Mhlawumbi, lo mfazi wayesazi imigaqo yokukhohlisa kwanoma yimuphi umntu owake wahlala kudala. Kufuneka ukuba ukhumbule isiqithi saseSirens esivela kwincwadi ethi "Odyssey", abafazi babo baqale bahlabelelwa ngomsindo omhle ka-Odysseus kunye nabahlobo bakhe, emva koko, emva kokukhohlisa, bagcinwa ixesha elide kwisiqithi sabo. Omnye umzekelo kwifilimu ethi "Imemori ye Geisha", apho abalobi babonisa indlela ede kwaye enzima yokufundisa amantombazana amancinci, emva kokukhula, abe yi-geisha eyinyani. Xa ufunde imigaqo yokukhohlisa kwanoma yimuphi umntu, ezi geishas ziyakwazi ukujonga okanye ukuyeka umntu. Andiyathetha ngamakhredtesan, oza kudibanisa ookumkani kwaye abe yizintandokazi. Ngaloo ndlela, ukukhwabanisa komntu ngumxholo ongunaphakade, ngamaxesha onke nakuzo zonke ihlabathi zehlabathi isihloko sisicaciso kunye nesithakazelisayo kubo bonke abafazi. Yonke intokazi inqwenela ukwazi le mithetho ukwenzela ukuba nayiphi na indoda inokumnaka. Ukudukisa umntu akuyi kumkhohlisa. Amadoda ngokweempawu zendalo yindoda, ngoko ke ngokuzithandela baya kwixesha elilodwa, abangaxanduva lokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo. Kodwa ukuba uhlale enkumbulo yakhe, ukumkhumbula, ukuba liphupha lakhe alinikiweyo kumfazi ngamnye.
Uluhlu lwemithetho yokukhohlisa kwanoma yimuphi umntu:
- Funda ukunyamekela umzimba wakho: imihla ngemihla izinwele zakho kufuneka zihlambuluke, ubuso obusanda, obunelisekile, kunye nokwenza ngokukhawuleza ukugxininisa isithunzi sawo, izandla ezenziwe ngeempawu zokugcoba, imilenze enezithende ezithambileyo kunye nokuhamba. Yongeza ukuqhumisa okukhanyayo kwamanqatha okanye amanzi anamnandi, kunye neendoda ezinyaweni zakho.
- Kwiingubo, gcina isitayela. Intombazana ekhatywayo yeklasi (iingubo zokugqoka ngokuphindaphindiweyo, oku kukhangeleka kakhulu kumadoda) kunye nezicathulo zezemidlalo zikhangeleka. Izambatho kufuneka zihlambuluke kwaye zenziwe nge-ironed. Kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, nakweyiphi impahla, jonga ukuhamba kwakho, ungahlali.
- Zama ukuba ngumntu onothando. Oku kuthetha ukungaxeli, kungekhona ukugubungela konke okusemandleni kwaye akunakwenzeka. Indoda ithanda ukufumana imfihlelo kumfazi ukuba ibhinqa limele lihlale liyimfihlelo kuye, kwaye phantsi kweengubo zentsimbi yakhe babecinga nje ukuba baphume ekamelweni lokucinga nokucinga. Kuhlala kunomdla kakhulu ukuphupha kunokuba ulibulale iphupha ngenyaniso. Oku kuthetha ukuhlalisana, ekuhambeni okuhamba kakuhle, uhlala uncumoza kumntu.
- Ibhinqa limele likhumbule ukuba liyindoda ephethe impahla kunye nokuziphatha, kwaye ihluke kumntu. Yiyo le ntlukwano eheha umntu. Izambatho, iingubo, izitotyi, izithende eziphezulu; ukujonga kakuhle, i-eyelashes eyancipha kancane, inkcubeko yokuziphatha nokukhulisana, ukukwazi ukukhokela okanye ukuxhasa incoko-olu luhlu olungaphelelanga abantu abaye bahlala bexabisa ngayo, kwaye siyakongeza kwesi sidima.
- Hlonipha indoda kumntu, soloko umnika ithuba lokufakazela, ungathathi into into enokuyenza ngayo wena nakwawe: ukuhlawula ukuhamba kweendleko, unike isandla xa ushiya uthutho, uncede ukususa kwaye ufake iingubo zangaphandle, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - uthatha izigqibo kwaye uthatha uxanduva kubo.
- Akukho bhinqa elinye elalinyanzelwanga ngokulula. Ukudlala ngothando. Abafana bathanda ukudlala, banike leli thuba: fundani ukuphulaphula umntu onomdla, ncedise ingxoxo, kwaye ngeli xesha likhangele emehlweni akhe kwaye ligxininise ixesha elide, kumncumo kuye, kholwe kum, oku kuyilinga kakhulu. Thatha inyathelo: ngokumchukumisa ngokukhawuleza, ncedisa umntu ukuba athathe isinyathelo kuwe. Yonke le miqondiso yenkcazelo iyathetha ngokugqithiseleyo malunga nokuba ulindele ukuqhubeka kobudlelwane, kuba indoda ayithandi kwaye ayifuni ukuqagela iiminqweno zesetyhini.
Abafazi abathandekayo, imithetho ilula, ukuba ngokuzithemba unokuthi: uya kuphumelela.