Siyaxhatshazwa yi-aura yentlupheko kunye nokungahambi kakuhle. Ngenxa yokuba sinxiba ngaphakathi kwaye kubonisa ukuziphatha kwethu. Ubutyebi kunye nentlupheko: umzabalazo wokubaluleka unobungozi bawo.
Uvela kwihlelo "akakholelwa kwi-cashier yamahhala" kwivenkile, okhankanya into ethile engcolileyo. Kungcono ukufika phambili kumfazi omdala, thumela abantwana ukuba baphenduke kuwo onke ama-tikiti amaofisi, xa kunzima kwamandla. Usebenzisa i-VIP-yokungena kwi-ski lift kwiindawo zokungcebeleka kwe-ski, apho sikwazi ukudala umgca ngaphezu kwexesha eliqhelekileyo, kungekhona i-VIP-ovskoy. Uthatha inxaxheba ekuphuhlisweni kwezicwangciso ezicwangcisiweyo zokubamba iibhedi zelanga elunxwemeni kwihotele yeenkwenkwezi ezintlanu, ngokufakela abathunywa ebusuku, ukunyuka ezintandathu ukuya kusasa - ukwenzela ukuba usasaze i-flip-flops and wetwels.
Ukuba akukho mgca , kufuneka uyilwe, uze ulwele ukhuphiswano. Ewe, asikholelwa ukuba kukho konke okwaneleyo. Yaye ngokwenene, emva kwethu sele siswele. Isityebi sinokulindela ukulinda, kwaye sinengqondo yeentlupheko.
Abaninzi bethu bakhuliswa ngokusweleka kweSoviet. Ubutyebi kunye nentlupheko: umzabalazo wokubaluleka uvumela ngamnye wethu ukuba azive inkxaso yethu yengqondo. Iya kugqitywa, ayiyi kuhanjiswa, ivinjelwe, ingabelwe, iyancitshiswa okanye ikhanseliwe. Akuyi kuba neebhotile, ilinen, abalimi kunye neentshizi zeKrismesi. Siqhubeka sihlala nale ngqondo, nangona yonke into ibonakala iyanele, kodwa asikholelwa kuyo. Yingakho kungekho okwaneleyo ukuba wonke umntu ucinge ukuba akwanele. Isangqa esichukumisayo, esiqala ngokufanayo nathi. Ubutyebi abukho ngaphezu komnye, kodwa xa uwanele. Nangona kukho ubutyebi, ubuhlwempu bangaphakathi asivumeli ukuba siphumule.
Abampofu kuphela bayesaba ukuba baya kutshatyalaliswa ngokukhawuleza babo, kwaye bafuna ubungqina bokuba "bangabikho ntlupheko". Umphezulu wokunethezeka kunye nobutyebi ngowokugqibela ukungena kwinqwelo, xa igama lakho laziswe ngezihlandlo ezisixhenxe kwiilwimi ezintlanu, kwaye uyaziqhenya ngokukratshi kwi-saloon yezoshishino, uzisola kuphela ukuba udidi loqoqosho lusemsila, kwaye akubona bonke abagibeli ababona indlela wangena ngokukhawuleza, wafaka iingxowa ngelogos kwaye kancane kancane wangena esihlalweni. Sifanele siphume kwinqwelo elide ngaphambi kokuba i-ramp ifinyelele kwaye ijikeleze ibhasi ukuze ithathe umgca wesicwangciso esicwangcisiweyo. Kwaye kuvuyisayo-ukukhawuleza kumboniso we-movie okanye ukuthatha indawo yomnye umntu! Ukuba ukhansela i-visa yakho, siyayeka ukuhamba, ngubani ofuna, iYurophu ephazamisayo, ukunikezela ngaphandle kokulwa, xa kukho nawuphi na umhenketho onokuyithatha aze ahambe?
Ubutyebi kunye nentlupheko: umzabalazo wobukhulu buza xa siqala ukucinga: awukwazi ukuba nakho konke okufunayo, kwaye ukuzinzileyo kwimeko ehambelana nokuhlwempuzeka ngokomoya. Ukuzikhethela kunye nokuthanda izinto eziphathekayo kwavela kwinto eqhelekileyo, kodwa asiyisoloko isilungelelanisa isiJamani, xa kungesona isono ukubuyela kwisitorethi esingazithandi izipho zeKhisimesi. Ngobubele obuninzi, nathi asinalo: hayi, hayi, kwaye siya kuqinisa intonga emva kwesidlo esinobugcisa.
Ukuzingca, ukungaboni kakuhle, ukuzingca ngokungafanelekanga kunye neenqweno ezingenangqiqo zonke iimpawu zentlupheko yengqondo. Ngamanye amaxesha uguqulwa njengokomoya, ngoko ke sixhaswa ngezopolitiko, kodwa sixoxisana noogqirha, sakha iicawa, kodwa sisondeza kwimfundo. Mhlawumbi, sicinga ukuba uThixo kunye noorhulumente banomthwalo wokusasazwa, kwaye ngoku ngoku siya kufumana into.
