I-Etiquette yindlela yokubonisa intlonelo kumntu, ukuphumelela ukuvelana naye. Kwaye umqondiso wentombazana ngokumalunga nomfana kuyindlela yokuhlala entliziyweni yakhe ebomini.
Siza kufunda imithetho ye-etiquette, okanye kunoko, indlela yokuba yintsimbi yenkcubeko. Ngokukodwa, i-bitch, ngaba ngaba besetyhini abaheha abantu (kule nto bavuma bona).
I-Bitch ibhinqa elinalo ixesha lobomi bakhe bomi, kungekhona nje i-diaper ephazamisayo kunye nendoda yakhe ethandekayo. Uhlale elungele kakuhle, enhle, ekholose. Ukuba uceba okuthile, umzekelo, ukudibana nabahlobo, ke akukho mntu oyedwa onokumthintela ukuba akwenze. Ngaloo xesha, indoda yakhe ayive ihlazekile kwaye icatshukiswe. Ngokuphambene noko, uyaziqhayisa ngoakhethiweyo kwaye ulungele ukwenza izinto, ukuba wayehlala ehlala naye.
Musa ukudibana nendoda rhoqo ngokuhlwa. Unquma ukuba ufikelele phezulu kwaye awukwazi ukufumana kuyo. Ungabi naso ixesha lokujonga emva, njengoko ugocekileyo-phantsi uza kuza ekhaya emva kwexesha nangemva koko. Yaye ukusebenzela ukuphepha ngaphandle kokukhanya, okanye ukusa. Kutheni? Awunomdla kuye. Awusisisiqhamo esinqatshelwe kuye.
Indoda ngumzingeli ngokwemvelo. Ibhinqa elingenakufikeleleka lixhoba elihle kakhulu. Ukufikeleleka lula kumfazi kubangela ukuba inzondelelo kumntu, kwakunye nokubambisana ngokupheleleyo kunye nengcamango yakhe kwinxalenye yowesifazane.
Ukuba ngokukhawuleza umntu wakho uye walumkisa ukuba uhlala ebhodini nabahlobo, ke ungamkhangeli. Ukukhangela yindwendwe yendoda. Unayo izinto ezininzi ezibalulekileyo ukuhamba malunga nomzi ekukhangekeni kwendodana yakho.
Ungesabi ukumbeka umntu endaweni. Ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko kubo. Ngaphandle koko, uya kuzicingela ngokungenasigwebo, kwaye wena, ngokwakho, uya kukhulula izandla.
Bhengeza uluvo lwakho, sizathu, uqinisekise ubungqina bakho. Indoda inomdla ekuboneni umhlobo ofanelekileyo kuye.
Ungabandakanyi kwisichazizwi sakho njengamagama athi: "Kutheni ungabibizile?", "Uyandithanda?". Ulilibale? Unomfazi othembekileyo, obomi bakhe buqabile kwaye bumnandi ukuba xa umntu engabibizi, awuyi kubona. Ingongoma kwaye ivuse isondlo sayo, kuba ukungaqiniseki kwakho kuyisisiseko sokuqala ulwalamano olunzulu.
Ngomsebenzi wakho wokuba ube yinkohlakalo yangempela, ungakhohlwa ukuba usengumfana onothando. Yaye iqabane lakho lifanelwe ukubonakaliswa kobubele kunye nothando. Kukho nawuphi na umzamo, akufanele uwedlule intonga.
Hlonipha indoda. Unamalingani alinganayo kulwalamano lwakho. Ngamnye wenu unelungelo lokufumana indawo yakhe, izinto ezithandayo kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa.
Musa ukuhlazisa indoda kwaye 'ungamgodli' ngeempumlo zakho, njengento yokugaya. Ngaloo ndlela, unciphise ukuzithemba kwakho okanye uphukise ukuphuka.
Ungavumeli ukungathandeki kuthi kumalungu entsapho yakhe. Ubiza ngaphezu kobazali bakhe, usenalo mntu. Kwaye unayo, mhlawumbi, imeko enomqobo kwimpilo yakhe.
Ngaba uhlala uphupha malunga nendlela okhethiweyo wakho akufanele aphathe ngayo? Kwaye awuzange ucinge ukuba umntu wakho, naye, amaphupha ezinto ezifanayo? Kutheni kunjalo, naye uyindoda yenyama negazi, ebuncinzini besifuba sakhe ukubetha intliziyo, elambile uthando kunye nothando kunye nokunyamezela nayiphi na intlungu.
Uthande kwaye umthande umntu wakho. Mnike ithemba lokuba nguye kuphela owona mhle ebomini bakho. Makhe aqiniseke ukuba uyamthanda. Kodwa ngelo xesha, musa ukumvumela ukuba aphumle. Indoda ngezwi lakhe - elinokuba lihle ngakumbi.