Akunakwenzeka ukuba ungene kwixinzelelo

Ukwanda kobudlelwane kubangela ukuba umntu abe nokuxinezeleka kwimeko. Kodwa indlela yokusinda kwaye kufuneka yenziwe ntoni ukuphepha ukucindezeleka. Kunzima kakhulu ukuhlala kwintlupheko phakathi kobudlelwane phakathi kwabasetyhini. Kukho iindlela ezilandelayo ezinokukunceda umfazi ukuba aphile kulolu dlelwane kunye nokulimala kakhulu kwimpilo yakhe:

- udinga ukulilela iintsuku ezimbini;

- uzixolise wena iintsuku ezimbini;

- Xhafaza iintsuku ezi-3;

- Hlonza iintsuku ezingama-5 zangaphambili;

- Yakha isicwangciso sokubuyisela iintsuku ezintathu;

- ukuqonda ukuba kububuwula ukuphindiselela iintsuku ezimbini;

- Yiba kuhle ukuhleka iintsuku ezimbini;

- uyeke ukucinga ngawo ngeentsuku ezingama-5;

- yenza umhlobo wakho wangaphambili umhlobo wakho iintsuku ezi-3;

- thandana nomnye umntu ngeentsuku ezine;

- uvuke iintsuku ezingama-31 zivuya kwaye zithandwa.

Inani leentsuku liyakwazi ukuhluka, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ixesha lokulibala nokuqalisa ubudlelwane obutsha akufanele lidlule ngaphezu kwenyanga. Zama ukukhusela isimiso sakho senzwa, kuba izisombululo azikwazi ukubuyiswa.

Okokuqala udinga ukulilela iintsuku ezimbalwa. Iinyembezi zinceda umntu akhuphe iimvakalelo eziphazamisayo kunye neemeko ezixinzelelekileyo, kwaye ubuncinci bezinyembezi bukhulula ukuhlupheka. Ngeli xesha, akudingeki ukuba ubizele abahlobo bakho, kuba le nkqubo inomdla, kwaye akufanelekile ukubona abahlobo bakho kunye nezihlobo kwiimeko ezinjalo ezivuvukileyo. Ngenxa yoko, le nkqubo ihlelwe ngcono ngoLwesihlanu kusihlwa, ukwenjenjalo ukuba ngoMsombuluko ekuseni uvuke kwaye uye emsebenzini, ngelixa ungadingi ukuchitha itoni yokubumba ukufihla intlungu yakho ebomini.

Kodwa emva kokukhala, ungaqala ukuziva uxolo kwiqela labangane kunye nezihlobo. Le nkqubo inokuqhutyelwa phantse i-clock, kodwa ungaphazanyiswa emsebenzini. Kungcono ukuziva uxolo ngokumema abahlobo bakho kwiziko apho unokusela khona utywala oluncinane ukuze ukhulule umphefumlo wakho kwaye uzenze uzizisole. Kule ngqungquthela, khetha abahlobo phakathi kwabakwa-Pofigists, abangenayo i-pathos kakhulu, baya kukubheka imeko ngaphandle kwengxaki ekhethekileyo. Kodwa ukuba ukhetha amantombazana aqhelekileyo, le meko ingaba nzima kwaye iintombi zikwazi ukuwela kwiimeko ezixinezelekileyo.

Emva kokuzisola ngokwakho udinga iintsuku ezimbalwa ukucaphuka kwixesha lakho elide, okanye kunokuba uphumelele. Ukuze kuphunyezwe kwesi siganeko, ezinye zezinto zakho zangaphambili ziza kwenza, onokuyinyathela, ugxume, uphule okanye uphule ngokuzonwabisa. Ungaphula zonke iifoto ezikukhumbuza kumntu omdala. Kuba ngokukodwa amantombazana akrakrayo kukho iresiphi: uthathe iipareji zebhokisi, unamathele isithombe sakho sokuqala kwaye unamathele xa ufuna.

Kwinqanaba elilandelayo kufuneka uyithiye. Eli nqanaba phantse alikwazi ukugqithisa, njengoko ilizwi elithandwayo luthando lokuzonda inqanaba elinye lizaliswa apha ngokupheleleyo. Ezi ntsuku unokubeka ityala kuzo zonke izono ezifa zabantu.

Isigaba esona sihlaziyekileyo kukuphuhliswa kwesicwangciso sokubuyisela umntu owangaphambili. Inkqubo ngokwayo ibika ukuba ukudakumba kubambelela kwaye kwikamva konke kuya kulungile nawe. Ukuqwalasela iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziphindezela kwi-ex yakho, uphucula indlela ovakalelwa ngayo. Umzekelo wokuphindisela kwi-ex yakho: uhamba phantsi kwesitalato kwintambo entsha ye-stylish kunye nokwenza, kwi-suit chic ne-chic man, kunye nomntu oqaqambileyo, umyeni ohamba phambili uhamba kuwe, kwaye, ekhangeleka, ukhangele ngqo. Ukugqithisa, awuyi kuhlawula nayiphi na into.

Amaphuzu amahlanu okukrazula imeko yokudandatheka kukuba ibaluleke kakhulu, kuba ngama-80 ekhulwini ancedisa ukuba umntu aphumelele.