Ukuze ungenzi iimpazamo, kunele ukwazi ukuba yini eyabangela abantu abaninzi.
Darling, awucingi ukuba ...?
Hayi, akubonakali kuye ukuba unotyebileyo, unamafutha, akanakho ukuphawula kwincinci yakho encinane. Ngoko musa ukukhumbuza iimpazamo zakho kwakhona. Ukuba umntu akayi kusinda, akenzi namabango ngembonakalo yakho, ngoko yonke into iyamxelisa. Ukuba uhlala umxelela ukuba ufumene iipilisi ezimbalwa, uneminyaka ubudala, ukhangeleka ngakumbi, ucinga ngako kwaye ujonge ngokunyameko, kodwa ujonge nje ngamehlo akho. Kukho umngcipheko omkhulu ekugqibeleni uza kukwazi ukumqinisekisa ukuba into ephosakeleyo kuwe.
Musa ukugxothwa!
Xa ubuhlobo buqala nje, amantombazana ahamba nantoni na ukuyikholisa indoda yakhe. Bakulungele ukulala kwi-curlers, imihla ngemihla baye kwi-gym kunye ne-solarium, ukususwa kweenwele nangona kungadingeki. Kodwa ixesha elidlulayo, umxhesho wenkanuko, intombazana iyaqonda ukuba le ndoda ibanjwe kwaye iyancipha. Ngako-ke ukukhula komzimba, ukuguguza kunye nekhwele kunqunyanyisiwe kuze kufike iholide ezayo, ukungabikho komzimba kubakho kwi-epilation, kodwa kunomdla ongalindelekanga weengxowa ze-swegy kunye neebhulukhwe ezingenasici.
Indoda iyakuthandana nentombazana enye, kodwa iyahluke ngokupheleleyo, engayifuni nhlobo. Ngaba kufuneka uchithe ixesha kunye nomtsha?
Gcina ingqondo ingqwalasela.
Amadoda aphikisana nezidalwa, eziphikisana ngakumbi kunabesifazane. Musa ukuqonda, kodwa ungabi sisisiphukuphuku-yiloo nto amadoda ayifunayo. Kubonakala ngathi enye iyahlukana enye, kodwa oku akunjalo ngokupheleleyo. Inyaniso kukuba iingcamango zokuba umntu onobuqili kunye nendlela ezibonakalisa ngayo, unokungafani ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba uqala "ukuyilayisha" ngomgca ongapheliyo wolwazi obonakala ngathi uyamkhathaza kwaye awunangqiqo, kuya kubakho nto encinci.
Kule meko, indoda enqabileyo inqwenela ukubona isicatshulwa esincinci. Ufuna ukuthetha nawe ubuncinci ngamanye amaxesha, kwaye ukuba awukwazi ukuxhasa incoko enye, ubuhlobo bakho buya kutshabalaliswa. Ukuze unomdla kuye, akufuneki ukuba ufunde idivaysi yemoto kwaye ubukele yonke imidlalo yebhola, ngamanye amaxesha unomdla kwizinto ezithandayo. Okanye funda iimagazini zamadoda, apho kukho amagama.
Musa ukuchukumisa ingcwele!
Abangcwele banokuba nayiphi na into: ibhola, iidiski, ikhompyutheni, i-T-shirt eyintandokazi. Ungathinteli ezi zinto ngaphandle kwemvume, ungazami ukutshintsha iziteshi ngexesha lomdlalo obalulekileyo kwaye ungazami ukubeka izinto ngendlela apho ucinga ukuba akunjalo. Umzekelo, kwiifayile kwideskithophu. Oku kuya kuphazamisa ingxabano kwaye kuya kutshabalalisa ulwalamano lwakho kuphela.
Cwaka!
Musa ukuxelela abahlobo bakho, umama okanye osebenza nabo ngobudlelwane bakho. Unomsindo. Musa ukuxoxa ngobomi obusondeleyo kunye nabahlobo kunye nomama wakhe, akayi kuphinda afune. Musa ukunika ezinye iimfihlakalo zabantu-abantu bahlala benomdla kumbuzo wokugcina ezinye iimfihlo zabantu. Kwaye ngokubanzi, thetha encinane.
Ungabi yi-amoeba!
Indoda ayithandi amantombazana abangenayo imibono yabo. Ewe, kulungile xa intombazana ibheka indoda njengomthombo kuphela wobulumko, kodwa ungadluli kwaye awukwazi ukugqiba nayiphi na into. Indoda iyacaca indlela ehlala ngayo phambi kwayo, ukuba ayinako ukukhetha okokugqoka, apho uya khona, ukuba uthini na kwaye ufanele ukuphupha. Musa ukumgxeka ngenxa yokukhathazeka, ngoko umntu unokukuthenga iqoqo le-anecdotes kwaye ushiye phantsi kwikamva eliqaqambileyo.
Musa ukumbiza ngokuba uhambahamba, ukuba awukwazi ukuba ungathanda ukuya kuphi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, yibaluleke kakhulu kwiminqweno yakho kwaye ungesabi ukuthatha uxanduva malunga ubuncinane kwezinye zezinto.
Ungabi kubanda!
Amadoda aphila ngabantu, ngoko akumangalisi ukuba bathanda amantombazana athile kunye novuyo. Ukuba uhlale uhlungu ngenxa yesizathu, uhlala ukhalela ngomlenze, wenqaba ukulala, okanye ukulala ukulala, ixesha elide kunye nawe akukho mntu uya kuhlala nawe.
Ewe, unokuhlala ungabhala uluhlu olufunayo kunye noko ungakufunanga ukukwenza nendoda. Imfihlelo yonke kukuba kukho enye icebiso elungileyo: ziphathe naye ngendlela onokuthanda ukuba iphathe ngayo nawe. Kwaye kuphela ke uya kufumana umphumo wokuba uthanda.