Masithi nje ukuba umfazi ohlala ekhononda ngobomi bakhe ngumfazi ongekhohlakeleyo. Njengomgaqo, zonke iinjongo zethu zobomi zijoliswe ekuzameleleni ukulungelelanisa: sifuna ukubukeka kakuhle, ukugqoka kakuhle, ufumane kakuhle kwaye ube nokuphumla okulungileyo. Ukongeza, sifuna indoda enhle, epheleleyo. Kodwa, ehlabathini kungekho nto igqibeleleyo, nokuba thina, kunye nenyaniso ebusweni, ayilungile, ayikwazi ukuba ngumyeni ofanelekileyo.
Eyona nto imele ibe ngumgangatho othile, ukuba ubani omele azame. Ingaba ngumgangatho omhle, umgangatho wokuziphatha kakuhle kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, umgangatho womyeni. Umyeni ococekileyo, obonwe ngcamango yakho, yile mpawu yeempawu zangaphakathi, idatha yangaphandle efunekayo iqabane lakho ebomini. Kwabanamantombazana amaninzi anamhlanje, indoda efanelekileyo kunye nomyeni naye ungumntu okhuselekileyo ngokwezezimali. Ngoko yonke into iyodwa, kuba wonke umntu unezicelo zakhe malunga namadoda "90-60-90".
Kodwa, emva kwakho konke, akufanele ukhethe izigwenxa kwaye ukhangele i-prince transcendental, ezungeze apho kukho amadoda amaninzi aneentsilelo ezinkulu kunye neentlobo ezintle. Ukuchukumisa ngokugqithiseleyo, nokuba kunye nokuzikhethela, unokuhlala kunye nento. Ukuba ufika kwisitoreji, apho kuya kwenziwa khona isenzo esilinga, kwaye uza kukhetha ixesha elide, ungahlali nantoni. Kukho njalo umthengi onamaxabiso angakanani owaziyo into ayifunayo, kwaye ngexesha lokucinga kwakho uya kuvuya ngokuthenga kwakhe. Na madoda. Kukho njalo umntu obona kwisithuba sakho sokukhetha ukhetho olufanelekileyo kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, aluphihli.
Impawu ezifanelekileyo zomyeni ofanelekayo
Kwaye ngoku siza kuqwalasela uhlobo luni lweempawu ezifanelekileyo umyeni. Kodwa, ndifuna ukuphawula ukuba kuwo onke amabhinqa kukho izinto eziphambili kunye nemigaqo, kwaye kwezinye iimeko ezifanelekileyo kukuba umntu ozimeleyo unelungelo lokukhohlisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umfazi ukhetha umyeni owamkholisayo, kwaye ukuba ufuna inkululeko yobundlobongela ebomini bentsapho yakhe, naye ufuna umyeni wakhe enemigaqo yokuziphatha efanayo kunye nokuziphatha. Kodwa, njengommiselo, emva koko, umfazi ufuna ukumbona kumyeni wakhe umntu othembekileyo, olula kunye noxanduva.
Ngoko, indoda efanelekileyo yile:
- Indoda ekuthandayo kwaye ikuthandayo. Ndicinga ukuba amazwana ayadingeki apha.
- Indoda engenayo imikhwa emibi, kuyinqweneleka ukuba akayaphuzi okanye ayibheme.
- Indoda yentsapho ethembekileyo neyithembekileyo. Esinye isiqingatha, esabizwa ngumyeni okanye umfazi. Bonke baphela. Indoda efanelekileyo iya kuhlala ixhaswa kumzuzwana onzima, fumana amagama afanelekileyo, ukuhlambalaza - kungekhona iqela lomntu ofanelekayo.
- Indoda enhle yiphupha lokugqibela lamantombazana namabhinqa amaninzi. Ewe, kukuhlala kukuhle ukucinga ngomntu ovelele, ngakumbi xa elula kwaye eyakhelwe kakuhle. Kodwa le ngongoma yokukhetha kwakho akufanele iholele. Ngamanye amaxesha emva kobuhle awukwazi ukubona iziphoso ezinzulu. Emva kokuba umhlobo wam evuma ukuba wayemthanda kakhulu umyeni wakhe, ubukeka obukhangayo. Kodwa umtshato wawuguqula yonke into, imbonakalo yawela kwimvelaphi, kubaluleke ngakumbi iimpawu zangaphakathi zomntu, ongazange azikhanyise.
- Ukwabelana ngesondo ... Umyeni ofanelekileyo kufuneka abe kuhle embhedeni, kukulungele. Nantoni na into ongayithethayo, kodwa ngaphandle kokwaneliseka, akunakunxulumana. Yaye akuyona into ephambili kwisixa sesithunzi sakhe sabantu. Into ephambili kukuba umyeni ufuna ukukuvuyisa, kwaye ukuba ufuna, ngoko ke, yonke into iya kuvela.
- Kuya kuba mnandi ukuba umyeni nguye oyintloko kwiindlu. Kodwa indoda ayikho i-ATM, kwaye ungamxineli, ukuba namhlanje akanakukuvumela konke okufunayo. Ukuhlambalazwa kunokuba nefuthe eliphazamisayo kwiintsapho zobudlelwane. Ibhinqa kumyeni wayo yindawo yokucoca, kwaye akayiphuzanga, khumbula oku. Umtshato ngokubalwa kukuba, inokwenzeka ukuba, "inkontileka" inomdla, kodwa ingenalo uthando. Kodwa, njengoko ndithe, wonke umntu unayo. Ukuba oku kuyilungileyo, yilwela ngamandla.
Ewe, kwaye ekugqibeleni. Ibhinqa elifuna ukubona indoda efanelekileyo kufuneka icinge ngeempawu umfazi ofanelekileyo kufuneka abe nayo. Ukuba kuphela "thabatha" kwaye unganiki, umyeni ofanelekileyo angaba ngumyeni ongafezekanga kwaye ngokungafaniyo.
Ukuba ufuna umyeni wesikhathi esizayo, khangela kwaye ulwele okusemandleni, kodwa ungalindeli indlovukazi, ngenxa yokuba udinga indoda nayo yonke amandla akhe kunye nobuthathaka, kungekhona inkohliso yokukhohlisa. Usuvele ungumfazi? Andicingi ukuba ungatshata umntu ongeyena mhle. Iingqungquthela, iimpikiswano, ukungaqondani - oku kuphela inyathelo eyanisweni, kodwa kungadangali. Jonga ngokukhawuleza, fumana kuyo iindawo ezininzi zokudibanisa phakathi kwezinto ezincinci, kwaye, mhlawumbi, yenza isinyathelo sokuqala kwindlela eya kuyo kwaye uyamangalisa umyeni wakho. Yintoni okufanele ibe ngumyeni ofanelekileyo owaziyo ngaphambili, ngoko kukho konke okufunekayo. Futhi ungangcikiva amadoda akho, nokuba ngaba akuyiyo into oyifunayo. Ukudumisa nokuvunywa kukukhuthazwa ngokuqinisekileyo ekulandeleni ubomi obungcono.