Akunjalo ukuba ufanele ugqoke ingqungquthela ebusika, kwaye ngokuwa, ufumane umkhuhlane. Le mithetho jikelele. Impilo yokuzala iyinto ephosakeleyo, inokutshabalaliswa lula, kodwa kunzima ukubuyisela. Kwaye maxa wambi kubiza kakhulu.
Umzekelo, ukukhusela ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo. Ngamanye amagama, ukukhulelwa komzimba. Ngubani ongayazi ukuba nayiphi na indlela yokukhulelwa kungcono kunokukhupha isisu? Wonke umntu uyazi. Kodwa ngaba wonke umntu usebenzisa? Yaye ukuba bayayisebenzisa, bakhetha iindlela ezithembekileyo? Ngaphandle. I-contraception ethandwa kakhulu kwilizwe lethu ikhondom. Ixabiso eliphantsi, elithengekayo, liqondakala indlela yokusebenzisa. Kodwa ikhondom iyakrazula okanye ifake. Nantoni na ebomini, akukho mntu ukhuselweyo. Kodwa ngaba kukucinga ukuba kungcono ukucinga kwakhona ngeembono zakho uze ukhethe indlela eyahlukileyo? Okwamanje akukho msebenzi omningi.
Ukukhulelwa kwe-hormone kuthathwa njengokwethembekileyo kwihlabathi. Kodwa thina ngokwelizwe ngandlela-thile sakhulile, ukuba ama-hormone isimo sengqondo okanye ulwalamano olulondoloziweyo. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, kulungile ukuba ungayisebenzisi. Nangona, ukuba ikhondom ihlulekile, kwakhona sibuyela kuma-hormone - iindlela zokuqala zokukhulelwa ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa okwangoku, ziqukethe ama-hormone angaphezu kwama-150 ngaphezu kwepilisi enye yokukhulelwa, okufuneka ithathwe rhoqo imihla.
Akunzima ukuqagela ukuba i-hormone eninzi ye-hormone iyatshitshisa umzimba wethu. Ukukhulelwa kwesi sixhobo, ngokuqinisekileyo, siya ku lumkisa, kodwa oku kuchaphazela njani umzimba? Nangona kunjalo kukho iindlela ezingekho nge-hormonal zanamhlanje.
Kodwa siyazi ntoni ngabo? Akukho nto. Ngaphezu koko, ngokuqhelekileyo kunokwenzeka ukufumana uluvo lokuba zonke iindlela zokuphucula ukuphuculwa kwexesha eliphuculweyo zilinganayo kwaye zilimaza umzimba wethu. Kwaye, okwangoku, oku kuphosakeleyo. Ukwazi umahluko phakathi kwe-hormonal non-hormonal iindlela zokukhulelwa ngokukhawuleza kungasindisa kuphela impilo, kodwa neentliziyo. Funda kabanzi malunga nokukhusela ngokukhawuleza kwindlela ngoku, ukuba uqiniseke ngokukhetha kwakho rhoqo.