Ndixelele, ngaba uziva uvuyo xa ihlumelo elihlambulukileyo litshiza kuwe emadolweni kwaye uqala ukugawula ukutshitshisa kwakho? Ngokuqinisekileyo, nokuba siza kutyelela kwaye sithatha isilwanyana somnye, sifuna kuqala ukumnika ukuncwina / ukutshonga, uze ufumane uvuyo kunye nokuphulukiswa ekuphumeni kwakhe.
Enyanisweni, ukulungiswa kwethu kwexesha elinye ngesilwanyana esingaqhelekanga ngexesha lokuhlenga i-energy exchange ehlukile ngokupheleleyo kunesilwanyana sakho. Ukuba ufunda ukunyamekela kwisilwanyana sakho, unokuqonda into enomdla kwaye uyiluncedo kuwe nendlela yakho yobomi. Kule nqaku, uya kufumanisa ukuba luhle kangakanani kwimpilo yakho onokuyifumana ekubeni uxoxe nekati / ikati lakho.
Qala okufutshane malunga neyona nto ininzi. I-cat purr njani? Kule sihloko akukho mpendulo engabonakaliyo, abanye bathi kukho ukubandakanya iintambo zamagama, ezinye zikhanya. Zama ukuphulaphula apho isandi sivela khona, kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba naphi na ukuphulaphula, ukugubungela kuyinto efanayo kunye nomsindo kuwo wonke umzimba. Andiyazi impendulo eyiyo, kutheni kunjalo, kwaye le nto ayiyona nto ephambili, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba ukuhlambuluka kwimeko ekhethekileyo yentsapho yekati, eyakha into ethile kwaye, ebaluleke kakhulu, iyanceda ukudanduluka kwamandla. Yingakho sihlala sifuna ukuba ikati ihlambuluke, xa sisesandleni sethu, sinokuqonda ukuba iyanceda kakhulu nakwizilwanyana. Enyanisweni, kukho ubungqina besayensi. Kuye kubonakala ukuba iikati "i-murch" kwibala lobubanzi be-25 ukuya ku-150 Hz, kwiyeza, ezi zizithuthi zisetyenziselwa ukuphulukana neziqhekeza kunye nezinye izilima.
Yintoni okuyimfuneko ukuyiqwalasela, ukuba isilwanyana sakho saba ngugqirha wakho?
Eyokuqala, ukwenzela ukuba unyango lube luncedo kuwe, kufuneka uqaphele ngenyameko impilo yezilwanyana (iziko, uboya, ulusu, i-mucous, njl). Kule meko, ukunxibelelana naye kuya kuhlala kukuphela kwakho.
Okwesibini, unyango luya kuzisa inzuzo xa uthanda isilwanyana sakho. Ngendlela, iikati, ngokungafani neenja, ukutyhola ukutya kunzima kakhulu. Nangona unika ukutya kwikati yomnye umntu, isimo sakhe sengqondo asiyi kutshintsha. Banobuhlungu kakhulu kwiimvakalelo zakho (uthando, umsindo). Ngoko ngaphambi kokuba uhlambe isilwanyana sakho, qwalasela into ofuna ukumjezisa ngayo! Kwaye akuyiyo iphoso lakho ukuba isilwanyana sibi? Kwimi, umzekelo, ikati yendlu ayibangeli nayiphi na inkathazo: ungalokothi ukhuphuke itafile ekhitshini (kuyimfuneko ngexesha kwaye uyondla ngokupheleleyo), iya kwindlu yangasese apho kufuneka ukuba (ihlambuluke ngexesha), izipikili zibukhali kwindawo enye (ukubonelela oko kuza kwenza kuyiluncedo kuye, kodwa awunobungozi). Ngako oko, andizange ndibe nesigwebo.
Ukuba uyayithanda isilwanyana sakho, kwaye siyakuthanda, ngoko iyakwazi ukuphilisa lula izifo zakho, kwindawo ethile njengonyango olusisiseko (unyango lwentloko, ukunyuka kwengcinezelo encinci), kwindawo ethile njengongeziweyo.
