Ibali le Sandada
Ukunyangwa kwe-Sand kunceda abantwana abancinci kuphela ukuba bahlangabezane neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zeengxaki zengqondo, kodwa nakwabayeni abadala nakakhulukazi. Ingundoqo yesicatshulwa ilula: ngaphambi kokuba ube yintsholongwane yebhola yebhokisi enesihlabathi esicocekileyo, amanzi amancinci ukuba anqande isanti, kunye namathoyizi amaninzi amancinane (amanani abantu, izilwanyana, imithi kunye nezindlu ezincinci). Qaphela! Ngaba ucinga ukuba oku kuchitha ixesha? Kwaye uzama ukuhamba ngeeseshoni "ezincinane" kunye neengqondo zengqondo, kwaye uya kufunda ezininzi malunga nawe.Isazi sezengqondo siya kukunika "ukudlala," ukuphazamisa into oyifunayo, ukulungelelanisa abalinganiswa beethayi ngokulandelelana, uze ubuze imibuzo emininzi. Ngoko, ngenxa yonyango lonyango, umfazi unokujamelana nobuso bakhe kunye neengxabano zakhe zangaphakathi. Buza ukuba benzani nabo ngoko? Musa ukukhathazeka, isazi senzululwazi siyakunceda ukuba ungaboni nje kuphela, kodwa ukuhlangabezana nazo. Emva kwakho konke, nangona ukwesaba kuhleli ngaphakathi kwethu, banako ukukhula njengemilenze kunye nemida, baqondise izenzo zethu, banokuchaphazela into esicinga ngayo ngathi kunye nehlabathi elisijikelezayo. Kubonakala ngathi le nto inenjongo, kodwa eqinisweni-siyabona yonke into ngokusebenzisa i-prism yokwesaba, intukuthelo kunye neengxaki. Kufanelekile ukuyikhupha, ukuqonda nokubona indlela ekhohlakeleyo kwaye ingabalulekanga ngayo, kwaye amandla abo phezu kwethu iphelile. Ukongezelela, iiklasi kunye nesihlabathi - ukuzolisa nokuphumula, kunceda ukulahla amandla angenamandla. Kwaye, ngokugqithiseleyo kwexesha, ukuba usebenzise kakuhle esi sixhobo, awukwazi nje ukukunceda, kodwa uhlalutye imeko yomntwana wakho xa ekhula.
Ndiza kukudweba!
Khumbula ukuba abantwana bathi: "Yintoni esiyidingayo ukwakha indlu, sondela - siya kuphila!" Yaye ke, siya kukwenza. Kwaye indlu, nabantu abakhona, kunye nemizwa yenu, kunye novuyo lwenu nosizi. Ulwaphulo lobugcisa lenye indlela efanelekileyo yokujongana nomntu ongaphakathi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba unako ukudweba okanye awukho, uya kuqhubeka ujamelana nomsebenzi, kuba akukho mntu uya kuhlola indlela yakho yokudweba, into ebalulekileyo imibala usebenzisa iimpawu kunye nemifanekiso emela indawo yeenkcukacha zesithombe kwiphepha. Isazi sezengqondo sicele imibuzo ephakamisayo ("Yintoni esesithombeni?", "Ngubani okhangekileyo?", "Yiyiphi imvakalelo onayo?"), kwaye oku kuya kunceda uvule . Ulwaphulo lwezobugcisa luya kuhlangula kwaye xa unqatshiswe yimvakalelo emibi - uyaphukisa, ukhubekile, uyothuswa ... Dweba oko uvakalelwa. Makube mnyama "kaljaki-malyaki", akufuneki ukuba ukwesabisa. Emva kokuba "byaka" iya kulala phantsi kwiphepha, unjengokungathi ukhulula into engeyiyo. Kwaye ngoko ngomzobo unokukwenza ngokwengqiqo yakho. Ngokomzekelo, i-dorisovat amehlo kunye nokumomotheka, kwaye umfanekiso uya kuphelisa. Okanye, ukuba unganakulungeleli ukukhangela, unokukrazula umfanekiso: qabhuka, utshise, uphonsa ngaphandle. Yonke into, akukho nto! Uya kuziva uncedo ngokukhawuleza. Sekunjalo, i "Byaka" ayisekho ngaphakathi kwakho, uyilahlile.
