Amaholide kunye nomntwana: iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo

Ukuhamba endleleni kunye nomntwana, sinethemba lokuba ngelixesha leholide umntwana uya kuqinisa impilo yakhe, athole amandla, athole imbonakalo emitsha ... Ukuphumla akuyi kuhla, kuyimfuneko ukubonelela kwangaphambili.


Acclimatization

Njalo khumbula ukuba utshintsho lwehlabathi kunye nolunqununu lweendawo zokuhlala (ukuphakama, uxinzelelo lwemoya, umswakama kunye nobushushu bomoya) ngokuqhelekileyo kukhokelela ekuveleni kwezinto ezibizwa ngokuba yi-acclimatization syndrome-i-malaise jikelele kunye nokwanda kwangaphambili kwezifo ngenxa yokulungelelaniswa kwendalo kunye nokutsha imeko zo kubakho.

Ukungqinelana kunye neengxaki ezinxulumene nazo zonke izinto eziphuthumayo, ezikude ukusuka ekhaya, omncinci umntwana, ngokuqhelekileyo ahlupheke, izinto ezinobungozi ezingaphezulu kweempucuko ezizungezile. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana wakho wayegula iminyaka yonke, akazange ahambe kwaye ahlupheke, uhambo oluya kwindlu yelizwe (idolophini elingama-30 km ukusuka kwisixeko, ihlathi, umlambo) lunokuba luncedo ngakumbi kuneholide kwi-Mediterane yonxweme, kwinqanaba leenkwenkwezi ezintlanu.

Ukuba usenokugqiba ukuphumla kunye nomntwana wakho olwandle, ngoko kuyona ndlela ingcono ukuhamba kwimizuzu ubuncinane. Iintsuku ezilishumi zokuqala ziya kuchitha kwi-acclimatization, kwaye iintsuku ezingamashumi amabini ezisele ziza kuchitheka ekuphumleni.

Ngaphandle kwembi,

Umntwana oneminyaka engaphantsi kwesihlanu akanako kwaye akafanele asebenzise indlu yangasese endleleni kawonkewonke. Kuyinto engathandekiyo, ukungenasimo, kwaye ngaphandle kwexesha elifanelekileyo livumelekile okanye lixakeke. Emva kwe-diaper, ibhokhwe yindlela enye yokuphela kwindlu yangasese. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuhamba, lungiselela umntwana ukuba uya kufuneka asebenzise ibhodlo (umzekelo, ukuba sele sele elahlekelwe ngumkhuba walo). Ibhokhwe kufuneka ibe nesiqhekeza (cingela indlela uza kuzinyamezela ngayo).

Iqhinga elincinci: unokuphepha iingxaki zokuhlamba iifubanzi xa ufaka isikhwama se-cellophane esiswini ngaphakathi (njengenkunkuma). Emva koko kuya kukwanela ukuvalela ibhodlo ngesiqhekeza, ukuyibuyisela kwindlu yangasese kwaye, uthabathe ipakethe, ulawule okuqukethwe.

Siya kulala

Ingane (kunye nabazali bayo) iya kuthatha kalula indlela ukuba ixesha elide lilala. Ngoko ke, ukuba kunokwenzeka, cwangcisa uhambo ikakhulu ebusuku. Ixesha lohambo liya kuphaphaza ngokungakhange libonwe, ngaphandle koko, alishushu kakhulu ebusuku.

Kunokuba uthathe umntwana endleleni

Ukuze unomdla kumntwana, ungene phambi kwendlela entsha yokuzonwabisa ngezinto ezincinane: iincwadi ezincinci zamakhadi, amathoyizi amancinci amancinci, amatshini, ibhodi elincinane yokudweba, iipenki ezinemibala, njl njl. Into ephambili kukuba iityshi azizona ezincinci, musa ukuqhuma, ukukhulula. Ukongeza kwimidlalo yamatsha, enye okanye ezimbini ziyimfuneko, nto leyo umntwana ayaziyo kwaye isetyenziselwa ukuba, ngenxa yokungena kwiimeko ezintsha, engaqhelekanga, kufuneka abe nenxalenye yobomi obuqhelekileyo ecaleni kwakhe.

