Oku, kungakhankanyi isizukulwana esincinane, apho ungayiva khona amagama asemagqabini nje kuphela kweklasi yezilwanyana, kodwa kunye nezinto, amathoyizi kunye neemeko zendalo. Kutheni sinika amagama ethu amancinci amnandi? Ngaba awukwazi ukubonisa lonke uthando ngokubhekisa ngegama?
Iingcali zengqondo zithi zonke ezi zikhundla zethu zibonakalisa kakuhle ubudlelwane bezesondo kunye nokulungelelaniswa kwemikhosi phakathi kwamaqabane. Emva koko, sinokuhlukanisa omnye nomnye ngenxa yamagama abazali asinike wona. Kodwa amazwi agxininisayo-eli yiphasiwedi yokudlulisela kwintsimi yakho. Ngokubhekiselele kwabanye, njengokuba bakubiza, unquma, enye ikuvumela ukuba uzibize u-Irochka, kunye no-Irina Stanislavovna kuphela.
Ngokuphathelele ukupapashwa kwamagama amnandi kunye namagama okuzimela kubathandekayo, esidlangalaleni basetyenziselwa izibini ezineengxaki phakathi kobudlelwane babo. Ukufowunelwa "amabhinki" kuluntu, bazama ukubonisa ukuba konke kulungile kwaye akukho ziingxaki, kwaye ukuba isimo esitsha sibafanele ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa inyaniso - yinto nje igobolondo, kwaye ayinamandla kakhulu.
Abaqabane bafihla amanqaku abo okuvela kwihlabathi langaphandle, kuba bakholelwa ukuba ihlabathi liyongezelela kwinto yolonwabo.
Iintsingiselo zamagama
Kuqala kokujonga kungabonakala ukuba zonke izina lomdlalo zifana kwaye zinentsingiselo efanayo, iyakhathaza. Kodwa! Kuvela ukuba "i-pupsik" kunye ne "sprore" zihluke kakhulu. Ukuze uqonde injongo enikwe ngayo igama lesiteketiso, siza kuhlalutya udidi lwabo.
"Ukusukela ebuntwaneni"
Ngamanye amaxesha siba ngamangqina kwiimeko ezingenangqondo, xa umfazi ebiza umyeni wakhe ukuba "ngumntwana". Oku, kunjalo, kunokugwetyiswa kukuba sonke siyabathanda abantwana, izidalwa ezinomsoco kwaye ezingenakubungozi. Ngoko ke, siyaqhathanisa abantu nabantwana. Uthetha ntoni le ntetho engenanto ?
Yaye ithi ngomnqweno wokulawula loo ndoda. Uninzi lwabasetyhini luya kungenazi nto, kwaye ezinye, ngoko, zama "ukuqhuba loo mntu phantsi kwesithende". Kwakhona kaninzi, abafazi benza oku ngenxa yokuba bazive benembopheleleko yomntwana omkhulu. Emva koko, kuyimfuneko ukuyondla, uhlambe kwaye uyibeke embhedeni. Ngako oko, kwimeko yegama lomama, abafazi bayabanika, bazive benembopheleleko yokubeleka "umntwana".
«Izwe lezilwanyana»
Mhlawumbi, amaqhina ezivela kwilizwe lezilwanyana - le yinto ebalulekileyo kakhulu. Ukuqamba igama elinjalo kusetyenziswa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngokuthi "amahobe enothando", ngendlela, ixesha elivela kwi-opera efanayo. Ngokungafani nehlabathi labantwana, kukho ezininzi izilwanyana kwizilwanyana. Ngako oko, unokubiza umnqweno kunye ne-heckgehog ne-tiger yasekhaya, kuxhomekeke kumoya weqabane.
Ezinye izibini zigoba icala elivumelekileyo kwaye zibiza enye iindidi, i-plateypuses, ii-crocodiles, ezizibukeka zihle kuphela ekubonweni kokuqala. Musa ukulibala ngobomi besondo, ngenxa yokuba amanqweno anjalo angenakwenzeka ukuba athabathe iqabane lakho, kunokuba uphendule. Kwakhona kule ndawo kukho ingxaki kunye nokuphindaphinda. Amantombazana amaninzi kunye nabafana abakucingi ngako oko, xa simbiza iqabane elithi "hare", silinganisa nalo lonke u "hare". Kwaye ukuba njengomntu ongeyifunayo nonke, kwaye ngokubanzi, kutheni ke beza nala magama amnandi, ukuba sele sele efana namagama.