Ngaba siya kuxoxisana?
Yintoni ukucamngca, wazi, mhlawumbi, yonke into. Kodwa ungayisebenzisa njani ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunye nenzuzo wena kunye nosana lwakho? Ewe, konke okufanayo. Ukucamngca kukhuthaza ukuphumla nokuzicoca, kunika umama ozayo ithuba lokuzimela emzimbeni wakhe, ukuziva. Le ndlela yindlela yokulungisa, kodwa ... indlela yokulungiselela ukuzala. Usebenza njani? Thatha icwecwe lephepha, uchaze indlela othanda ngayo umntwana wakho, indlela enhle kwaye enempilo, indlela elula kwaye ngokwemvelo uza kuzalelwa. Incoko yodwa ingabhalwa kwirekhodi, kwaye ucamngce phantsi kokurekhoda. Ukungaqiniseki ukuba unokukhetha ngokuchanekileyo amagama? Xhumana nomqeqeshi wakho wokubeletha. Akayikukuxelela kuphela indlela yokubhala ngokubhaliweyo itekisi (umzekelo, ukuba ungayisebenzisi i-particle "hhayi", ukubhala kuphela izitatimende ezintle), kodwa unokukunika amava alungeleyo.Izinyathelo ziyakwazi ukulungisa (ukulungisa amava, ukuseka uqhagamshelwano nosana lwakho, ukudala umfanekiso wokuzalwa okulula), kwaye uhlala ukhululekile.Uya kuquka umculo omnandi okanye idiski ngezandi zendalo, intliziyo yengane, uhlale ukhululekile okanye ulale kwaye uphumule umzimba wakho ngokukhawuleza.Qala imilenze nezandla, kwaye i-trunk nentloko. Awuthabathi kule mzuzwana kwingqondo yakho, uhlala uxolo kwaye uxolo, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - uvuyiswa kakhulu .Uziva unomntwana wakho, kwaye kulungele yena kulo mzuzwana njengaloo. Kulo mzekelo kuya kuba mnandi ukuthetha nomntwana wakho, ucinge indlela ejonga ngayo kwaye ... nokuba yiliphi igama angathanda ukugqoka emva kokuzalwa.
Ndigcine, umsizi
Ubugcisa bokuthintela umntu ngoncedo lwamatye anqabileyo nolunqabileyo lubizwa ngokuba yi-lithotherapy. Akukho mfihlo yokuba ngamaxesha onke abantu baye basebenzisa iipropati zamatye ukuze banelise iimfuno zabo. Usebenza njani? Ilitye ngalinye okanye i-crystal inezibilini, ezixhaswa ngabantu, zivuselela amandla athile kuwo. Ngoko ke, kuyaziwa ukuba, umzekelo, i-malachite inceda ngokubanda nokukhupha, i-quartz ebomvu iyakususa intloko, kunye ne-topaz-iqinisa imizwa. UJasper uthathwa njengelitye elinceda ukukhulelwa, i-lazurite kunye ne-amber kunceda ukuhlala ukhulelwe, kwaye i-garnet inika amandla emva, ibenza ibe namandla, kwaye iyakhathalela ngokubeletha kuba lula. Ukukhuthaza uxolo lwengqondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunye nokuzalwa okulula kunye nedayimane. Oomama bokamva abaneempawu kufuneka baqaphele ngakumbi, musa ukukhawuleza ukusebenzisa imithetho ye-thtatherapy ngokwabo, kuyinqweneleka ukuba kusetyenziswe iingcebiso zabaqeqeshi. Inyaniso kukuba yonke ilitye, ngaphezu kweempawu ezintle, inokuchasene, imithetho yokugqoka nokunyamekela. Kwaye ukusebenza kombambiso akuyona indlela engcono yokufezekisa into oyifunayo. Ngokungahambi kakuhle, unokufumana umphumo ochaseneyo, kwaye ngoku awunalo urhulumente ukuba uzame. Ingcali iya kukuxelela ukuba yeyiphi iitye eziza kukufanisa wena kwaye ziziphi iimeko ekufuneka zigugile. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba ukugqoka rhoqo kwelitye elifanayo kunika amandla. Kwaye ingcali iya kukwazisa malunga nayo ngokubanzi.
