwaye i-backstress back back of "itrone" inika inkxaso yenkxaso.
I-toy-toy
Ibhokhwe, imvu, inja, umshini wokuchwepta-okude kuluhlu olupheleleyo lweembiza ezikhangela ezenziwe ngabalinganiswa abahlukeneyo. Ngomhlobo onjalo awukwazi kuphela ukuya kwindlu yangasese, kodwa uxoxe ngoku, malunga nale nto. Kodwa umsebenzi wethu oyintloko kukuseka uxhaphalo phakathi kokungena kwindlu yangasese kunye nengqondo engqondweni yengane, kwaye umntwana ubeka ingqalelo kwibhoyi yokudlala, ngamanye amaxesha uyakhohlwa isizathu sokuba ahlale kuyo, uhlala ixesha elide kunokuba luyimfuneko.
Classic
Eyona ndlela ixhaphakileyo, ijikelezileyo, eneqhonkqo kunye nokuphatha - ibumbi elinjalo ngumvakalisi ongapheliyo kwiindawo zokuthengisa iimpahla zanamhlanje. Kwaye oku kungafanelekanga: ibhokhwe endala isebenza kakuhle, kwaye ukubonakala kwayo okuthobekileyo kwenzelwe, njengokuba bethetha, ukuba i-amateur. Lezo ikopi ezisoloko zifunyanwa ngokuthengiswa, ngokwemvelo, zenziwe ngeplastiki, kwaye zengekho zetsimbi, njengemifanekiso yazo yaseSoviet.
Umculo
Ibhokhwe enamandla kakhulu - xa izalisekile, ngokubonga kwiimvumi zengqondo ezitshintshileyo.Ili bhotile elidla kakhulu libonakala lilahleka ngokusuka kancane abalandeli.Ibango eliphambili lifana ne-toy-toy: umntwana uhlala ebhodweni lokuzonwabisa. , abanye abantwana babesaba kakhulu ngomculo ngexesha elibalulekileyo. Zizimele endaweni yazo - uhlala kwindlu yangasese, kwaye ngokukhawuleza izandi ze-orchestra ziyavalelwa.
Ngebhodi
Ipot eplastiki idla ngokubambelela kumpapa. Ukunyuka, umntwana usengozini yokuhambisa iziqulatho. Ukuze ugweme oku, imodeli nganye ngasentla inokuxhotyiswa nge "nyathelo" - intshukumo ecaleni komjikelezo wecala elingaphantsi kwebhodini. Xa usukuma, umntwana uyanyathela ngamanqina kwaye ibhokhwe ihlala kwindawo yayo.Umsebenzi ofanayo (ukuthintela ukutshitshisa nokutshiza) wenza i-silicone ejikelezayo ngezantsi .
Ngesibindi
Namhlanje le ngcaciso ibaluleke kakhulu. Kunzima ukucinga imeko apho umama akakwazi ukucoca izinto eziqulethwe ngayo kwaye ahlambe ibhodlo ixesha elide ukuze kufike umquba.