Nantsi indawo yesitalato eqhelekileyo. Ukunyamezela ukuthetha nabazali, kunye nomntwana ohlukileyo kunokwahlukana nayo yonke into eyenzekayo. Bambamba izandla, ukhuselekile, kodwa kungekhona kwintsimi yabo. Kuphela. Kwaye nangona umntwana sele sele ephakathi kweminyaka emibini okanye eneminyaka emithathu ubudala, uyabetha i-ingxube. Ukuthetha kwakhe kukuba, njengommiselo, ukungabikho nto. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, bambalwa abantu baqiqa ukuba isizathu salesi sivikelo sibonakala kuqala kwi-pacifier engenamacala.
Ewe, umntwana unesidingo sokuncela. Kwanelitsho, ngokuqhelekileyo uyaqhubeka ehlaba umlomo wakhe. Ukunyuka okunjalo kuyancipha kwaye kukhulule umntwana, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ulala. Oku kwaqaphela ixesha elide ngabagogokazi bethu. Emva koko, bobabini kwintsimi kunye nemveliso, babedla ukuba bathathe nabantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa. Kwaye umntwana wayefuna ukunakwa, wamemeza, wayekhathazekile, wasusa umama wakhe emsebenzini. Kwaye, ukuze ahlalise umntwana, yena, ekutshekiseleni isonka ngesibhakabhaka, ngokuqinisekileyo wayekhumbuza umlomo wakhe umntwana.
Ngamhla, kunye ne-dowry yintsana, i-pacifier ihlala ithengwa. Ehle, namhlanje, ihlala isele ngeendlela ezininzi ugogo "ugogo". Emva kokubuya kwisibhedlele sokubeletha, ngokungahambi emzimbeni wendlu yakhe, unina kuqala unika umntwana umntwana. Yaye wayengazi ukuba ingaba yintoni.
Okokuqala, kwiintsana, abahlala begcina ingumlomo emlonyeni wabo, i-reflex yokutsala iyancipha - kwaye akunzima ukuqiqa oko kunokukhokelela. Ngethuba lokusondeza okulandelayo, umntwana, ekhulelwe ukunyuka okuqhubekayo kwintlampi, uqala ukungahambi kakuhle, xa umama emnika isifuba - uyalula ixesha elide kwaye adideke, kwaye angakwazi ukuyeka isifuba.
Umama okhuselekileyo, esaba ngokufanelekileyo ukuba umntwana uya kuhlala elambile, ngokukhawuleza wamnika ibhotile kunye ne-pacifier-kwaye inkunzi yenkanuko iqala ukusela kulo. Ewe, kuba kulo mzekelo ubunzima obusondeleyo ngogungxuma buwela emlonyeni wakhe! Kwaye ngeveki okanye ezimbini emva koko, unina ongenamava akanako ukunyanzelisa umntwana ukuba athathe isifuba. "Ndiyishiye!" - Ukhalaza kubahlobo bakhe. Kodwa kungekhona yena - ngephutha lakhe ...
Umphumo ongathandekiyo we-ingono ubonakaliswa kwinto yokuba xa umntwana ecela intlawulelo, uyangena ngokukhawuleza kunye nomoya. Ngako oko, rhoqo "ukungabikho komsebenzi" kungcwina, ukuqhaqhaqhaza, ukukhupha intliziyo. Ukunyuka rhoqo kwe-pacifier kungonakalisa ukulima komntwana.
Ukusuka kwimbono yokucoceka, ingozi yesipu ingaba enkulu. Ngubani phakathi kwethu ongakhange abukele njengoko umama okanye utata ephakamisa i-pacifier esuka phantsi, ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza aze ayibeke emlonyeni womntwana. Yinto engacabangiyo! Amaninzi amancinci ahlala emlonyeni womntu, kaninzi i-streptococci kunye ne-staphylococci. Umzimba womntu omdala awuxhatshali kubo, kwaye kuye akumeli ingozi ethile, kwaye kwintsana ezi zimbilini zingabangela izifo ezinzima. Abantwana abakhulileyo badla ngokudlala kunye neengxowa zabo, bazibeke phantsi, emhlabathini nasemva emlonyeni ... Kwaye abazali bayothuka kukuba kutheni abantwana babo behlala begula.
Nangona kunjalo, ingozi enkulu yeengxowa ikhona ekulibazisekeni kokukhula kwengqondo kwengane. I-reflex yokuncelisa inamandla kwiintsana, kuba isondlo sisona siqinisekiso esiphezulu sokuphila komntwana. Yaye le ngcamango inamandla kangangokuthi inokuthi ikhusele ezinye iintlobo zentshukumo yomntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa, kwaye kwinqanaba elithile lucima umqhubi wemisebenzi.
Ingxube iphazamisa ingqalelo yomntwana kuzo zonke izinto ezibonakalayo kwilizwe langaphandle. Uyakhumbula umcimbi esaqala ngayo incoko yethu? Ngoku, ndicinga ukuba, kwacaca ukuba kutheni umntwana osondayo engenamdla kuyo yonke into ejikelezile. Kodwa ngomntwana onjalo umzuzu ngamnye wobomi ngaphandle kokunyaniseka kukuvula. Ukuphazamisa ingqalelo yakhe kwimbilini, sibonakala sibeka isigqubuthelo esingabonakaliyo phakathi kwakhe kunye nehlabathi langaphandle ...
Wonke umntwana oqhelekileyo unegama elichanekileyo lonyaka, kwaye uqala ukubiza amagama okuqala. Iifana ezifanayo, ezihlala zinevumba emlonyeni wazo, ngokuqhelekileyo azizami ukuthetha. Ukuba ngeli xesha asiyi kululela umntwana kwi-ingono, ngoko siyakwazi ukuxela ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ukuphuhliswa kwentetho kunye nobunzima kuya kulibaziseka.
Kakade, awukwazi ukuyeka iinjunu ezingenamthetho. Ukuba umntwana unentlonelo, ngokukhawuleza, uvumelekile ukuba angenele kwizinto ezahlukeneyo zangaphandle - ukubeka lo mntwana ukulala, kuvunyelwe ukumnika i-pacifier, ngoncedo lwakhe, ngamanye amaxesha ungamqinisekisa umntwana ogulayo. Kodwa akufanele usebenzise kakubi.
Kukholelwa kakhulu ukuba umntwana ufuna i-pacifier, xa amazinyo akhe atyulwa - kodwa kulungile ukusebenzisa amacandeco akhethekileyo kule nto. Banceda ekunciphiseni ukugubungela kwizinsini, kwaye ungabangeli i-reflex yokutsala.
Ngokubanzi, i-pacifier ngamanye amaxesha ivumelekile ukuzola umntwana. Kodwa umntwana akadluli kunonyaka kwaye kuphela ngexesha eliyimfuneko kakhulu. Kwaye emva komnyaka kuyimfuneko ukucoca kancane kancane umntwana kumlenze, ukuphazamisa nokutshintshela ezinye izinto.