Ulwalamano phakathi komkhwekazi nomkhwekazi alukwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi lulula ... Kulula - owesifazane owakhulisa unyana (okanye oonyana), njengomgaqo, uqonda ngokude ukuqonda kwengqondo yabasetyhini abaselula. Akukho nto abantu abayithethayo, kwaye izazi zengqondo ziqinisekisa loo mazwi (ngokuchanekileyo) ukuba uhlobo olungcono lomama-mkhwekazi ngumfazi ongakhulelanga nje unyana wakhe kuphela, kodwa nentombi yakhe.
Ngaphambi kokuqala kobomi bentsapho, ubudlelwane phakathi kweentsapho zabantwana zikhula kakuhle. Nangona kunjalo, ngokukhawuleza ukuba usuku lomtshato luphelile, uninazala uqala ukunika iingcebiso, ngokukhawuleza uhamba ngokuziphatha kwangempela. Le meko iyancipha xa umntwana ehlala nabazali bakhe. Akunjalo ukwenza isitya, uhlamba iphosakeleyo, awutshisi iikhati lakho elincinci, kwaye njalo - ngubani ongayazi oku? Ingaba kunjalo lakho? Emva koko lixesha lokuthatha inyathelo ngokukhawuleza.
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Wena ngoku ungumkhwenkwe. Ixesha lokucinga malunga nendlela yokwakha ubudlelwane nentombi yomalokazana. Unomona ngonyana wakho ngomnye umfazi, nangona awuyi kuvuma. Emva komtshato, uqala ukuxhaphaza nje unyana wakho, kodwa kunye nomalokazana. Ukuba oku kungasebenzi, ke iingxabano ziqala ukuqhuma, ukuvutha nokuxabana kuvela. Ucinga malunga nale ndlela: "Ndibe ngumphefumlo wakhe obalulekileyo kuye, unyana wam wayesondele kum, undiphulaphule. Ngoku uyamphulaphula, kodwa ke engasenalwazi! ". Okanye kunjalo: "Unyana wam osweleyo, mhlawumbi udla i-pasta engenanto kunye nenye ikhempi, ngenxa yokuba umfazi omncinci akanakwenzeka ukuba aphephe iisobho zakhe ezondla, endimlungiselele ...".
Awudingi ukukhathazeka. Enyanisweni, imeko ihluke kakhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo umfazi omncinci uya kunyuka ekhumbeni ukuze amkholise indoda yakhe ethandekayo. Kwaye i-pies ifunda ukubhaka, kunye nesobho ekuphekeni njengoko unyana wakho ethanda. Kwaye banempahla eninzi kakhulu, kunye nokutya kukuhle kakhulu kwaye kusandula-konke okusemandleni kumntu othandekayo. Ewe, emva kokuthetha kwakho okubukhali kwintombi kamasipala ngokutya okunetyhefu ngekhemisthi kunye neengubo zentsimbi ezingalunganga, ukutsho ukuba umkhwenyana wakho uya kukhubeka - ayikho into yokuthetha. Kwiintsapho ezincinci ziza kuqalisa ukuba: "Unyoko ondiyithandiyo yonke into," utsho ukuba ndiyindoda engamkeliyo! "Ngenxa yoko, unyana wakho uphakathi kwemililo emibili. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuyamthuka ukuva amazwi anjalo malunga nonina. Ngoko, ngokuphendula, unokuxelela umfazi wakhe othandekayo inkqutyana yezinto aza kuzizisola emva koko. Ngaba uya kukukholisa kuphela? Emva koko awunqweneli unyana wakho uvuyo.
Kubi ukuba unyana wakho uthatha isikhundla - yingxaki yakho. Njengaye, baxabana - kwaye baxolelane. Isikhundla esinjalo sinokuthathwa ukuba ingxaki yayiphakathi kwentombi nomama wakhe (udade, ezinye izalamane). Kwimeko yakho, unyana kufuneka athathe indawo yesilisa. Ngoko, ukuba uthe wakuxelela ngaphandle kokugxeka ukuba awuzange ungene emphefumlweni womfazi wakhe-oku kubonakaliswa ngumlingiswa womntu. Ungesabi ukuba unyana uya kuphelisa ukuba akuthande, aphile nomnye umfazi. Kungekudala uza kubanda kubakho, ukuba uhlala ulwa nomntwana onyanazana. Emva koko, akuyimfuneko ukwenza oku ngoxinzelelo kunye nokusetyenziswa kakubi.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, uninazala unomnqweno kuphela. Yiba nesigulane kunokwenzeka, uvumele abantu abatsha banandipha ukunyamezela kwabo kunye neeposiso. Baya kuba nemibulelo kuwe ngokungangeni kwimpilo yabo. Emva kwakho konke, mhlawumbi uya kuba mnandi xa umntu elawula zonke iinyathelo, ezama ukukufundisa ukuba wenze into eyahlukileyo. Umgaqo obalulekileyo woninazala umele ube ngamazwi: "Iingcebiso zilungile xa zicelwa."