Ukuqala nini?
Bonke abantwana bahlukileyo, kwaye ngoko akufanelekanga, baxine izinto. Fundisa umntwana ukuba ahlambe ngexesha lakhe xa yena ngokwakhe avuthisa oku, kwaye kuphela kwisicelo sakhe. Ngokuqhelekileyo loo "minyaka yokubhukuda" ngokwemvelo ivela kubantwana ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu. Ukuba umntwana usempilweni kwaye akayikwesabisi ngabazali ("musa ukuya emlanjeni okanye uya kuguqula"), ngoko, njengomthetho, ubonisa umdla omkhulu kumanzi uthanda ukutshiza kwindawo yokuhlambela, kwindawo elunxwemeni ugijimela ukugibela nabantu abadala, uthanda ukudlala ngamanzi kunye njl. kunjalo, kufuneka sisebenzise umdla wakhe, kwaye kule ngqungquthela ukuqala ngokucwangcisa ukulungiselela uqeqesho.
Indlela yokufundisa?
Into ephambili akuyikuba ifundiswe "kwiiklasi". Phumla ngokuzonwabisa kwakho kwaye ngamanye amaxesha udlale nomntwana emanzini. Zama kunye naye emanzini angatyi ukuvula izinto ezahlukahlukeneyo kwindlela oya kuhamba kwaye uchaze kwindlela yokuthatha izinto ezilula phezu kwamanzi zigcinwa emanzini. Kukho izinto zokukhanya - ukhuni, isikhala, i-polystyrene ... Awuyi kucima. Kwaye kukho insimbi enzima, ilitye, njl. Kodwa kutheni le nqanawa ingadi, kuba inzima kwaye yenziwe ngentsimbi? Kwaye kuba umoya wenza kube lula. Kwaye ngenxa yesizathu esifanayo, ubawo akayi kungena emanzini, khangela indlela ende kwaye inzima ngayo.
Imidlalo engabonakali yamanzi
Enyanisweni, umntwana angadlala ngamanzi eyedwa: ukukhanda i-irichiki, ukwakha inqaba yentlabathi, ukubeka iislayidi ezivela kwintlanzi, njl. Umsebenzi wakho kukugcina amehlo akho kuyo. Kodwa uhlala khona ixesha elide? Thatha ukudlala emanzini angatye kunye naye. Unakho:
• ukudlala iinqwenya, ukuhamba entlabathi kuphela ngezandla zabo;
• ukudlala "kwibharari"; Umntwana uvuka kuzo zonke ezine, uyamthatha ngeenyawo; Emva koko uhamba emanzini kwaye uzama ukujula;
• fumana "iiparele": uphonsa amathoyizi ezantsi, uze uwathabathe.
Siya ngaphantsi kwamanzi
Thatha ithoyilo elincinci kwaye uyiqhubelele ukuthambisa phezu kwamanzi. Mema umntwana ukuba ayicwine - makubone ukuba ihamba ifana ne-float. Emva koko thabatha umdlalo odlala umgca, uze uwutye. Buza umntwana ukuba kutheni i-tiger yakhe engasisigxina. "Kungenxa yokuba kukho umoya kuwo!" - umntwana osele wayesekhanyisiwe uya kuphendula. Ngoko ke, ukuba uthatha umoya ophezulu, unako nje ukubhukuda kwaye ungagcini! Leli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokubonisa umntwana ukuba wenze njani "ukuthambisa": uhlala emanzini kwizithende zakho, gquba izandla zakho emadolweni uze udibanise intloko kuqala, ukuze uhlawule umva wakho phezulu.
Ukubukela abanye
Xa umntwana sele esenza ngokuqinisekileyo ukwenza "i-float" kwaye waqonda ukuba amanzi ayenayo, unokuqhubeka nokuqonda inkqubo yokuhamba emanzini, oko kukuthi, ukubhukuda. Chaza kwintsana ukuba nge-float akayi kushukuma kude: akunakwenzeka ukuphefumula kwaye akukho nto ihamba nayo. Jonga nomntwana wakho indlela abanye abantu abadada ngayo.
Senza uhambo olufutshane
Bonisa umntwana ukunyakaza kwezandla kunye ne-yogi xa ubhukuda nge-crochet kunye nesifuba, okokuqala kufuneka uyenze kumhlaba. Emva koko usebenzise ezi ntshukumo ezifanayo emanzini. Musa ukulibala ngokuphefumla. Abantu abanolwazi bayakucebisa ukuba ufunde ukubhukuda okokuqala "ngaphantsi kwamanzi", ngoko umntwana akayi kuhendwa ukuba atyunde. Ngoko, umntwana wakho kufuneka enze ntoni? Ukuma ejulile esifubeni, uthathe umoya, ukhabe uze useke uze uzame ukubhukuda umgama othile phezu komhlaba, ubeke ubuso bakho emanzini. Kule meko, imilenze ifanele ishukumise "kwisigodlo". Izandla zingaphakamisa amanzi.
Ukufunda ukuphumla kumqolo wakho
Ukuze uqhubeke uziva uzinzileyo emanzini kwaye ungesabi ukuhamba ukusuka elunxwemeni, kufuneka ufunde ukuphumla xa ulele emanzini. Ukwenza oku ngokulula: kufuneka uxhomekeke kwaye ulale emanzini, njengokuba ulala embhedeni, ngqo emva kwentloko. Izandla kufuneka zisasaze kumacala, kwaye imilenze ihlukaniswe ngokukhawuleza.
Bhukuda ndawonye
Ngexesha elithile umntwana kufuneka abe nokuphucula umgangatho: kufuneka aqonde ukuba, ngokusemthethweni; ukucwina, kungekhona lula - kufuna izizathu ezintle (isiphepho, isisiphithiphithi, amanzi amaninzi abandayo kunye nezinye iimeko zamandla amakhulu). Thatha umntwana ukuba ahlambe kwinkampani enkulu - kuya kuba lula kuye, kwaye uhlalise.
- Njalo khangela isezantsi ukuze umntwana angenzi buhlungu.
- Musa ukudilika okanye udibe emanzini anelisayo.
- Musa ukuhlamba ebusweni obukhulu.
- Ukuba ugebha nomntwana ekuhlaleni, soloko usenokuba usindisa (isandla, ibhola, ibhodi, njl njl) njll.
- Wena ngokwakho akufanele nje udide kakuhle, kodwa uqaphele nangeendlela zokugcina abantu abagxininisayo.
- Tshela umntwana malunga nemithetho yokhuseleko emanzini (umzekelo, ukuba awukwazi ukungena emanzini kwiindawo ezingaqhelekanga, yintoni enokuba yinkangala kunxweme, njl.).
- Thetha nomntwana emanzini rhoqo ngelizwi elincomekayo.
- Ungalokwesaba umntwana: iingqondo zengqondo zincoma ukuba ziphephe ngisho nabangenacala, ezinjengamagama athi "ukugwina," "ngaphantsi koko," "ugxobhoze amanzi," "ukucwina," njalo njalo.