Umfazi uqhuba imoto

Kwinqaku lethu elithi "Ibhinqa eliqhuba imoto" uya kuyifumana: ucinga ukuba umfazi evili ulungile kangakanani.
Ingaba ibhinqa liza emva kwevili leemoto?
Ngokwezi-polls ezahlukeneyo, abaninzi abameli bezesondo eziqinileyo bakholelwa ukuba abafazi besondo baziphatha ngendlela engafanelekiyo, ngoko ke, bengozi endleleni. Yintoni abaya kuthetha ngayo ukuba ngaba bafunde ukuba ipesenteji ebalulekileyo yabaqhubi besifazane abakhulelwe? Nangona kunjalo, intetho ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokucinga kubasetyhini kunye namadoda inzima kakhulu. Kodwa ngaba oomama abanomdla bangakanani, behleli emva kwevili? Akunqatshelwe ukuqhuba umfazi okhulelweyo, kodwa oogqirha bacebisa ukuba benze ngokucophelela. Utshintsho lwama-hormones e-Harsh kumzimba okhulelweyo alukwazi ukuchaphazela ukuziphatha kwabafazi, kunye nokuhla kwemoya yempilo - ukunyamekela kwabo kunye nokukwazi ukulawula imeko. Nangona kunjalo, ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunamaxesha amaninzi angaphantsi.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba ungumqhubi onamava, ngoko usibona iifayile ezimbini ezixabisekileyo ukuvavanya, akudingeki uxhomeke izitshixo emotweni. Kodwa ukuba unquma ukufumana amalungelo ekuphumeni kwekhefu lokubeleka, kuyafaneleka ukuqikelela. Ukufunda ukuqhuba iyinkqubo enomdla kunoma yimuphi umntu, nokuba ne-superman eneentsimbi zensimbi. Umama ozayo unesithakazelo, unobungozi kwaye awunakulinganiseki: imeko ingatshintsha ngokuphawulekayo ekukhuseleni ukunyusa ukukhubeka nokukhungatheka. Ngenxa yokuvuselelwa kunye noogqirha, kunye nabaqeqeshi ekuqhubeni i-school try to dissuade women in position to get behind behind wheel. Kodwa umthetho uvimbela oomama ukuba bafunde ukuqhuba, hayi, ngoko ke isigqibo sihlala senu.

Ukulinganisa zonke izinto ezixhamlayo kunye neengxaki. Mhlawumbi, ukufikelela emsebenzini okanye ukubonisana kwabasetyhini kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke, uziva uxinzelelo, ufana nokuxhalaba malunga neemviwo. Kwi-metro kunye nebhasi ibomile, ayisoloko ihlambulukile, ngaphandle koko, "inkulungwane yeengqungquthela ezithembekileyo zidlulile" kwaye akubona bonke abagibeli bazinikela ngokuzithandela kumama ozayo.Akumangalisi ukuba kwixesha eliphakamileyo uphupha imoto yakho, kunye nesithuba somntu ubuncinane kwisiqingatha semitha. Ndifuna ukukhawuleza ukuya kwiikhosi ukufumana amalungelo anqwenelekayo. Enyanisweni, kwiminyaka yakutshanje, inani labasetyhini kwizifundo zeemoto liye landa kakhulu.

Ngaphezu kwesigamu sabantwana ngabafazi. Umfazi ongumqhubi, ngokuqinisekileyo, uhlukile kumqhubi wesilisa, abafundisi bathi. Kodwa, into enhle, ngokuqhelekileyo ibe ngcono. Kwiqela leeparitha, abafazi banani ngaphezu kwamadoda ekuthungeni izakhono: baqhuba ngokucophelela nangenyameko, bathathe uncedo olungakumbi kwizinto ezincinci, kwaye bahlale bengengozini. Ngoko akukho nto yokwesaba ukuba umfazi, nokuba kwindawo ekhangayo, wayefuna ukuba ngumqhubi wokuqala, kukho isizathu ngasinye sokukholelwa ukuba uya kuphumelela. Abacebisi bacebisa kuphela oomama besikhathi esizayo ukuba bathathe iiyure ezininzi zokuhamba kwaye bahlawule ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo kwimibandela yobugcisa, kuba kubasetyhini isixhobo somatshini siqhele ukufumana okoqobo. Ngendlela, kwizikolo ezininzi zokuqhuba ukuqhuba abaqeqeshi baqeqeshwa ngabangcali beengqondo, ngoko uqeqesho loomama ozayo luqwalasela iimpawu zeengqondo zentombi.

Uwunzima imithetho yomgwaqo, hamba ngomqeqeshi malunga nomzi, ufunde ukupaka nokuvula. Ixesha lokuya kuthatha iimviwo. Emva koko umama ozayo unokulindela umxhwele. Amagosa amapolisa ezithuthi ayenzela umfundi okhulelwe ngokungaqhelekanga kwaye kaninzi uzama ukumkhusela kwisingozi (ngokwezimvo zawo). Khumbula ilungelo lakho lokufumana ilungelo, kwaye nokuba xa uhamba noviwo lwezonyango uzakufuna isitifiketi esivela kwi-gynecologist ukuba awunayo i-pathology. Ukunyamezela nokuzithemba ngokunyameko imizamo enjalo.

Kodwa ukuba uneminyaka engama-7-8 ukhulelwe, indlela engcono yokuyinqanda imoto. Ikhetho elihle kumama ozayo liya kuba ngumbhede ococekileyo kunye nolwandle lwamavithamini.