Yintoni eyenza le mfundiso inkulu kwaye ixhaphake, kuxhomekeka kwiimeko ezininzi, ukusebenzisana kwabadlali kunye nemigangatho yabo njengabantu ngabanye.
Ngokufanayo, imbono yentsapho kwingqondo yengqondo ibonakala ngathi iqela elincinci, okanye inkqubo yokuzicwangcisa, ekubunjweni nasekuphuhlisweni apho indima ekhethekileyo idlala yimozulu yengqondo. Kwaye umsebenzi oyintloko wabo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba abadlala indima yabo kwiintlalontle zentsapho kukubona indlela yokubikezela isimo sengqondo sengqondo kwintsapho kunye nokulawulwa kwayo.
Yintoni yemozulu yengqondo?
Okokuqala, qwalasela intsingiselo yengqondo kwintsapho, kwaye kutheni kubaluleke kangaka.
Inkcazo ecacileyo yesayensi yemozulu yengqondo njengoko kunjalo ayikho. Kule ncwadi, ekuchazeni le ngqungquthela, idibanisa njenge "emoyeni yengqondo", "isimo sengqondo sengqondo" kwaye njalo njalo kusetyenziswa. Ngaloo ndlela, kunokugqitywa ukuba le ndlela iyindlela ebonisa ukwaneliseka kuwo onke amalungu entsapho, kwaye ngokukodwa abatshatileyo iimeko eziqhelekileyo zobomi. Ukubeka nje, oku kuluphawu lwenqanaba lonwabo nenhlalakahle yentsapho. Ukuqulunqa eli nqanaba kwaye ukulondoloza kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo kuyimfuneko ekuphuhlisweni ngokupheleleyo kwabesibini kunye nabantwana babo. Ekubeni, isimo sengqondo seengqondo asiyiyo ingqiqo ezinzile, kwaye ayikwazi ukuhlanganiswa, inkqubo yokuqikelela ukuba imeko yesimo sengqondo ichazwe, kwaye ezinye izenzo zichongiwe ukugcinwa kwayo ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Isimo sengqondo esilungileyo sengqondo sinceda ekunciphiseni ukuxhatshazwa, ukulawula ubunzima beemeko zongquzulwano, ukudala ukuvisisana nokuvelisa ingqiqo yoluntu. Ngethuba elifanayo, zonke ezi zinto aziyi kuxhalaba kuphela yintsapho njengeyunithi epheleleyo, kodwa kunye nabachaphazelekayo ngabanye. Xa sitshatile, abasha abasha kufuneka babe nesimo sengqondo esithile, ukulungelelanisa kunye nokuvuma, ukuhlakulela ukuzithemba, intlonipho kunye nokuqonda ngokuvisisanayo. Kule meko kuphela, sinokuthetha malunga nokuba nesimo esihle sengqondo sengqondo yesitsha esitsha kuluntu.
Ukudala isimo sengqondo seengqondo.
Njengoko kuchaziwe ngasentla, ingqondo yengqondo yentsapho ayiyinto engunaphakade, engenasiseko esisisiseko kwaye idinga ukusebenza rhoqo. Ekudaleni isimo sengqondo, onke amalungu entsapho kufuneka athathe inxaxheba, kuphela kule meko, isiphumo esiphumeleleyo siphumelele. Ukususela kwinqanaba lokunyamekela kunye nomnqweno ikakhulukazi kwabatshatileyo, ubude bomtshato, ukuphumelela kwayo kunye nenhlalakahle kuya kuxhomekeka ngqo. Xa kuthelekiswa neminyaka eyi-1 yokugqibela, abantu abasandul 'ukutshata baninzi bavelele kwiimeko zabo zomzwelo kunokuba kusekelwe iziko lomtshato, okuchaphazela ukuzinza kobudlelwane beentsapho kunye nemvelaphi yengqondo kwintsapho. Ngoko ke, singakwazi ukuthetha ngokukhuselekileyo ukuba yinto yokuqala ebangela ukuba isimo sengqondo esiphezulu seengqondo kwintsapho iya kuba noqhagamshelwano lomzwelo. Kwakhona, intsapho yabo bonke amalungu entsapho, imizwa yabo jikelele, ubukho beemvakalelo zengqondo okanye ukukhathazeka, ubukho okanye ukungabikho komsebenzi, ukuchuma kwezinto eziphathekayo, isimo sengqondo kwisimo esiphethweyo okanye umsebenzi owenziweyo, kunye nokulungiswa kokwakha kuya kuba nefuthe ekudalweni kwesimo sengqondo esilungileyo okanye esingathandeki kwengqondo kwintsapho ubudlelwane phakathi kwabatshatileyo, kwaye ke, phakathi kwabazali nabantwana. Emva kokuvavanya zonke ezi zinto sinokuthetha ngokuzinzileyo okanye ukungazinzi kwemozulu kwintsapho, kwaye ukuqikelela ukuba isimo sengqondo sengqondo sifike ixesha elide.
Ukubikezela isimo sengqondo seengqondo.
Inkqubo yokuqikelela isimo sengqondo yengqondo kwintsapho yinto engekho ngaphandle kohlalutyo oluqhelekileyo lwemoya yengqondo yentsapho, ekuqwalaseleni izinga lokunxibelelana nosapho kunye nomoya jikelele.
Ngaloo ndlela, inkcazo yendlela yokuchaza kwangaphambili imeko yesimo sengqondo kwintsapho iyancitshiswa ukuba ihlolwe ngokuqhelekileyo, ekugqibeleni izigqibo ezithile. Ngaloo ndlela, emva kokunciphisa isiphumo, isimo sengqondo seentsapho sinokuthi sithandeke kwaye asibi.
Ukubikezela kwesimo sengqondo esilungileyo sengqondo, ubukho beempawu ezinjalo kuyimfuneko: umxholo wokhuseleko, ukuxhamla, ukunyaniseka okulinganayo, ukuveliswa ngokubanzi, ukuhlanganisana, ukwaneliseka ngokomzwelo, uxanduva, ukuzingca kwintsapho. Ngaloo ndlela, ngenxa yoko, sifumana intsapho ethembekileyo enokwimeko yokuthanda kunye nenhlonipho elawulayo, kukho ukukulungele ukunceda, umnqweno wokuchitha ixesha kunye kunye nokuthetha.
Kodwa kunokwenzeka kwaye esinye isiphumo, xa kusentsapho, kuqikelelwe ukunciphisa izinga lemozulu yengqondo engalunganga. Iimpawu eziphambili zeli lizwe zithi: ukuxhalaba, ukuhlukanisa, ukungakhathazeki, uxinzelelo lwengqondo, ukwesaba, uxinzelelo, ukungabi nokhuseleko kunye nabanye. Kule meko, ngesimo esibi esilubileyo kwintsapho, isimo sezulu esingafanelekanga, esiza kubakho kwixesha elizayo, siza kubakho ukungabikho kwemvakalelo emihle, ukuphuhliswa kwengxabano, ukuxhalaba, ukuxhatshazwa kwengqondo kwaye kuya kuthintela kakubi impilo yonke yentsapho, kungekhona kuphela ekuziphatheni komzimba kodwa nangokwenyama.
Xa kwenzeka ukuphulwa kwempilo yengqondo yentsapho, iimiphumo ezimbi zithintela ngamnye nxaxheba kubathathi-nxaxheba. Sitshintsha isimo sengqondo sengqondo, kunokwenzeka kuphela xa onke amalungu entsapho enqwenela ukufezekisa injongo ekujoliswe kuyo, oko kukuthi ukuxazulula imeko yesimo sengqondo.