Indlela yokurhoxisa umfana onomothekayo

Ukuba umfana wakho othandekayo uyamkhathaza ukuze ungabi nifuna ukumjonga-ke kufuneka ufunde le mibuzo emihlanu eyobangela ukuba i-nausea ibe yindoda, kwaye uzame ukuyiphinda nayo yonke ithuba. Isiphumo asiyi kukulinda ixesha elide. Kodwa ukuba isithandwa sakho sisithandwa kakhulu kuwe, kwaye udidekile ngaye - uze ufunde nabo, ukuze ungabaceli!

Uyandithanda?

Ukuba iqabane lakho liyakuthanda, ngoko yena uya kukuvuyela ngoku. Uze undikholelwe, kuya kukhangeleka ngakumbi kunokuba ukhonkxa phantsi kwempumlo "ewe", into eyenziwa ngamadoda kwiimeko ezinjalo azifani ngokungafani "no". Ewe, ukuba emva koko usuqala ukuthululela kuye ngemibuzo enjengale "Uze wathandana nani nam?", "Uthande kangakanani na?", "Uza kumthanda kangakanani na?" Njalo njalo, ubudlelwane buyakwazi ukuguqulwa kwinqanaba elithi "melodrama". Imibuzo enjalo inzima kakhulu kwindoda engama-psyche, eyokuthi ngosuku olunye alukwazi ukumelana nalo, kwaye uya kuba neengcamango zokukukulahla, okanye ubuncinane kwimibandela yakho. Ewe, wonke umfazi uyavuya ukuva ukuvakalisa uthando, kodwa akufanele ubeke uxinzelelo kumntu. Oku kunokumkhathaza ngokukhawuleza. Kungcono ukuba nomonde kwaye ngamaxesha amkele kuye ngothando, kwaye impendulo iya kulandela!

Ucinga ntoni?

Lo mbuzo awunazo nayiphi na intsingiselo, ngoko uyacaphukisa nayiphi na umntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba isini. Xa umntu elala nomntu othandekayo, akafaneki ukuba acinge ngantoni na, okokuqala. Okwesibini, unokufumana iingxaki ezininzi, umzekelo, emsebenzini wakhe, kwaye ngoku unokucinga ngazo, kungekhona ngawe. Kwaye ukuba unyanzelekile ukuba uphendule kulo mbuzo kaninzi, uya kumnxusa umfana ukuba acinge ukuba uyincinci.

Kwaye ungazifuni abaninzi, abantwana abaninzi, bathande?

Ngoku ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukulahla umfana kunye nokubulala yonke into enayo - ke ubuze ukuba bangaphi abantwana abakufuna kusasa. Kwaye kungcono ukuba unengqondo ehlekisayo, ngaphandle koko ukuhlaselwa kwentliziyo kungenzeka okanye yonke imfudumalo ebusweni bakho iya kubonakala. Ukuba loo mntu akazange akwazi ukukukhokelela kwisithsaba - yibale le ngxaki.

Ubusi, ngaba uthanda i-perfume ndiyithenge yona?

Ngamanye amaxesha, mhlawumbi ikhuselekile ukukrazula inkunzi yenkomo ebomvu kunokuba utshele umfana ngezinto ezintsha kwizinto eziqhumayo okanye izimonyo. Olu vavanyo alukho kwindoda yengqondo. Ukuba unqumle ukugqiba umfana onokukrakra, yithetha into yonke imihla malunga nolusu, indlela yokujongana nemibimbi okanye into enjalo. Ukuba ukwenza le nkqubo rhoqo, akunakwenzeka ukuba le nkunzi ye-bullfight iya kuba ngumdlalo wothando.

Ndiyingozi kakhulu, ndatyebile, ndibi?

Umxube wombuzo kunye nokuvunywa.

Ukuba umntu wakho uyaliva ibinzana elinjalo, uyaqonda ukuba kukho into engalunganga ngokuzithemba kwakho. Khumbula: umfazi ongazithandiyo kwaye akazithandi, ulahlekelwa yintlonelo ngaye, uqala ukwenza ngaphandle komcimbi. Amadoda ayengajwayele ukuba angene kwizinto ezisisiseko, ngoko ke xa batyelwa ukuba banobuqabane, abahlakaniphile, njl njl., Bakholelwa ngokukhawuleza. Ngoko bakholelwa kwinto oyithethayo: "Ndiyingozi kakhulu (i-unlucky, i-fat)." Ngoko ukuba awufuni ukumqhelanisa nazo zonke iziphoso zakho - thula. Ngaphezu koko, ngaphezu kwengxenye yabo iqabane lakho aliyi kuqaphela, unokuqiniseka ngalo. Khumbula ukuba imibuzo enjalo imenza ibe ngamanga. Baqala ukuphikisa konke oku kwaye bathetha amancomo amaninzi. Uyakuthanda, kwaye uqala ukuwusebenzisa yonke imihla de ukuba umntu akhathele ngayo kwaye ekugqibeleni uthi, "Ewe, unamahloni kwaye uyothuka!" Emva koko, ndiqinisekile ukuba ubuhlobo buya kuhlala bufana .

Ngoko unokuzibuza ntoni? Buza xa usuphelile kwinto ethile yokuya e-ocean. Okanye nawuphi umbala oya kuba ngumxube we-mink, owenzelwe kubo ngosuku lokuzalwa olulandelayo, okanye ziphi iinqwelo eziza kuba kwidayimani aya kukunika yona. Ewe, emva kwemibuzo enjalo ungayikhupha loo mntu. Kodwa ke akayikho nkalipho xa ebalekela loo mibuzo.