Icandelo elilandelayo lemithwalo yimizila yabantwana kwaye -yena-ibhotile yamanzi. Njengomthetho, abantwana abancinci bathanda yonke into ekhanyayo kunye nokugqithisa, ngoko akuyimfuneko ukuthatha iipakethi enye kunye neqela lokutya, kungcono kunxamnye - kuninzi i-sachets, kwaye akukho ukutya okwaneleyo. Ukuvula iiphakheji zokuvula imisebenzi ebangel 'umdla, kwaye ixesha liya kudlulela. Into ebalulekileyo kakhulu endleleni yinkwenkwe yamanzi emanzi: ukukrazula kunye nokusula izihlalo kwimoto okanye kwinqwelo enomdla kakhulu.

Esinye isifundo esithakazelisayo kumntwana omncinci unamathela kwiibhloko, iifestile, umama, ngokwam, isihlalo somoto, njl. Akunanto engathandekiyo ke ukugqothula ezi zixhobo kwaye uzame ukuzinamathisela kwakhona. Izikhonkwane zingatshintshwa ngamathoyizi amancinci kwiVelcro.

Amava omzali

Intombi yam inomdla kakhulu ekubukeni iifoto, ebusika ukhumbula ngokuphumla kwehlobo, ikhupha imemori, kwaye ayivumeli ukuba uyibale ukhokho wakho oyintanda. Njengomthetho, sithatha imifanekiso yabanye ngaphambi kokuba sihambe ekhaya size siwaqwalasele endleleni. Kwaye okubonakalayo kuyintsha, kwaye umsebenzi unomdla - ezona zifoto, ixesha elide umntwana exakekile.

Ngesitimela unganika iqanda elibilisiweyo ukucoca - intombi yam iyathanda. Ungathatha itekisi elithambileyo (ibhere, umzekelo), usike isangqa ubukhulu beapulo kwisisu sakho (upapa, naphi na ukufunayo), phonsa i-filler kwaye endaweni yoko unamathele ngeetrabhoni zemibala, kwisakhiwo esahlukileyo). , umngxuma ebhere. Emva koko umntwana 'uvula' ibhere aze aphume, njengomlingo, iingubo aze azihlole.

Intombi yam ineminyaka emi-2 ubudala. Sithatha into yokudlala kunye nathi kwaye siyayinyamekela - Ndifunda iincwadi kumntwana kunye nentonti, inika ukutya, isiselo, ukucula iingoma, bonisa izinto ezingaphandle kwefestile.
Ukuba ufanele uhlale ixesha elide-udlale i-kaljaki (unyana uthabatha i-calico, ndiyidonsa, ngoko ke, ngokuchaseneyo), ulwandle lwentlambo, umthi, iminqamlezo kunye neenzwane. Ukudweba amabali kwimifanekiso: Ndiyacela abalinganiswa, umntwana ucinga ukuba kwenzekani kubo, kwaye ndikhawuleza ukudweba-into enjengomgca womdlalo. Kwimoto, ukuba sihamba kude, sikude-sibheke umntu oza kufumana amagama ahlekisayo, amabhodi okubhaliweyo, iintengiso. Ukuba kukho, apho ufana khona (kwikorori yesitimela, umzekelo) - unokuhamba-njengowesifazane osemdala, njengomzekelo, njenge-raccoon egulayo ...

Sinomdlalo owodwa okunceda kakhulu ukudlula ixesha - yinyani, ngaba abantwana abadala kunye nabantu abadala. Thatha naliphi na isihloko - imibala, amaxesha, iimbali zeentyatyambo, iiholide, izilwanyana, njl njl. Nxaxheba ngamnye kufuneka akhumbule aze ahlabe umgca ukusuka kwingoma, kwimiyalezo apho kukho amagama apha kwesi sihloko. Ophumeleleyo nguye oza kuhlala ixesha elide. Unomlutha kakhulu! Umdlalo wesibini ulula - ufanelekile ukuhamba ngexesha elide ngemoto: ngamnye othatha inxaxheba ubona imoto yombala othile, obala ngaphezulu - uzuze. Kuphela kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba kumdlalo malunga neemoto, uhlale ephumeleleyo nguye obala amhlophe, ngoko ukuba abantwana babonwa ngokukhawuleza ngokulinganayo, kufuneka unike imibala eqhelekileyo ngokulinganayo.