Amathoyizi
Abameli beli sebe bavame ukubizwa ngokuthi "idodoli" okanye "iidoda". Ingcamango yokuqamba igama lihle kubuhle obungaphandle, kuba iidodoli zenziwa ngokuklanywa kakuhle. Ngoko ke, ukuba ubizwa kanjalo, kufuneka uhlambele. Ingxaki yile. Iidlali azikho nje amanani amahle, kodwa nabafileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo zibonwa njengento enhle, ekulungele ukubonisa ihlabathi elijikelezile, kwaye nomzimba ulungile. Ngokuqhelekileyo, la maantombazana akhetha amadoda atyebi kwaye athenge "iidodoli" zabo izindlu ezintle neengubo zokugqoka.
"Impahla yabucala"
Amadoda namabhinqa amaninzi akhetha ukukhetha konke okusemgangathweni kunye nefanelekileyo kumgaqo-siseko, njengomtshato. Ukuze uqinisekise ukuba umnini wakho ungumntu, landela isigama sakhe malunga nawe. Ukuba esikhundleni sokuthi "ulungile" uthi "into yam entle" okanye ukuba esikhundleni sokuba "othandekayo" - "yam isithandwa" - oku kuthetha ukuba indoda yakho ayisebenzisi ukwabelana kwaye ekubeni unayo, ungowe kuphela.
UTanya okanye uTanya?
Iingqabane ezininzi aziqondi ukuba kutheni zifanele zinike izitifiketi ezithandayo. Bakhetha ukusebenzisa igama, ubuninzi kwifom ye-caressing. Iingcali zengqondo zibonisa ukuba kukho uluhlu olupheleleyo lwezilwanyana ezithwala intsingiselo kwaye zibonisa isimo sengqondo somntu ojongana naye.
Ngokomzekelo, izilwanyana "-echka" kunye "-ochka" - iTanechka, Allochka, Vanechka, ibonise inhlonipho, inhlonipho kunye nobungqina malunga nomnxibelelwano. Ukongezelela, iifom zamagama ezinjalo zisetyenziswe kwisimo esisemthethweni apho zivakalisa khona ngokwenene isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, izazi zeengqondo zithi ubukho bamagama okuba ngamanyathelo obunene kulunxulumano luyimfuneko. Bahlengahlengisa isimo sengqondo kwisimo esifanelekileyo. Kwakhona, izazi zeengqondo zigxininisa ukuthambekela kokuthi, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunye nangakumbi ngokubambisana nabo baxhamlileyo, ukuphuhliswa okuthembisayo kobomi babo kunye nomtshato onwabileyo. Kwimeko echasene nayo, xa inani leetasta liyehla, oku kubonisa ukuba ubudlelwane bupholisa, kwaye amaqabane athatheka.
Ngokomzekelo, eMalaysia, urhulumente, ekubanjeni kwinani leqhawulo lomtshato wabemi, ubhenela kubo ngesibheno sokuthandana, ukuxabisa, nokunyamezela nokubiza ngokunyamekela, ukuqokelela amagama amabizo amatsha.
Ngako oko namhlanje sibiza omnye umnye "iimpawu" kunye "noonogwaja" kungekhona ngenxa yokuba bafana nabo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba siyabathanda. Ukuthelekisa kunye nezilwanyana esizithandayo. Nangona ixesha lokuthelekisa likwahlukileyo, kuba xa umntu ekhuthele kakhulu embhedeni, ubizwa ngokuba yi "tiger zasendle", kwaye ukuba akayithandanga, "nje i-cuber cub". Kodwa amadoda akacaphuki nakwi-cuber cub, kuba kungekhona wonke umntu onomoya weshushu waseSpain, umntu kunye nokuzola, ngokwesondo esifanelekileyo.