Imilenze yamakhosikazi - mhlawumbi inxalenye ebalulekileyo kakhulu (ukuba sijonga zonke iindawo ngokwahlukileyo) nabafazi. Imilenze yamabhinqa inhle, igubungele i-pantyhose encane okanye i-golden tan, ngokugqithiseleyo ngokukhawuleza kwintsimi okanye ukuphosa komnye umlingo ithintela ininzi yamadoda, ukuthumela izibonakaliso ezingabonakaliyo, ngaleyo ndlela, iholele abanye abantu. Kutheni imilenze yabasetyhini inomdla abantu?
Impembelelo echaphazelekayo ayifanelekanga ukuba ingabonakali ngokukhululekayo kuluntu lwethu, abaculi be-half-naked on skrini zeTV okanye i-mini skirts. Kungakhathaliseki ukuziphatha ngokwesondo, inkcubeko kunye nefashoni, iinyawo zabasetyhini ziye zahlala zikhokelela kwisiqingatha sabantu, ziphakamisa izinga lama-hormone egazini labo. Kutheni imilenze yabasetyhini kumadoda inomdla kangaka? Impendulo ilula, imilenze yowesifazane iyahluke kakhulu kwimilenze yesilisa. Kula mabhinqa, amadolo anesithsaba, amaqabunga ajikeleze, amaqabunga ayanqabileyo, ulusu luhamba kakuhle njengesilika (imeko epheleleyo). Kodwa ininzi yazo yonke inomdla unxantathu, ekhona phezulu kwimilo. Le nxantathu iyinhloko yokuziphatha ngokwesini, leyo, ngaphezu koko, iyalala kwimiba engaphandle.
UMorris Desmond wabhala ukuba amadoda angenangqiqo kwiingcamango zawo ezi ndawo zifihliweyo (sithetha ngendawo apho izikhwepha zihlanganisene) zomzimba wesifa kunye nomfanekiso abawubonayo unamandla kangangokuba kunzima ukujamelana nemithetho yokuziphatha. Iinyawo ezintle zezilwanyana zibhetele kunanoma yiyiphi i-hypnosis rivet ukukhangelwa kwesini esahlukileyo. Kodwa kungekhona nje imilenze emihle imvuselela ingcamango yomntu, ukunyakaza kwemilenze yakhe kuthonya ingcinga yaloo mntu. Ngokomzekelo, indawo 'yomlenze emlenzeni' ibonisa inxalenye yentambo, kwaye loo mntu ugoqa iinqanda zakhe njengento yokulala ngesondo.
Imilenze isondele kwizitho zangasese, oko kutheni amakhulu eminyaka ubudlelwane babo buyi-taboo. Imilenze yamakhosikazi yayigqoke iingubo ezide kwiingqungquthela, kunye neengubo zangaphantsi zazingenangqungquthela. Ngenkulungwane ye-19, amantombazana ayenqatshelwe ukuba ahlule ngisho neengqumbo zawo, ngoko ke ayenxiba iibhotile eziphezulu.
Ukwesaba impembelelo engafunekiyo yamagundane amabhinqa maxa wambi wazibonakalisa ngendlela ehle kakhulu. Ngokomzekelo, e-Victorian eNgilani, imilenze yepianos enkulu kunye neenfenitshala zahlanganiswa iifumba, ukwenzela ukuba amadoda angabi nantoni. Phakathi kweemeko eziphezulu zoluntu, ukusetyenziswa kweelwimi kwakusetyenziselwa - eNgilani, umzekelo, imilenze yenkukhu yayibizwa ngokuthi "inyama emnyama", e-Kaiser yaseJamani ngaphantsi kweengubo kunye nezitokisi zabizwa ngokuba "izinto ezingabonakaliyo."
Nangona kunjalo, akukho mithintelo ayikwazanga ukuphelisa izifiso zamadoda ukususela, ngokuchaseneyo, i-charm charity will never be hidden. Imihlathi yemilenze abantu abaqagela phantsi kweengqayi ezide okanye iengubo, ezibonakaliswe kwinqanaba elincinci, zitshitshisa ingcamango yabantu abaninzi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni inkcubeko, nangona inkcubeko ihambelana nemithetho yokuziphatha. Wonke umntu uyazi le nto, kuba kungekudala xa kusasa, abantu baqaphela ngokukhawuleza ukuba abafazi bahle kakhulu.
Imilenze emininzi idla ukukhangela iindidi ezininzi, kutheni? Imilenze emide eyongezelelweyo ingabonakaliswa kwiindawo eziphathekayo zendalo, kuba oku akuyona into eqhelekileyo. Iingcali ezivela kumashishini athatywayo zikholelwa ukuba ngowona-1 kwabasetyhini abayi-100 000 bangabonwa ngokuba yi-"barbie". Ingaba ngaba sisizathu sokuba imilenze eyongezelelekileyo ithathwa njengento ekhangayo? Iingcali zenzululwazi zifumene iinkcazo zalo. Abanye bathi imilenze emide ibonisa impilo enhle yomnini, kwaye le ngxabano ebalulekileyo kulwalamano phakathi kwezesondo ezahlukeneyo. Izazi ze-biologists zithi amadoda e-level level afuna ukwabelana ngokwasemzimbeni kunye nomfazi onamandla kwaye onempilo. Abanikazi bemilenze emide, njengomthetho, banesigxina esiphakeme, esibonisa isistim somzimba esinamandla.
EBristol, izazinzulu kwiyunivesithi zafumanisa ukuba abafazi abaneemilenze babede kunama-74 cm babenentliziyo enempilo. Ukongezelela, abafazi abanjalo bancinci ekuhlaselweni kwentliziyo.
Imilenze ende inye enye ingcaciso, umzekelo, imilenze emide ibonisa ukukhula kwentombazana. Imilenze emide kunye nemilenze emide ibonakalisa ubudala bentombazana kunye nokukhula kwakhe ngokwesondo, ngelixa iifutshane zibhekisela ebuntwaneni. Ukongezelela, amantombazana akhula ngokukhawuleza abonisa ubundlobongela obunqabileyo kunye nabasetyhini.