Unyana unamathela kakhulu xa efunda. Ngoko, usindiso lwethu ngumdlali we mp3. Siyalayisha iincwadi zokulalelwayo okanye iifriji kuyo, kwaye umntwana unokuphulaphula ixesha elide. Emva koko sidlala oko wakuva - senze iifayile okanye enye ingcezu yale ncwadi.

Amathoyizi ukuba athathe nawe

Apha, ewe, kufuneka uqwalasele iimfuno zentsana yakho. Kodwa, kukho "iifayili" zamathoyizi eziza kubangela uvuyo kuyo nayiphi na inqabileyo encinane. Oku, okokuqala, iibhola. Kungcono ukuthatha iibini: i-rubber encinci kunye ne-inflatable. Kunzima ukufumana into ebalulekileyo kwaye inomdla! Isikhundla sesibini siya kuthathwa ngokufanelekileyo ngamathoyizi amanzi. Kodwa musa ukuyibeka apha. Thatha 2-3. Eminye, ukuba uthanda, ungathenga kwindawo. Kukulungele ukuthatha ukuhlambela kunye nawe. Nangona umntwana omncinci uya kuvuya ukuzisela amanzi kunye nabanye ... Isetyenti seSan kufuneka sithathwe nawe kuphela xa kunxweme lolwandle. Nangona, ukufumana isicelo esifanelekileyo sezinto ezinjalo kunokubakho yonke indawo ... Ungasebenzisa kwakhona isikhwama okanye isikhwama esincinci. Abantwana bathanda ukuthwala nabo.

Into ebonakalayo iluncedo - ichibi elincinci. Ewe, akukho nto iya kuthatha indawo yovuyo lolwandle, kodwa ... Amanzi olwandle ixesha elithile angapholile. Ulwandle lunokuqhaqhazela. Ukongezelela, abazali abanengqiqo kwiintsuku zokuqala abayi kuhlamba umntwana elwandle ixesha elide ... Kule meko, i-pool ayifumanekanga. Amanzi kuwo aya kushushu ngokukhawuleza, kwaye umntwana uya kukwazi ukukhahlela ngokukhawuleza, ukuqhuba amadada kunye nezikebhe, ukuphonsa amatye emanzini ... Ngokubanzi, ukwanelise umdla wakho wophando ngenjongo yokuvuyela umama nobaba abaya kufumana ukuphefumula okwethutyana ... Into kuphela Ndiyacebisa - kukuthenga umntwana oneminyaka elilodwa "ubugcisa bamanzi". Emanzini akukho nto ethembekileyo kunezandla zikayise ezinamandla. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akufanelekanga kule njongo i-inflatable mattresses, izikebhe kunye nezidumba zakudala. Ukuguquka nokungaqiniseki ngunyana wakho. Ungabi naso ixesha lokujonga emva, ukuba ungathini phantsi kwamanzi. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene, thengisa isangqa esikhethekileyo nge "panties". Kuye, umntwana, ubuncinci, akayi kukhwela, nangona, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba loo mijikelezo ijika ngokukhawuleza. Futhi ungakulibali ukuthabatha itekiti yokulungisa kwisitya kunye nesangqa.

Ukuba unomntwana nganoma yiphina indlela, thatha ikhefu ngexesha lakho lokuphumula, ungathwali nawe uncedo lwezophuhliso. Ndikholelwe, utshintsho olubukhali kuloo meko, ininzi enkulu yezinto ezibonakalayo ezintsha kunye nokuvakalelwa kuya kuba yingcinga enkulu ekuphuhliseni. Wena kwaye uza kuba nenento yokwenza. Into efunekayo ekuthathiweyo yincwadi eyintandokazi yeenganekwane okanye iinkondlo. Kwaye, ngokubalulekileyo, musa ukulibala umhlobo wakho othandekayo. Ngokwenene ngamnye umntwana unjalo, uBunny, Mishutka okanye iDolli. Kuye, i-crumb iya kuba yincinci kunye ne-cozier, iya kuba yintsana yendlu.