Umlinganiselo apho umntwana wakho uya kuziva uphumle awuxhomekeke kwinani leeyure ezichithwa emoyeni, "kwisigaba sokulala", kwindawo yokuzivocavoca okanye kumfanekiso womculi omkhulu onomsebenzi "onamahloni okungazi." Enyanisweni, ukuphumla akusiyo isigaba somzimba, kodwa kunoko-kwengqondo. Ayikwazi ukumiselwa, ngaphandle koko kuya kubangela ukukhupha kunye nokucaphuka. Iholide ekhuselekileyo kumntwana omncinci yinkcazelo ebalulekileyo kuyo yonke intsapho.
Inkolelo engalunganga 1
Ukuzilibazisa komntwana kufanele kucetywe ngokucacileyo, kuba ubomi besikolo abaninzi kubantwana babhalwe kwishedyuli eqinile.
Iingcebiso kubazali. Ngexesha leeholide, umntwana ufuna "ukudonsa" encinci ubomi obungasimanga ngaphandle kweshedyuli. Musa ukuhudula umntwana kumyuziyam ocwangcisiweyo ngokuthanda kwakhe, ukuba ngokukhawuleza wanquma ukuya e-ice rink. Ungafungi ukuba ukhathele ukudlala iinqwelo ze-snowball kunye nabanye abantwana, wabuyela ekhaya waza walala phakathi komhla, nangona, ngokwesi sicwangciso sakho, wayenokuphefumula umoya oqhaqhayo ngomnye umzuzu elinesibini.
Inkolelo engafanelekanga 2
Ngexesha leeholide umntwana kufuneka abe neeklasi ezongezelelweyo - ukuze angaphumuli.
Iingcebiso kubazali. Yonke into incike kwiinqwenelo zomntwana: umntu uya kufumana ixesha lokuya kwiikhosi zokufunda ngokukhawuleza, ulwimi lwangaphandle, ukuqeqeshwa kwi-skiing skiing kunye ne-snowboarding, kwaye umntu ukhathazekile ngokugubha igama elinye "izifundo". Akuyimfuneko ukubhala umntwana kwiiklasi ngaphandle kwemvume yakhe.
Musa ukudikibala xa umntwana wakho enyanzelekile ukuba achithe iiholide zasebusika kwisixeko, emva kokuba konke kungekhona nje imicimbi yezemidlalo, ukuhamba kunye nokuya kwiiyaterholo. Into ephambili kukuba unokufumana ixesha lokulala. Kwaye akubalulekanga kakhulu, apho kuya kwenzeka khona: kwi-rink yokukhwela, i-ski track, kumyuziyam, mhlawumbi emva komdlalo wekhompyutha odibeneyo. Ukunyamekela novelwano lwabazali ngumhlobo kunye neholide ekhuselekileyo kumntwana omncinci.
Iingcamango # 3
Iholide - ixesha apho unokuphulaphula ngokupheleleyo imo ekhoyo kunye nokunikezelwa kwamandla. Umntwana unelungelo lokuphumla.
Iingcebiso kubazali. Ungakwazi ukuphumla, kodwa ngaphandle kokuguqula ubomi bakho kwi-180C. Ininzi ithetha malunga nokulala nokutya. Ngamanye amaxesha unokwenza umzimba wakho: uye kulala emva kokubukela ibhayisikobho ehambileyo kwaye uvuke malunga nobusuku, uye kwi cafe uze udle ama-cheeseburgers. Kodwa akuyimfuneko yokwenza lo mgaqo kuzo zonke iiholide. Ukuba i-biorhyth eqhelekileyo ilahlekile, esikolweni kuya kufuneka 'azihlanganise kwiindawo'.
Iingcamango # 4
Ngexesha leeholide, izikhulu zedolophu azikwazi "ukufeza" naziphi na iziganeko ezingabonakaliyo zabantwana. Zama ukungavumeli umntwana ukuba aphume esitrato ngaphandle kokunyamekela abadala - iholide ekhuselekileyo kumntwana omncinci - kuqala kokunye.
Iingcebiso kubazali. Kukho nawuphi na urhulumente, kunye nesikolo, kukho imbopheleleko (kwaye iyamangalisa!) Isicwangciso semisebenzi ebanjelwe abantwana besikolo ngexesha lokuphumula. Ukufumana ulwazi, unokuqhagamshelana neSebe loluntu leofisi yakho.
Ukungalungi 5
Ngexesha leeholide, kufuneka uchithe ixesha elininzi ngangokunokwenzeka ngomntwana.
Iingcebiso kubazali. Konke kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka kunye nemvelo yenzalo yakho. Abantwana abangazange bafikelele ebuntwaneni banomdla wokuchitha ixesha labo lokuzonwabisa kunye nabazali babo. Kulula kakhulu ukutsala kwiminqweno yomama nootata kunabantwana abazama ukuhlawulela iziganeko ezidibeneyo. Ukuba oko kwenzeka, ungakhathazeki: umntwana ulungile, nje ngeli xesha kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba athethe noontanga.
Inkolelo engekho 6
Ngeeholide umntwana akakwazi
Iingcebiso kubazali. Umntwana omdala, unqwenela umnqweno wakhe ukuba angabambeleli "ngenxa yomama wakhe". Akukho nto ephosakeleyo ngokuvumela ingxoxo eneminyaka engama-13 ubudala kunye nabahlobo, kuphela ngesimo esibalulekileyo: ukuba wayekuwe "kwinqanaba lokufikelela" okanye ubuncinci baqhagamshelana ngexesha elithile. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukumfundisa imigaqo ethile yokhuseleko kwiindawo zoluntu.
Imigaqo ekhuselekileyo yokukhusela
Ngomntwana mahlale enolwazi ngaye (igama, isondo, ubudala, ukugula kwezilwanyana - ukuguqulwa kwezifo, izifo ezingapheliyo), ifowuni yomntu omdala omsithemayo.
Ukuba umntwana ulahlekile ngexesha lekhefu okanye ubone ingozi kumntu ovela kwiintsapho zakhe okanye abantu abangaziwayo, kufuneka abhekane naye kumntu ofanayo (umkhosi, amapolisa, njl.), Okanye kubasebenzi bemibutho eseduze (isitolo, ibhanki) kwaye ingxelo ingxelo eyenzekayo.
Ukuba abantwana behamba ngekhampani, bakhumbuze ukuba baphinde bahlaziye "ezintloko zabo" rhoqo.