Xa usebenza, umzekelo, kwikompyutha, ujikeleza ngokuzenzekelayo ngombane, owenza umbane, umbane wenkqubo. Ikati yam isoloko ithatha le mijelo kum. Uvele nje aguqe ngamadolo, agubungele ubuso bam ngobuso kwaye ahlambuluke. Ngexesha elifanayo ndiphazamiseka, ndibetha ikati, ndivale ukukhutshwa, kwaye emva koko kuyasinda kwiredi.
Xa uhlala emsebenzini ixesha elide, ixesha lidlula ngokungaboni, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ulahlekelwa ngumva wokukhathala kwaye ingakumbi intamo. Nanjengoko inja, isilwanyana sam sifunde ukulala entanyeni yam njengekollar, ngoxa wayelele ngokuthula. Ukukhathala kudlula embalwa imizuzu, ngenxa yokuba inqatha ivuselela iinwele zayo kwaye igalelo ekuphumeni kwegazi kwiindawo ezixinyiweyo (ezidiniweyo) zecervico-brachial.
Ukuba unento ephazamisayo, ulala kuyo nayiphi na indawo epholileyo, vumela ukuba ikati ngokwayo ifumane indawo enzima, kwaye xa iqala ukugubha, iyamangalisa! Ngenxa yoko, intlungu iya kuba kabini ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba uthe walala nje, makabe elala phantsi kwexesha elithile, uze uqale ukuxubha, isilwanyana siya kutshaya, ukudala ukuzithemba, kwaye akuyi kubakho intlungu. Ngeli xesha, zama ukucinga malunga nantoni na. Vumela ikati lakho likuphilise! Akunakwenzeka nje kuphela ukuhamba kwintloko okanye ukulungelelanisa ingcinezelo. Ngaloo ndlela, kunokwenzeka ukuphilisa izifo ngokugqithiseleyo (ngokuqinisekileyo, ngokunxulumene nophuhliso oluthile).
Ngamanye amaxesha ikati ingaba nomnqweno wokukhohla iinxalenye ezithile zomzimba (intloko, izandla okanye iinyawo). Makhe akwenze. Izilwanyana zisondelene kakhulu nemvelo kunokuba siyiyo, ngoko ke zixhalabele kwaye zivelele. Ewe, kubalulekile ukukhumbula apha ukuba awudingi ukuvumela isilwanyana siphule amanxeba avulekileyo.
Kwakhona kuncedo ukubeka izilwanyana kunye nomva xa kukho izifo zomgudu, izintso. Isilwanyana ngokwaso siya kufumaneka ngendlela efanelekileyo, ukudala ukufudumala kunye nokuhamba kwegazi. Ikati ngokwayo iyazi ukuba, kuphi na ixesha lokulala.
Isilwanyana sinokukuxwayisa ngesifo esizayo. Ngoko, umzekelo, omnye wabahlobo bam, ikati isoloko ilala kwisisu ngaphantsi kwendoda, kwaye akukho nto yamkhathaza. Ephosiwe le mqondiso, walinda kwada kwafika eso sifo. Kodwa ngeempawu zokuqala wazithoba ezi zimbini kunye kwaye wabuyela kwangoko ugqirha. Wa ye ne cyst. Enyanisweni, kwiimeko apho isifo sinzulu (iintloko, umzekelo, zisesigxina), kufuneka ubone ugqirha! Ukuba kukho isidingo, ugqirha uya kunika unyango, kodwa xa usathabatha amayeza, ungalibali malunga nesilwanyana. Mnike ithuba lokuba abonise uthando lwakhe namandla akhe.
Ngendlela, isilwanyana asiphilisi nje kuphela, kodwa sisodwa, ngokugubungela, ngoko ke sibuyisela ukulinganisela kwamandla alo angaphakathi kwaye ngenxa yoko, impilo yayo.
Ukuthanda izilwanyana zakho, jonga izilwanyana zakho, kwaye uya kuba nempilo!