Kwaye konke okufuneka ukwenze kubonakalisa isinyathelo, kodwa, ngokukrakra, amadoda abalekile engakhange abuke emva kwabesetyhini abahamba ngokunyanisekileyo ukuxhamla. Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukuba olo phuhliso lendoda emva koko "buqhetseba" lithetha ukuba inenekazi iyafuna ukuhlala phantsi kunye nomntu onjalo kwaye ixubushe ngasese iya kubiza i-dispensary ye-psychiatric ngomyalezo othi inqanawa ekhunjulwayo ihambahamba malunga nesixeko.
Ngoko ke, kucetyiswa kakhulu ukuba uphulaphule iingqondo zeengqondo kunye nokuhlobisa yonke into ngokungathi uyenzile le nto, kwaye ngokubanzi yena ngokwakhe waqala konke oku. Noko ke, kukho inkcazelo ethile: bonke abantu bahluke kwizinto owaziyo ngokuzimeleyo, abo owaziyo, kodwa kungekho kakhulu, kunye nabo baziwa nje ngokubabade kwaye banomdla kakhulu. Ngoko, kule shishini, kuya kunceda ukulungelelanisa i-adventure kunye nendlela ethile.
Nje ngumhlobo
Ubunzima: umhlobo omnye onokuhlala naye kunye neenyawo zakho embhedeni kunye ne-stale pedicure kwaye uxoxe nakanjani nasiphi na isihloko. Ungamnika iingcebiso kumantombazana ase-ohmureniyu okanye ukhononda ngomfana wakhe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kulula ukuyenza i-lobotomy ukuze ibone ibhinqa kuwe. Njengendlela ehlukileyo, unokuzama ukuyithatha "ubuthathaka" okanye ucele ngokukhawuleza ukuba uncedo, kodwa kwiimeko ezinjalo, izibikezelo aziduduzi: uya kulahlekelwa ngumhlobo onjalo ngale ndlela, kodwa nokuba uya kuba ngumlingane osondeleyo ngumfoloko ekubhaliseni amanzi.
Isigqibo : bonke abantu bathanda ukuba ngamaqhawe, xa nathi, singenakukhuseleka. Ngako oko, umhlobo kufuneka akhohliswe ekunyeleni i-Xebe ekhaya phantsi kwengqiqo yokulungisa icomputer, ukuyiphatha ngewayini, ukubukela ifilimu, ebonisa i-decollete. Unokukufumana kumdaniso: apha kwaye uthinte, kunye namandla. Ukuba akanakunqandwa ngokupheleleyo - cela ukuba ube nobusuku bombbling. Kwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu - zinyamalale emehlweni akhe kwiiveki ezimbalwa, kwakhona ziyavela kwakhona, kodwa emfanekisweni omtsha, okhohlisa kunye nolwasetyhini.
I-Perspective : kwi-series eyaziwayo ye-TV ethi "Sex Igorod" u-Miranda wathi "ngubani omnye onayo oza kubelana ngesondo, njengobutshaba?". Kwimeko yakhe, zonke zaphela ngokuzalwa kwonyana kunye nomtshato ngenxa yothando. Kwimeko yakho akukwazi ukuba ngubani oza kuba ngumhlobo okhohliweyo, kodwa kukho ukuhluka okubini: intombi yangaphambili okanye umntu obaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Yenza isigqibo malunga nale nto kuphela xa umdlalo ufanelekile ikhandlela.
Ubuso obuqhelekileyo ... "
Ubunzima: mhlawumbi umhlobo wakho akayi kukukhangela njengowesifazane, kuba kufuneka uthathe yonke into ezandleni zakho. Siyalela isenzo sokunciphisa umgama kunye nokuthetha ngokusondeleyo, ukuya kutsho ...
Isisombululo : ufunde kakuhle, malunga nempumelelo yayo, iziganeko zobomi, iinjongo, iinjongo. Ufuna nje ukhuthazo olusesikweni ukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo.
Mmema kwi-cafe, i-bowling alley, i-rink yokubhola. Ngomsindo ophazamisayo, ukuvenga esihlathini, unikezele ukuncoma okumbalwa malunga nobukhulu bakhe, ubulumko, amehlo, ukumomotheka, kunye neentloko. Kodwa akukho nangoko kweso sigqibo esithandana naye singacwangciswanga, ngaphandle koko into iya kuwela kwi-stupor, njengoko yonke into ephosakeleyo yenyathelo lendoda liya kuchitha njengothuli.
I-Perspective : Kule meko zonke iziganeko ziyamkeleka kakhulu. Ngenxa yabantu abaqhelekileyo banokuthi bavelise abantu abahlukeneyo-ukusuka kumthandi ukuya kumlingane. Ukuba emva kokutyelela kathathu umntu akayiqondi into abayifunayo kuye, kuya kuba ngcono ukumshiya kwisigaba "sokungaqhelekanga".
Oo, abo baqala ...
