Intombi ekhweleyo icinga ngathi: "Ngaba uthenge ikhekhe? Akukufanelanga nonke, kodwa ukuba ndibe nemali enjalo, ndithenga i-purse bhetele. Umona ngokubuyisela ufumana impendulo engafanelekanga, umntu uyaziva ekhululekile, engahlali kakuhle kwaye akaqondi ukuba kutheni amazwi akhe ngokuthenga i-ngxowa, ibangele ukuqhuma kwemvakalelo.
Umona ubumnyama nomhlophe, izazi zeengqondo zichonga ukuba ziphi iirmone ezabiwe ngexesha elifanayo, xa iimvakalelo zivela, kwaye ziphi iimiphumo abazenzayo, ukuba zichaphazela njani isimo sempilo. Kodwa ngoku akukho mntu uyakwazi ukuphendula ngokufanelekileyo kwimeko enje. Siphinde sizithole kwiimeko apho sikhwele khona, okanye sisona, kwaye siyaqonda ukuba konke oku kukhwele.
Umona womhlobo, oku kukuzimela okufihlakeleyo, akakwazi ukuyivakalisa, kufuneka ahlonishwe ngumntu wonke, kuphela kungekho sizathu. Kwaye ngoko, xa unesihawu ngethuba elizayo, thandaza ngokukhuselekileyo: "Ndiyabulela ngokuncoma," kuba ngale ndlela ibonisa ukunyaniseka, nokuba iyimfihlo.
I-psyche ye-female iyalungiswa kangangokuba enye yezinto ezikhuthazayo zikhwele ngamantombazana. Ukuze ndibaphathe kakubi ndiza kulahla i-kilogramgram ezili-10. Ndiya kwindawo yokutyela kunye nomhlobo wam omtsha. Ndizithenga i-bag entsha, ndivumele ukuba ndikhwele ukuba ndinayo 101-I. Senza konke oku qaphela, senza ezi zinto, ukuze sikhwele kwakhona, sifuna ukuba zikhuphe le miva. Kwaye siyazibuza ukuba kutheni sifuna.
Makhe sicinge ngomzuzwana ukuba akukho mona ehlabathini, akukho mntu ufanisa nabani na. Akukho mntu ngoku uya kuphawula ukuba ulahlekelwe iikhilogram ezili-10, akukho mntu uya kujonga isikhwama sakho esitsha, akukho mntu uya kubuza ukuba uchithe njani ngokuhlwa ebusuku kwivenkile yokudlela kunye nolwazi lwakho. Kuvela imeko engaqhelekanga, kunzima ukucinga ukuba ihlabathi liya kuba yintoni ngaphandle komona.
Omnye unokuphetha ngolu hlobo ukuba sifuna umona, ukuba inzondo yamantombazana iyona injini enkulu yenkqubela phambili. Ubomi bethu buya kuba buhlungu kwaye buyimpunga, bekungekho indawo yokumangaliswa kunye nenjabulo, ukuba kwakungabikho umona emhlabeni - lo mnqweno wokuba uhluke kwabanye, kunye nokuphakama kobumfihlo.
Umona ungumqondiso emzimbeni womntu, leyo yimihlaba ekufuneka ayenze ngayo iimpawu ezithile, kuba ukuba uya evenkile yokudlela, wayenokukwazi, athenge into, kwaye ndiyakwenza konke. Ukuba ungumntu kwaye uzama ukuphuhlisa iimpawu ezithile, ngoko umona uyimvakalelo ebalulekileyo kuwe. Ukuba ubangela umona, ke unika isandla ekukhuleni komntu. Kufuneka uphathe yonke into ngokuqonda, kuba ukuze uphilise kuyimfuneko ukugwinya iipilisi ezibuhlungu.
Inzondo yamantombazana iyinjini eyinqobo yenkqubela phambili, inxalenye ebalulekileyo yobuhlobo, ongenakuyenza ngaphandle kwayo. Xa ubona ukuba intombi yakho inomona, kufuneka nje ukukunceda ukuphuhlisa iimpawu ezithile. Ukuba ungumhlobo othandekayo, wabelane kwaye uthethe ngendlela obenayo ngayo ubudlelwane nomona uze ummemezele ukuba akhulume ngale ndlela. Ngaloo ndlela, kuya kubakho ubungqina obongezelelweyo ukuba uphumelele into ebomini kwakhona.