Siya kwi-kindergarten! Yintoni abazali abayilungiselela yona?

Wonke umama uyamthanda umntwana wakhe. Uyamkhathalela kwaye uzama ukuhlala ejikeleze. Ewe, emva kwayo yonke into, uninzi lwawo wonke umama ufuna ukubona iimpawu zokuqala zabantwana bakhe, ndifuna ukubona indlela umntwana ahlala ngayo, avuke, ahambe, wathi igama lokuqala (kwaye lihle ngakumbi ukuba igama elithi "umama") kunye nemiphumo eminye eyahlukeneyo.

Ewe, xa usondele, unokukhusela kuyo yonke into. Kwaye ngoku wakho umntwana ukhule. Uphuma ngekhefu lokubeletha kwaye kufuneka uhambe emsebenzini. Ewe, kulungile xa kukho oogogo kunye noomkhulu oba nako ukunyamekela umntwana, ngakumbi umntwana wakho uya kuvuya ngayo. Kodwa ukuba akunjalo? Emva koko sekuyisikhathi sokucinga malunga nesantya. Ezi zigqibo uya kuba nazo zonke iintsapho. Kubalulekile ukuba ukhethe ngokukhethekileyo i-kindergarten kwaye oku kukulungele ukubuza imibono yabamama abazisa abantwana babo apho kwaye kuyinqweneleka ukudliwano-ndlebe nabantu abaninzi ngangokunokwenzeka.

Kwaye ke, siya kwi-kindergarten! Yintoni abazali abayilungiselela yona? Kuze kube yimini, kukholelwa ukuba umntwana ogqwesileyo uhambelana neqela elitsha kwi-1.5-2 iminyaka, kodwa uninzi unina unika abantwana babo kwiminyaka emithathu. Oku kuqondakalayo, umama wahlala eholide waza wagqiba ekubeni ahambe emsebenzini, kwaye nawuphi na umama onothando uya kuqwalasela ukuba umntwana esele ehlala naye, ngoko ukhuselwe ngakumbi.

Ngaphambi kokuba unike umntwana kwi-kindergarten kufuneka uyilungiselele, kwaye kucetyiswa ukuba uqale ngokukhawuleza. Zama ukusho yonke imihla e-kindergarten uya kuhamba kakuhle. Akunjalo nantoni na umntwana angayesaba, esithi akakwazi ukujamelana nento ethile, ukuba akayi kukhululeka apho, kuba akuyi kuba nomama kunye nayo yonke into kule ndlela. Emva koko, umntwana kule minyaka ukholelwa yonke into abantu abadala bayithethayo, kwaye ikholelwa ukuba ukuba abadala bathi njalo, ngoko kunjalo.

Nika ingqalelo kwimpilo yengane yakho, qalisa ugxininisa, yenza iibhakabhaka zomoya, iifutha ezimanzi, hamba ngaphezulu emoyeni, usebenze, ngoko umntwana wakho uya kugula. Musa ukulibala inyanga ngaphambi kokungena kwi-kindergarten ukwenza zonke izitofu ezifunekayo.

Enye yezilungiselelo eziphambili kukufundisa ukuzimela. Ukuza kwi-kindergarten, umntwana kufuneka akwazi ukuhamba ebhodweni ngokwakhe, sebenzisa i-spoon kunye nefoloko, usele kwigug, ugqoke (abanonophelo baya kunceda). Kwaye kuba kubi ukuba abazali abazange baqale ukufundisa kwangaphambili, kuba kuya kuba nzima kumntwana wakho ukufunda yonke into ngexesha elifutshane. Emva koko kufuneka uhlawule imodi yasekhaya ukuze ihambelane nomsebenzi wemihla ngemihla kwi-kindergarten. Ukulala ubusuku kubaluleke kakhulu kumntwana. Kwi-kindergarten, abantwana banokukhawuleza bathathele ingxolo, besuka kwintlungu, iimpikiswano, imidlalo, njl. kwaye yingako kufuneka baphumle. Ukuba umntwana wakho akalala ngexesha lomhla, kufuneka umfundise oko. Qala ngokuphumla okuqhelekileyo, njengokufunda iincwadi, ukuphumla okuncinci, ukuxelela inkcazelo yefestile kwaye ngokuthe gqolo ukuqhubela phambili kwixesha elide, ngenxa yoko, umntwana uya kulala. Kuya kuba kucacile ukuba ngabazali bafanele balungiselele.

Ngaphambi kokuba unike umntwana enkulisa, kufuneka uqhelane nootitshala kunye namannies. Unokuzisa umntwana wakho okokuqala ngethuba elifutshane. Yaye unako ukuhlala nomntwana wakho mncinci, ngoko kuya kuba lula kuye ukulungelelanisa.

Abanye oomama abafuni ukuyeka igazi labo kunye nokuqala ukukhala, beshiya ikhaya. Yiba nomsindo kumntwana! Yena kwaye ke ngoku kunzima, uhlala kwindawo engaqhelekanga, kwaye nangona uninzi lwabantu abangaqhelekanga kuye, kwaye nanko unomntu osekuhlaleni kunye nomntu osondeleyo uhlala einyembezi. Bonisa ukuzithemba kwakho, ngoko umntwana akayi kubayika abantu abanomdla, uya kuba nethemba kubo (ngokuba uthemba!).

Ukulungelelanisa umntwana wakho uya kuba ngeenyanga ezimbini. Ngeli xesha, isondlo sinokuqala ukunciphisa, oku kubangelwa kukutya okungavamile (uhlobo olutsha lokutya kunye nenambatho), okanye ukuphendula okuxinzeleleyo. Kodwa ungakhathazeki ngabo, ukuba umntwana uqala ukutya, ubuncinci encinane kwiplani, ngoko ulungelelaniso luphumelele. Ngokulala, kuya kuba nzima ukulala ngexesha lomhla, kwaye iphupha aliyi kuhlala ixesha elide, mhlawumbi emva kokuvusa umntwana wakho uya kulila. Ubuthongo busuku ngeli xesha luya kuphumla. Emva kokulungelelaniswa, ubuthongo buqhelekile. Nangona ngexesha lokulungelelanisa, umntwana usenokulibala oko wayesazi ngaphambili (usebenzisa i-cutlery, ukudibanisa i-shoelaces, njl.), Kodwa iya kudlula, kwaye ifunde kwintsapho yakhe into entsha.

Ungesabi ukuba ngosuku lwesibini umntwana uyakhala kakhulu. Uvele esazi ukuba ngoku uya kuziswa kwaye umama uya kushiya. Musa ukulibala ukuba abantwana baxhasi. Bathemba ukuba xa ukhala ngokubi, mhlawumbi unyoko uya kumthatha ekhaya.

Njalo kusihlwa, ube nomdla kwindlela yakhe yokuhamba ngayo, oko akubonayo, eyayifunayo, okanye yenza, ngoko uya kuba nolonwabo ngakumbi, uya kufuna ukuziqhayisa ngokutsha, kwaye emva kwesikhashana uza kukhawuleza kwi-kindergarten. Nakhu njalo, into ephambili kukulungiselela umntwana ngokufanelekileyo.

Kungcono kwi-kindergarten ukulungelelanisa abo bantwana abakhulayo kwintsapho enoxolo kunye nobungane. Umntu okhulayo kufuneka ahlale ethetha amazwi anomusa aze amnyamekele, ngoko uya kuziziva efunekayo kwaye ekhuselwe.