Umntwana ozimeleyo ngumgomo ophezulu wokuba ngumzali owaziyo. Kodwa yintoni na umgca phakathi kokuncedisa uncedo kunye nokunciphisa izilwanyana ezinomsebenzi? Iingcali zeengqondo zengqondo zincoma ukunamathela kwiinkalo ezintathu ezilula ekukhuliseni umntwana.
Isinyathelo esinye sinkululeko yokuzikhethela. Ukuba i-crumb izama ukubopha i-lace okanye i-spoon kwisitya-musa ukukhawuleza ukukhusela. Ingcaciso yesigulane ye-algorithm yezenzo, ukungabikho kokuphazamiseka nokuxhaswa okungaqhelekanga kuya kuzisa inzuzo eninzi.
Inyathelo lesibini kukukhuthaza intliziyo. Ingaba umntwana ubonisa umdla ekuphekeni okanye ekuhlambeni izitya? Kunengqiqo ukudumisa umanyathelo wakhe kwaye unike i-apron "ye-kitchen assistant". Ngoko inkwenkwe iya kuziva ukubaluleka kwezenzo zakhe kwaye iya kuba nokukwazi ukuqonda ixabiso layo.
Isinyathelo sesithathu sinye. Nokuba izibambiso zinokuba luncedo: ukwenqaba kufuneka kube nezizathu eziqondakalayo. Kulungile, ukuba ihamba neendlela ezivunyelweyo zokuthatha isenzo. Ukuba umntwana akafuni ukugqoka izicathulo ekuhambeni, akufanele nje ugxininise ngokwakho, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo umnike iinqununu ezizifunayo. Inkululeko "enjalo" inokuvumela umntwana ukuba acinge ngenyameko aze enze izigqibo ngokuzimela.