Xoxa nomntwana wakho
Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokunxibelelana nomntwana wakho ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe. Okokuqala, le ngxoxo. Ukuthetha rhoqo rhoqo nomntwana wakho. Mxelele ngezinto ozibonayo kwaye uzive, iimvakalelo zakho namava. Ngaba ucinga ukuba awuyi kuliva impendulo? Ukuba omncinci uyayithanda intetho, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kumphendula ngokuphazamiseka. Kodwa amava angamnandi, amava kunye neengcamango zikhokelela ekubeni umntwana uyakuncipha kwisisu, elinde "isiphepho ukuba siphume." Ukunxibelelana nosana kunokukunceda nangomcimbi onjenge-toxicosis. Ngaphambi kokuba uhlale phantsi ukuze udle, cela umntwana Khawucinge ngento oya kuyidla (isepha, isetisi, i-cutlet, i-apple) kwaye uphulaphule impendulo yomntwana.Bheka ukuphendulwa komfanekiso we-cutlet namazambane ezidibeneyo. Lahla isidlo, inzuzo yalo Wethula isobho semifuno waza waziva Hlalani niphumelele imvumba? Zivalele ukuqala ukutya, niphumelele umntwana wakho, ulalele umculo, umdaniso! Umculo-ripia yenye yeendlela onokuzifaka ngayo kwintliziyo yakho. , engavumelani neyakho, uluvo malunga nomculo ozithandayo. Ngoko, uBach, ebangela ukuba uyamhlonela, inokungabonakali kakubi ngumntwana (akayi kuhamba kuphela, kodwa aphinde aphule umlenze wakhe esiswini, efuna ukutshintsha kumculo wangemuva). Ewe, kufuneka uthobele. Zama kwaye ukhulise uvuyo kuwe nakumntwana wakho. Indlela efanelekileyo yokuthetha nomntwana ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe ukubhala incwadi. Thumela, yebo, ayiyi kuphumelela, kodwa uqiniseke, umntwana uya kuliva onke amagama! Kwileta, unokuzichaza iimvakalelo zakho, xelela ukuba ungayilindela njani kwaye uyayithanda, njengoko unokucinga, yintoni amehlo akhe nebunzi, izandla kunye neenyawo. Yaye ugcine ezi ncwadi kwi-archive yeentsapho!
Uyandithemba?
Iinyanga ezili-9 zokulinda umntwana luhlobo lovavanyo lobudlelwane phakathi kwabazali bexesha elizayo. Indoda nomfazi, ngokungathi bafunda kwakhona kwaye bazama ukuqonda kwakhona, kodwa indlela enye isiqingatha sam indiphatha ngayo. Kwaye, ekuqwalaseleni ukuba kungekudala umama osemncinini uya kufuneka athembele ngokupheleleyo kumyeni wakhe kwimicimbi yokubonelela yonke intsapho, ngoko uthembela omnye komnye kufuneka kukhuliswe. Ngaphandle koko, ngaphandle kwamabango athile awakwazi ukwenza. Unokuqinisekisa njani ukuba uyathembana? Ngoxa uncedo lokuzilolonga. Umzekelo, "Umtya". Le ndoda ihleli phantsi, ibhinqa layo libuyele kuye, phakathi kwemilenze yakhe. Kufuneka uvale amehlo akho, uphumule kwaye uthembele ngokupheleleyo lakho iqabane, oya kukuvuma kwaye agxumeke ukusuka kwicala ukuya kwelinye icala. Ukuba umama ozayo akasamthembi umlingane wakhe, ngoko akakwazi ukuphumla kwizandla zakhe. Ngendlela, oku akuyona nje into yokuthembela. Ngamanye amaxesha ukungakwazi ukuphumla kunye nokwethemba umlingani ngumlingani osebenzayo, ofuna ukulawula abafazi