Ngaba uqinisekile ukuba lo mntu ungowakho? Mhlawumbi kukufanele ukukhangela umxhatshazi ofanele okanye uzame ukutshintsha? Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uValentina Yaroslavtseva uthi iintombazana zihlala zibuza ukuba ziphathe njani kwimeko efanayo.
Umzekelo, omnye wabathengi bakhe, uMarina, olwabelana naye othanda umntu oneminyaka elishumi ubudala kunabo. Uneminyaka engamashumi amabini anesihlanu, kwaye uneminyaka engamashumi amathathu anesihlanu. Isebe apho asebenza khona alikude nelokusebenza kuyo iMarina. Badibene ngethuba, uMarinin othandekayo ngokwakhe wathabatha inyathelo. Uqhawule umtshato. Ubonisa umdla wesondo kuphela kuMarina. Bavame ukudibana, ngaphandle kwemvumelwano - kwimibutho, iimeko eziqhelekileyo. Emva kokuba amaqela aye rhoqo aye ekhaya lakhe. Ngentsasa elandelayo ... inqwelo iya kuba ithanga. UMarina uyaqhubeka nokusebenza kwisebe elingummelwane. Kwaye, ngokungathi akukho nto yenzekile, uphonsa owomileyo: "uncedo", kwaye uhamba nge shishini lakhe. UMarina uyacaphukisa ukuba unomdla kumthandi wakhe kuphela kwisimo sesini, ufuna ukubonana, ukuthanda uthando, kunye ... nokuba yinto enxulumene nolwalamano olunzulu. Kodwa akwazi ukuba ukwenza oku.
Le meko kunzima kakhulu. Ukuqhubela phambili kwinto yokuba umfana emva kwentlanganiso akahambi kumnxeba. Kwaye le nxalenye yentsapho yayidlala ngokuphindaphindiweyo, uMarina unomdla kuye kuphela kwintsebenziswano yezesondo. Kuye, umfana akafuni ulwalamano olunzulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kwimeko enjalo kukho ithuba, nokuba lihle kakhulu, ukuba abafana (ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva) baya kuqalisa ubudlelwane obukhulu. Zama ukwenza oku:
- Qaphela ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni xa uyeka ukumbona lo mntu. Ihlabathi ayiphenduki, kunjalo. Ngokubanzi, ukuba uyaphule ubuhlobo obunjalo, awuyi kulahlekelwa nantoni na. Ngendlela, isiphelo esonwabileyo sale ndaba, naye, akunako. Yilungele ukwamukela nasiphi na isiphumo sale meko, nokuba yintoni na. Esi simo sengqondo siya kunceda ukwenza ngendlela engqiqweni, ukucinga nokuhlalutya nje kuphela isinyathelo sakho, kodwa kunye nokuphendula komthandi wakho.
- Cinga ngendlela ongayifumana ngayo into oyithandayo. Uyakuthanda i-jazz kunye nesayensi. Okanye ukuqokelela imali? Okanye bred cacti. Zama ukufumana i-intersection apho unomdla oqhelekileyo. Zama ukuzibonakalisa kwicala eliqaqambileyo, umangalise-umzekelo, ukuba ulungiselela isidlo esiphundu kwisitya esikuthandayo saseJapan (ukuba ufuna ukutya). Okanye unike umsebenzi onqamlekileyo weKandinsky wakhe othandekayo ...
- Zama ukumhlangabeza "ngengozi," ngothando, kodwa ngaphandle kwempawu ecacileyo ukuba ulungele ukumlandela ngoku kwaye ubuncinane ekupheleni kwehlabathi.
- Cwangcisa nayiphi na "ingozi" kodwa into ephuthumayo nengxamisekileyo kuye. Umzekelo, khalaza kwiyunithi yekhompyutheni engafanelekiyo, ngoku ixhomekeke. Ukuba imeko yezonxibelelwano zakho inokuhamba ukusuka kwinqwelo "iplanti ye-martini" kwiplanethi yasekhaya, apho ungabonakalisa nje ngokuba ngumthandi onomdla, kodwa nje ngokuba ungumqeshwa onobuchule okanye umxube oncokolayo ...
- Ngokuchanekileyo musa ukuphosa ngesifuba esimthandayo ngokunikezelwa ngothando, ukunyaniseka okungapheliyo kunye nabantwana abathathu - kunokusongela. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba unamava amnandi entlalontle yentsapho ephela ngokuqhawula umtshato.
- Ukuba le nto ayitshintshi kwicala elifunayo, zama ukuqonda ukuba ufuna le ndoda, ingaba lo mntu udinga ulwalamano olunzulu ngoku. Kwaye ukuba uhlala udibana nabafana abafuna ubuhlobo obulula, cinga ukuba ingaba lixesha lokuba ukhule kwaye ubuyekeze isimo sakho sengqondo kuwe nakubomi?