I-psychology yobutyebi kunye nobuhlwempu: umzabalazo wokubaluleka, nokuba phakathi kwezona zicebileyo, ubonakaliswa ukwesaba ikusasa, ukungathembi kwabanye, inzame nayiphi na indleko yokulondoloza nokuqoqa okuthile kwabanye. Uloyiko lokulahlekelwa ngutyebi oluwe ngengozi. Uloyiko lokushiya isitimela sokugqibela, esingenakushiywa ngasemva, akuyi kubakho omnye, kwaye lo akwaziwa ukuba wafika njani kula ma candelo. Ubomi bemboleko mboleko ityala ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba libuyiselwe emuva, njengokungathi yintlalontle yentsapho yabiwe ebomini, kuba ayanele ngokwaneleyo. Abantu abanesifo sengqondo abahluphekileyo abaziqondi ukuba umgaqo "apha nangoku" awuthetha ukuba kufuneka udle yonke into apha nangoko ngoku.
Njalo , njengokuba okokugqibela, oku kungokwengqondo, kwaye akusiyo umgaqo-mzimba. Kufuneka ufumane ukwaneliseka okwanelisayo kwinqanaba lomqondo. Ngaba unomdla ovela kwimoto eninzi, ukuba ufuna ukucinga ngawo onke amaxesha, indlela yokulungisa abanye endleleni? Ukwaneliseka kwinto esiphuza ngaphezu kwamanye, kwaye iingubo zethu zoboya zixutywe kwi-sandable ekhethekileyo, azihlali ixesha elide. Sekunjalo, ukuzivala kobuhlwempuzeko kubangele. Uloyiko lusempofu uluvo lobomi, aluniki ithuba lokuphila okwangoku, ukhumbule elidlulileyo kunye nokwesaba ikamva.
"Ubuthakathaka" ingqondo evela kwinto yokuba siqeqeshwe ukuba siphile ngeenjongo, kungekhona ixabiso. Amaphupha ethu, iinjongo yinto esiyidingayo. Imilinganiselo yinto yonke le nto. Ngokuqhelekileyo sifezekisa iinzame ezinkulu ngokufezekisa iinjongo eziphambili ezingahambisani neemfundiso zethu, kwaye sinomuvo wokuthi asifumananga nantoni na, siye sahlala siswele.
Zininzi izinto esizicingayo eziqhelekileyo. Kuqhelekile ukuba neengxaki, ukhathazeke, ukoyika kwaye ulwe. Kodwa kuyinto evamile - ayinjalo okwangokwemvelo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, sesele sityebile, kuba siphila. Ubomi ngokwabo bunotyebileyo, kwaye konke okunako kunokwaneleyo, kubaluleke kakhulu - ixesha elaneleyo lokuba siyiqonde olu buncwane, sive, sincede, simangaliswe, sithukuthele size sivuyiswe. I-Sunset phezu kolwandle yinto enokuzithengisa kwi-millioneire njengokuba kunjalo kuwe. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uwathabathe idayimani, uthengise imoto uze unike iingubo ezintle. Musa nje ukuyika ukulahlekelwa yiyo yonke into. Musa ukuhlala encinane, kufuneka uhlale nomoya wobuninzi.
Ngaba ungathengisa malini ithuba lokubona, ukuziva, ukuhamba? Kwaye ungakanani ukukwazi ukuthanda? Isigidi sezigidi, iGazprom yonke, isiqingatha seGoogle, iinqanawa ezimbini zokuhamba, iimayini zedayimane, zonke iincwadi zokuqokelela iimpahla kunye nezihlangu kuze kube ngu-2045? Hayi? Ngoko sele usisityebi esikhulu.
Imfihlelo ibulula kakhulu : thina ngokwethu sibeka inqanaba lethu lokuchuma, ubutyebi kunye nentlupheko: umzabalazo wokuphakama awupheli. Xa siyeke ukucacisa le bar ngeemigangatho yomnye umntu, sifumana inqanaba eliyimfuneko yenkululeko yengqondo. Ukuzityebi kuthetha ukuhlala ngokwemigomo yakho ngokuhambelana neemfanelo zomntu, kwaye kungabi khona ngokuhambelana nemida kunye nokulindela kwabanye.
Xa unesityebi ngokwenene, awunayo kuphela izinto eziphathekayo kunye nezixhobo zokomoya - unokuqiniseka ukuba unokudala ngaphezulu. Awunesabi ukuba uya kulahlwa, ukuba kukho ukuthembela ebomini, umva wokubuyiswa, kukho ukukwazi ukwabelana kunye nokunika. Induduzo yengqondo, ukwaneliseka noko unakho, kwaye ungubani, isiqingatha seendlela zokonwaba. Ezinye zinikelwa kuphela ngothando. Ukuze ufumane ulonwabo, kufuneka ubalekele ubuhlwempu, ukuthanda, kufuneka ube nesityebi ngokwenene. Uthando luyakwazi ukunika abanye kwaye lunandipha. Ndicinga ukuba lo wesifazane ogqobileyo wabuya kum. Ndiza kuzama ukuxelela abanye ubutyebi bam.