Yingakho bacaphukisa kakhulu xa lo mva utshabalalisa uhlobo lwesimo "somntwana ococekileyo". Indoda, uyise, ibheka "izinto ezintle" ezinjalo ngeminwe yakhe. Ilungelo lokukhulisa umntwana nguyise nalo liphawulekayo. U yaqonda nje ukuba:
a) akukhathazeki ukuba luhlobo luni lwe-diaper olugqwebileyo, into ephambili kukuba bayenza imisebenzi yabo kakuhle;
b) akunakuncedo ukufihla umntwana encinci, uya kungcola, kuba ngeli xesha lobomi oku akunakuphetshwa.
UPapa ucinga ngezinto ezininzi "zomhlaba": umzekelo, indlela yokudlula kumava akhe kumntwana, ukuze aphumelele. Uyazi kakuhle ukuba akakwazi ukugqibelela, kwaye akazami ukukhuphisana nabanye oomatshato abathandana naye kuqala ebhodweni.
Ngcebiso kabawo
Bonisa ukuzimela kweembono kunye nomba wobudlelwane nomntwana. Ungazami ukulungelelanisa indlela yomnxibelelwano womama. Udinga ukwazi ukuba wenzeni ngunyana xa uwedwa. Yaye ungamgibeli uncedo kumfazi wakhe kokuqala kokutshatyalaliswa komntwana. Zama ukuqonda yonke into yakho. Biza uncedo kuphela xa uvakalelwa kukuba awukwazi ukujamelana nale meko.
Utata udla ngokuqhagamshelana nomntwana kunye nomdlalo, kunye nomama - kunye namatyala (awukwazi ukungcola, kufuneka uhlambe izandla). Ncedisa umfazi wakho kumbandela onzima wokukhulisa umntwana njengobawo kwaye uzama ukuguqula inxalenye yemidlalo ibe yinto yokuqeqesha: "sihlamba ubuso bethu njengama-pussies" okanye "ngokuhamba siza kwakha indlu yentlabathi, kwaye bonke abakhi banxibe iiglavu, babonise indlela ababeka ngayo." Ukudlala, konke kulula ukuyiqonda.
Unomdla kunye nokuqwalasela
Imidlalo kunye noonxibelelwano noyise kuyashukumisa ubuchule. Utata uthi kancinci, kodwa malunga nezinto ezisisiseko - izimbobo ezimnyama, iibhere ze-polar kunye nendlela yokuphonsa ibhokisi yokufanisa kwikhabhobho yekhitchini. Ukubonisa kule nxaxheba umama kunengxaki, umsebenzi wakhe ukufundisa umntwana ukuba enze njani. Amadoda ngokwemvelo kufuneka aqhube phambili phambili, qulunqa into. Kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuhlakulela inzame kumantombazana, kuba abafana baqala ngakumbi ukuzama into entsha. Ngenxa yokuqhotyoshelana kwamantombazana endlwini, kwinto enokuzungezelela, upapa kufuneka alwele ukwandisa i-horizons yentombi, ukuba azenzele into ehamba ngaphaya kwayo eyaziwayo.
Ngcebiso kabawo
Musa ukulibala ukuba ubuchule bunobungozi. Ubungakanani obuhle xa ufuna ukufumana indlela yokuphuma kwentlekele. Kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo, ukukhangela amathuba amaninzi kunokubaluleka kakhulu kwinkqubo yokukhetha nokwenza izigqibo. Ubuntu obungafundile, utshintsho oluqhubekayo lwezenzo kunye nokubonakala kumthwalo omkhulu. Iyakuthathaka indlela yokukhusela kwengqondo.
Ngoko ke, zama ukugcina isigqi sobomi esaziwayo kwintsana. Ukuhlala kunye nomntwana ixesha elingenamama, akufanelekile ukumondla ngokukhawuleza uSushi, i-steak ngegazi, ukukhokela iindwendwe kumalume ongaqhelekanga (maye abe ngama-cronies) ongaqhelekanga, umfundise ngokukhawuleza ukuba athathe i-ketchup kunye ne-mayonnaise etafileni ...
Ukutshintsha ukusuka ekwakhiweni kwekhredithi kwindlu yeekhabhi, ubaba ufuna ixesha. Abasetyhini baxinezelekile emoyeni kwingxoxo. Umntu, ukuze unciphise uxinzelelo emva komsebenzi, kufuneka ube yedwa - nqakraza kwi-remote control control okanye inkinobho yemouse yekhompyutheni (imifanekiso ekhanyayo inceda ukukhulula intloko). Ngoko uzama ukudibanisa nomfazi wakho - udinga imizuzu eyi-20 yokuphumla emva komsebenzi ukuhlala wedwa kunye nawe, ngoko unokujamelana nomntwana, ukhulule umama wakho.
Igunya likaPapin lisiza abantwana ukuba baphumelele ngempumelelo. Igama lezemidlalo lifundisa ukucinga ngokuhlalutya kwaye luvelise izakhono ezincinci zezithuthi, njengoko, njengoko kwaziwa, nazo zivuselela iinkqubo zobuchopho:
"Amaqhosha"
Thatha ibhotile evulekileyo nge-cap screw kunye namaqhosha ama-10. Cinga ngamazwi aqala ngeleta A. Ngegama ngalinye, phosa iqhosha kwibhotile. Xa uqokelela yonke into, vala ibhotile kunye nesiqhekeza (kulo mdlalo kokubili intetho kunye nezakhono ezifanelekileyo zokuphuhlisa izakhono).
"IPiramidi"
Ukuqokelela ipiramidi, yithetha amagama aqala ngetekisi B. Enye ingubo enye igama. Incwadi, ngokuqinisekileyo, ingatshintshwa.
