Ngomntwana, inja ngumhlobo wokuqala. Xa unesidalwa esimnandi, isilwane endlwini yakho, ngoko ke, umbuzo uvela: "Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo nenja?"
Kutheni ufuna ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo nenja
Njengomntu, ngoko inja nganye inomlingani wayo. Azikho zonke izinja ezibuhlobo. Yaye ukuba ufuna umntwana wakho ukhuselekile xa eqhuba inja, kufuneka ufundise indlela yokuthetha naye ngokufanelekileyo. Izinja zinokuthetha nathi ngoncedo lomzimba wazo. Ngoko ke, ukuyiqonda, kufuneka uncede umntwana afunde ulwimi lwazo.
Ulwimi lweelwimi lwenja
Ngokuqinisekileyo, inja ayinakuthetha nathi njengomntu onomntu kodwa ke bathetha nathi. Omnye kufuneka aqwalasele ngokucophelela indlela abaziphatha ngayo. Ukuba inja ibuhlungu, ngoko iya kuzama ukujonga ibanzi kunokuba ubukhulu bayo boqobo. Umsila wakhe kunye neendlebe ziza kuphakanyiswa, kwaye uboya obushushu be-nape buya kuphakanyiswa. Ngelo xesha, unako ukuguqula umsila wakhe ngokugqithiseleyo. Kodwa oku akubonakali kubuhlobo, kodwa kwimeko evuyayo yenja. Into efanelekileyo kule meko kukuba uhlale kude nenja, ngokubanzi kunokwenzeka.
Ukuba inja iyesaba, iya kuwela phantsi. Intloko kunye neendlebe zeenja ziya kuncitshiswa, kwaye umsila uphathwe phakathi kweemilenze. Nangona kunjalo, akuyimfuneko ukuza enja inja, ekubeni ukwesaba kwayo kungaba yintlanzi. Ngoko nje shiya inja yodwa. Ukuba inja inobungane, ngoko uya kuma. Intloko yakhe ayiyi kuncitshiswa, kwaye ingakhuliswa, iindlebe zakhe ziyakubheka emva okanye zihambele. Umlomo yi-ajar, kodwa umhlathi awunayo. Ngexesha elifanayo, ugxuma umsila wakhe kwaye akayifihli phakathi kweepaji zakhe, kodwa uyigcina nje ngaphantsi komgca wakhe. Konke oku kubonisa ukuba inja ihlaziye kwaye unako ukwenza abahlobo.
Indlela yokunxibelelana nenja
Into yokuqala omele uyenze kukuba uhlale ukhona xa umntwana wakho ekhuluma nenja. Kufuneka ukuba ufundise umntwana ukuba angayidla inja kuphela xa usondele. Emva koko, nangona inja iziphatha ngendlela enobungane, ingasondelene nomnini, akuyimfuneko ukuba iya kuhlala ikhona kungekho mnikazi.
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ubambe inja kwaye udibanise ezindlebeni okanye umsila awukwazi, isilwanyana asiyithandi. Chaza kumntwana ukuba akufanele ugugu kwaye uyamemeza ecaleni kwintja. Ukuba inja idla okanye ilele, ungavumeli umntwana ukuba afike kwaye aze azame ukuyichukumisa, kuba ingaluma (ukuba inja ayengaqhelekanga kuyo ukususela ebuntwaneni). Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuba ungakhathazeki inja ngelixa udla kwaye ulala.
Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuqwalasela uhlobo lwenja onayo: inja okanye inja endala. Kungcono kumntwana ukuba uthathe intsana kwaye zikhula kwaye zidlule umzuzu wemfundo kunye. Ukuba usenayo inja endala, ngokokuqala kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba abantwana abayithobeli inja. Kufuneka baziswe. Ukwenza oku, makumnike umntwana into inja. Ngoko baya kukwazi. Vumela inja isetyenziswe ukuvumba komntwana. Ngelo xesha, kuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana eme, angabi kuqhuma okanye ameme.
Xa uhola inja ekuhambeni, thabatha umntwana kunye nawe. Thatha uhambo epakini, isixeko. Menze enze imisebenzi yakho, kwaye umyalelo womntwana. Inja iya kuqonda ukuba uyayiphendula kwaye yonke into iyahamba kakuhle. Ukuba uyavuya, inja iya kuvuya.
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba angaphosisi inja. Ukuba umntwana wakho akafuni ukuba nomusa kuye, wususe inja okanye ususe umntwana. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana ubangelwa ngengozi kwintlungu, kuyimfuneko ukuyihlawula (ukulinganisela amava angamahle). Ukuba inja ibonisa ubundlobongela, kungcono ukudibana neengcali.
Ungaze ushiye umntwana kunye nenja engalindelekanga. Kufuneka ufundise bobabini: umntwana kunye nenja. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, kumzekelo wakho, fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba aphathe inja ngothando.
Kwiintsapho ezinenja, ngokwemibare, izihlandlo ezintathu zingaphantsi kwezifo zentliziyo. Kwaye oku kuqondakalayo, kuba izilwanyana zinciphisa uxinzelelo. Izilwanyana ziphinde ziphindwe kabini kwiintsapho ezinenja. Oku kungenxa yokuba ukuphefumula kwenja kudala uhlobo lwe-bactericidal environment. Abantwana abanenja bane-psyche efanelekileyo. Inja ngaphezu kokubamba i-biofield engalunganga, inokubona ngaphambili iintlekele zeentlekele ezahlukeneyo kunye neengozi.