Ubunzima : isondo kumntu owayengumntu kufuneka sinikezwe nakwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu. Ngokukodwa xa ukuhlukana kwakho kwaphula intliziyo yakhe kunye nemoto, kwaye zonke iibhuloho zitshisa ngezandla zabo.
Kodwa, njengokuba ukhetha, unokumthuma i-sms-ku ngokuguquka "okukuvumela ukuba ube nobuntu abahlukeneyo nemikhwa, kodwa e-embhedeni kaThixo - kwaye ulungele ukuba yixhoba.
Isigqibo : ukuba ngaba bonke abantu bafa ngokukhawuleza, ngoko ungathumela i-imeyile yangaphambili, umyalezo osikhumbulayo, kodwa qiniseka ukuba yonke le chezi iphela yenyama.
Ngenxa yokhuseleko lwayo, akuvumelekanga ukuba abuyele elidlulileyo. Khumbula ukuba wayebuhlungu kangakanani. Ukuthintela ngokukhawulezileyo kwakhona (ngamanqaku omathathu) ukucela ubuhlobo obusondeleyo nalowo wakugxothayo: awuyi kubuyisela, ujonge kwakhona inkqubo, kwaye ungalindelanga ukuyibuyisela.
I-Perspective : akunakwenzeka ukubuyela kumntu owayengumntu ongeyena ngokobulili kwaye kwenzeka kuphela kwiimpawu. Ngoko ke, kukulungele ukuba uyiphathe njengentlanzi enamathanga, kuze kube yintlanzi efanelekileyo.
Ngesondo ngexesha lokusebenza
Ubunzima : konke-konke-konke ukudibanisa nabo bonke abangcwele - kungcono ukusela ilitha yobisi kunye neekhilogram zamakhukhamba anetyuwa, kwaye ngokubanzi, kungcono kunanoma yintoni na, kunokuqala inveli kumsebenzi. Kodwa awazi nje ukuba yintoni umqeshwa wakho omtsha: ubunwele obumnyama, amehlo aluhlaza, kwaye le nto yincinci kuphela inzuzo yakhe.
Isisombululo : ukhetho oluhle luyintsebenziswano yamacandelo, nangona kunjalo, i-corporation nayo ifanelekile. Uya kufuneka uhambelane nale mithetho emithathu: izihloko zengxoxo akufanele zixhalabele ngomsebenzi, kufuneka kube nokudlala ngothando kunye nokuncoma. Izibhambathisi ezingabonakaliyo kunye neengqungquthela ezivulekileyo ziyamkelekile, ininzi yotywala ayikho, uyamkhohlisa, kodwa ungazami ukwenza iimfihlelo.
I-Perspective : Umntu osebenza naye unokuba ngumlinganiselo wesibini, okanye ufanele uphumelele xa engayithandi. Ngoko ke, ukuba unomfazi, abantwana okanye umlingisi wokumangalela, ungacingi nakuwo.
Ngubani owaziyo?
Ubunzima : isondo nomntu ongowokungaqhelekanga kumnandi, kodwa akukho nto. Ngenxa yokuba loo meko, xa ibhinqa lisusa i jeans lisuka kwindoda, yabona imizuzu emibini edlulileyo, ekude nganye. Ewe, kunye namantombazana afundisiweyo, lo mkhuba awukho kumntu, kodwa ukuba ngokukhawuleza (njengoko uSathana engamhleki), kuya kuthathelwa ingqalelo ukuba kufanelekile ukunikezela ukuxhomekeka kwindawo efihliweyo kuphela apho umlambo utsxile ngotywala, kwaye iindiza zide kakhulu ne-Otpuritan. Kodwa ukuba umnqweno usufihlile ngomhlali onoxolo, ukhetha i-waffles kwisitorethi, uzinqabise iidemon zakhe, nokuba nje ngexeshana.
Isixazululo : sondela ngesibindi into yokuchonga, umomotheka uze uqale intetho enhle. Unokucela enye inkonzo encinci, umzekelo, funda oko kubhaliweyo ngefonti efanelekileyo kwi-pack yeti, kuba ukhohliwe iiglasi ekhaya kwaye ngaphandle kwazo awuboni. Buza indlela yokufikelela kwilayibrari, iLizyukov Street okanye ubuninzi bee-degrees zokuphakama. Ngokuqhelekileyo, jonga amehlo akho uze uthi ufuna ukwazi ngokusondeleyo ...
I-Perspective : ukuba uyakwazi ukunyanzela umntu ukuba unxibelelwano olukhawulezayo, unokuhamba ngokuphepha kwaye wakhe umsebenzi wezopolitiko okanye uthathe inxaxheba ekuthengiseni intengiso. Inokwenzeka ukuba, ummi unquma ukuba wangena kwinkqubo "Ephukile kwaye ehlekisayo," kwaye ekhangelekile ekhangeleleneyo, enethemba lokubona ikhamera kwaye ukukhawuleza ukufihla kwinqanaba elingaziwa.