Ngcebiso kabawo
Ngokuchasene nobubele bomama, indima kabawo ilawula. Kodwa funda ukuba uhambelane kwiimvume zakho kunye neemvume. Abapapa bathanda ukutsho ukuba abayi ku "hlengisa" imigaqo, kodwa ngokwenene bahlala bebonisa isimo sengqondo esingathandekiyo kwizinto ezincinci (ngokukhawuleza umntwana othe amathoyizi aye elele kwiphepha iintsuku ezintathu kufuneka "ngokukhawuleza, le ngcaciso imfutshane ifakwe!"). Kule meko, abapapa banyanisekile kwiphulaphulo imigaqo-siseko (kakuhle, ukunyanzela ugogo, kakuhle, wabiba umatshini - yintoni into engekho nto, ongenalo le nto!). Ngokwenza njalo, uyaziphazamisa umntwana. Ukuba ngesenzo esifanayo ubaba usabela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ngexesha ngalinye, umntwana kunzima ukufunda indlela yokuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo.
Intsha kunye nobungozi
Umfanekiso oqhelekileyo kwindawo yokudlala. Nangona oomama behlala bebukele umntwana, bephindaphinda kwinqanaba ngalinye, "Qaphela!" Kwaye "UFu, kuyinto engcolileyo!", Abapapa banobuqilima "baphambukisa" umntwana ukusuka kolunye uhlangothi, bafundise ukuhamba kwimiqulu, bahlole iindawo ezintsha.
Ngcebiso kabawo
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungathathwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuphakama komsebenzi wobawo udlala ngexesha apho abantwana befuna ukulala (akulula ukwenza oko kamva). Khumbula ukuba xa uneminyaka engama-2 ukuya kwimi-4, abantwana banokulahlekelwa lula ukulawula imizwa yabo, njengothando, inzondo, ukwesaba. Akwacaci ngokucacileyo phakathi kwezinto zangempela kunye ezingenangqiqo. Ukuba uyise udlala ibhere, umntwana okwangoku kwaye empeleni uyamjonga ibhere. Oku kunamandla kakhulu kumntwana onjalo. Ngako oko, imidlalo yokuxhatshazwa kufuneka ibe yinto enhle-imvelo kunye nexesha elifutshane, nangona umntwana ecela ngaphezulu. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba bangagqithisi ukulandelelana okanye ukulwa, kodwa bahlale ngaphakathi kwimiba.
Ukulawula nokuzithiba
Utata angakwazi ukulungelelanisa umntwana ukuba imida yinto enokukwazi kwaye ayikwazi ukuyenza, ngokusekelwe kwimeko ethile. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukubi ukutshiza (nangona unako ukuhleka ihlazo ngamanye amaxesha), kodwa omnye akakwazi ukuphambanisa ngamadoda amakhulu - kuya kuba nemiphumo emibi kakhulu, njengoko iphula imigangatho yoluntu. Utata ufundisa umntwana ukuba azilawule kwaye "angamvumeli" ubudlelwane nabanye abantu.
Indlela "yokukhanya kwendlela"
Ngamazwi, hlukanisa kwiinkalo ezintathu uvavanyo lokuziphatha komntwana kwaye ululandele ngokucacileyo. Yonke into ivunyelwe: badlala kunoma yiphi igumbi, khuphukela kubazali bakho ekuseni ukulala, uthele amanzi ... - unokwenza konke, kodwa ngeemeko: uphonsa amathoyizi kuphela kwigumbi lakho, memela iindwendwe, uxwayise abazali, thabathe kwibhokisi kuphela ubuhla beplastiki .. .
Akunjalo: ugijime ngaphaya kwendlela, udwebe ezindongeni, ubize, ukhale.
Imidlalo kunye nobaba
Kwimisebenzi yomzimba:
1. Emva kokubeka umntwana kwibhola ngesisu, bamba imilenze kwaye uphume phambili, kwaye emva koko. Lo msebenzi ulungiselela ukuphuhliswa kwezibamba kunye namagxa. Xa inkwenkwe iyakwazi ukujamelana nalo msebenzi, ungayigcina imilenze, kwaye iya kuhamba ngezandla. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuba umzimba womntwana ufana nomgangatho.
Intambo, intambo yokubeka kwifom yesangqa "indlu", kukho ukufihla apho. Kufuneka zenziwe ngamagumbi ahlukeneyo. Emva koko uqala umdlalo wokubamba. Injongo: umntwana ugijimela "endlwini", apho sele ekhuselekile. Emva koko unokutshintsha iindima ngeemvumba. Kwizitrato "izindlu" kunokutsalwa izibonda (izikwere) kunye nekhefu, entlabathi, kwikhephu.
Kakade ke, ootata banenkxalabo, kodwa bachaza iimvakalelo zabo. Bakholelwa ukuba kuphela ngokuzama ukuzijonga ngokwakho ungafunda ukuzimela.
Ekhaya
Ukubuya ekuhambeni, cela umntwana ukuba akuyise ekhaya. Mnike ithuba lokuya apho acinga ukuba kufanelekile, ngezikhathi ezithile ucele ukucacisa imibuzo: "Kwaye sasinomdla wokutsala i-birch kufuphi nendlu, kwaye nanko kukho amagaraji." Phakamisa ingcamango kuye kunye nomfanekiso: ngokomzekelo, ngaba ngabaphathi beenqwelo zezixhobo ezifuna indlela eya ekhaya.
Abantwana kaninzi balahla abantwana kwizinto ezilula kwaye ezingenabungozi (ukudlala nabanye abantwana, ukukhetha izembatho ngokwabo), beyiqonda njengento. Ncedise ukuba batshintshe indawo yembono kulo mzekelo xa kufuneka umama.