ngokwabo. Emva kokuba sele esetyenziswe ukucinga ukuba "akakwazi ukwenza nantoni na ngokufanelekileyo", umama ozayo uya kucaphukisa aze abe nexesha lokumkela umlingane. Enye indlela efanelekileyo yokuphucula i-microclimate yentsapho kukuba uhlale emelene nomnye kwaye uzame ukubheka umlingane "namanye." Cinga nje ukudibana, zama ngokuzenzekelayo ukujonga omnye ngomzuzu uze uchaze into entsha oyibonayo kumntu wakho othandekayo.Nokuba mhlawumbi unemibhikano emitsha.Ucinga ukuba umbala wamehlo wesibini sakho unobundu, kodwa ngokukhawuleza ufumanisa ezo zinto ziyimfuneko ebalulekileyo ebomvu.Kubaluleke kangakanani na? Ngokuhamba kwexesha, ubukhali bokujonga omnye komnye buyacinywa, kubonakala kuwe ukuba sele uyayazi yonke into ngomnye kwaye awuyi kumangaliswa nantoni na, kodwa akunjalo.Ixesha lokujonga iqabane elitsha ngamehlo amatsha , kunceda ukuvuselela ubudlelwane, kubangele ngakumbi, siza kufumana impembelelo efanayo kunye noncedo lomsebenzi "Uqagele oko ndiyifunayo." Uhlala phantsi kwakhona, ubhekane, uvale amehlo uze uzame ukucinga ukuba uthintela ntoni umlingane wakho okwangoku. Ndiyabulela kulo msebenzi, abafazi baxhomekeke kwimbono yabo ngaphandle kwamagama. Iphucula ubudlelwane, iyavumelana. Ukuba uya kuzala nomyeni wakho, ngoko imisebenzi enjalo iya kunceda kule nto. Emva kokuba ufunde ukuziva umfazi wakho, iqabane lakho aliyi kuziphatha ngokungafanelekanga kulokho okulindeleyo, kwiwadi yesibhedlele. Uncedo lwakhe nenkxaso, ukuchukumisa ukusilalisa ukuphumla kunye ne-anesthesia kuya kufike ngexesha kwaye kuyimfuneko.
Zincede
Kakade, iingcali ziya kuhlala zidibana nabazali bazo. Iingcali zamatyala abadibaniswanayo ziya kuqhuba iimviwo eziyimfuneko zowesifazane okhulelweyo, izazi zengqondo ziyakunceda ukujamelana neemeko ezixhalabileyo, abaqeqeshi bokulungiselela ukubeletha baya kufundisa iindlela zokuphefumula kunye neendlela ze-anesthesia zendalo. Kodwa khumbula ukuba "umsebenzi" oyintloko uwela kuwe. Kuxhomekeke kuwe, nokuba uncumo lwakho ngeso sibuko kusasa, lungiselela isidlo sothando kumyeni wakho endaweni ye .. iitatata ezilungileyo kunye ne-cutlets, udle i-apple esikhundleni se-candy, uthathe ukuhamba epakini .Ungacinga ukuba ezi zizo zonke iindwendwe, kodwa kwizinto ezinjalo ngamanye amaxesha uvakalelo kunye nemigangatho yobomi bukhula kwaye kuphela uphendula ngako. Akukho mntu unokukuphazamisa ukucinga kwimihla ukuba awufuni nto. Funda ukutshintsha kwiingcamango ezingathandekiyo kwizinto ezintle, kwaye ... konke okufanayo entle, cinga ngento enhle. Thatha amanyathelo okufuneka ulungiselele ukuzala, ubhalise kwisikolo somzali oqaphelayo, ujonge iindlela ze-anesthesia kunye nokuzinceda ekuzaleni, ngoko awuyi kuba nomvakalelo yokuba awuqondi into eyenzekayo emzimbeni wakho zonke iinyanga ezili-9 nangethuba lokubeletha. Kwaye ukuba kukho ulwazi kunye nezakhono, akukho ndawo yokwesaba kokungaqiniseki, kwaye nokuba umzimba olungiselelwe uza kudlula ngokubeleka ngokulula.