Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka: unengqiqo, ulungile, uhlala uthakazelisa, ujabule kwaye uyabonwabalala, kodwa ngendlela ohlangabezana ngayo nabesilisa abesilisa kuphela. Amaxesha omhla wokuhlambalaza, okuphindaphindiweyo kukudakisayo ngothando. Kodwa ixesha lidlulayo, amanxeba aphulukisa - kwaye uphinde ukhawuleze ukudibana nomnye umgcini. Iyintoni ingxaki? Ngoko, intlanganiso ngesihloko esithi "Intlekazi enhle yedwa okanye kutheni ndingenanhlanhla."
Ubulumko bubulumko kwaye kaninzi lunika abantu iingcebiso ezintle. Oko thina, ngelishwa, sisoloko silahlekelwa iindlebe. Usizi. Uye waya kwintsimi yezityalo kwaye mhlawumbi wabona izityalo ezithambileyo apho. Bambamba ixhoba kumbala oqaqambileyo kunye nephunga elidakisayo, kwaye ke uyifake kunye namaqabunga awo namagatsha. Emva koko, ixhoba inento eyodwa kuphela - ukutshabalalisa.
Ngethamsanqa, abantu abayikwesaba izilwanyana. Sifakwe ezinye iingozi. Eyona nto ikhangayo ekuqalekeni, njengephunga leentyatyambo zaseTropiki, kwaye libe nesetyhefu njengejusi layo. Kwaye enye yeengozi ibizwa ngokuba "indoda ebulalayo".
Xa isikhulu sijika sibe yintonga.
Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ukuthandana neendlebe zamadoda ngokubonakala kanobuqhetseba kunye nemilinganiselo yalo mqulu lilungelo lamantombazana amancinci. Kodwa amagqwetha athetha ngokugqithiseleyo amatyala eqhawulo-mtshato athi abafazi abavuthiweyo, abaphumelelayo bahlala besenza intlungu ngenxa yothando. Bona, ngokuchasene nomqondo oqhelekileyo, baphonsa amadoda athembekileyo, abathandekayo baze baye kwintando yabo engathembekiyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo unako ukuchaza yonke into ngokuqhuma kwe-hormonal, ngesondo. Kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kumanethiwekhi omthandayo abafazi abaswelekileyo bayawa thandana, bethenda, bephila ubomi obungokomoya. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oomama bathanda ukuchazela izenzo zabo ngento yokuba ekugqibeleni badibana nomntwana wabo. Isiqingatha sakhe. Kuze kube ngoku, ubomi babo buyimfutho, buhlungu. Enyanisweni, emva kwexesha elithile inkosana yajika yaba yindoda eqhelekileyo, inxila okanye i-sadist. Kwaye inkokhelo yomzuzwana omnwaba kunye nendoda ebulalayo ibonakala ingavumelekanga: ukudumala, ukudandatheka, iintlawulo eziphukileyo kunye neentsapho.
Kodwa, nangona emva kokuhamba kuzo zonke izangqa zesihogo, abanye abaxhoba ngothando olunjalo olubuhlungu bayaqhubeka bethetha ukuba abazisoli nto, ukuba banokuvavanya nje loo mvakalelo yile ndoda ebulalayo. Umbuzo wukuthi, yintoni abayithandayo ababenokubangela ukuba baxhobise amaxhoba abo? Kwaye kutheni abanye abafazi banesifo sokungena kwi-inoculation ngokuxhomekeka kwingozi, ngelixa abanye ngoku kwaye beza kuye.
Kwimibutho enye yengqondo eyayinikele iingxaki zonxibelelwano, ngexesha le ncoko yafunyanwa ukuba malunga nabafazi abalishumi beza apha neengxaki enye. Bonke oomama abanamhlanje babesomashishini abaphumeleleyo. Kodwa, xa beqala ishishini labo kwiminyaka engama-90, babesaba kakhulu. Ngoko ke, abafazi bathanda abaququzeleli babo abathandayo. Emva kwexesha, ishishini laguqukela. Abafazi basebenze, kwaye amaqabane abo athola inzuzo kwaye akenzi nto okanye anika iingcebiso ezingenakulungelelaniswa kunye nemiyalelo engathintekiyo kwimeko. Abanye abantu basela. Abanye babulala amantombazana abo ngeemfihlelo ezaziwayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo inxalenye ebalulekileyo yemali yaqhutyelwa kwiipakethe zabo. Ngoko uphulaphule ukuvuma okubuhlungu kwaye uzibuze: njani abafazi abaqinileyo bezoshishino banokwenza loo mpazamo ebomini babo?
Yintoni eyasikhupha kumadoda ayingozi?
Njengeentyatyambo ezithandekayo, ukutsala iinambuzane kunye nombala kunye nokuhogela, indoda ebulalayo inokuthabatha abafazi ngendlela yothando. Uxhobile ngomfanekiso wendoda egubude elwandle. Ekuqalekeni, akayikwesaba, unomusa, uyimfihlakalo kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, unomdla kakhulu ...
Kuphela emva kokubona umntu, sinokukwazi ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo ukuba siyayithanda okanye ayikho, isisombululo siza ngemizuzwana. Yaye iphunga lethu liyithatha. Ngoku kuyimfashini ukuthetha ngeentlobo ezikhethekileyo - i-pheromones, ecinga ukuba inokugqithiseleyo, ngoko ke abo banenhlanhla bayabonwa kakhulu. Abo bangenakuziqhayisa ngesithandwa socansi baxhaswa ukuba basebenzise iiperiomones. Enyanisweni, i-adrenaline igijima egazini lomntu onobungozi, kuba uhlala ekulungele ukulwa-nokuba ingaba isango okanye ukuthengiswa kwempahla. Yaye apho i-adrenaline ikhona, kukho i-testosterone-into ekhangayo kunabo bonke abafazi besini esahlukileyo.
Akumangalisi kukuba, kubafazi basemakhaya abathulile, lo msebenzi ukhangelekile. Nangona kungabikho bonke abantu abaneembonakalo ezinobunzima banemimpawu yokulwa. Kwaye kwinqanaba lamadoda "anobungozi", oogqirha beengqondo ba ndakanya kakhulu abo balinganisela kwintlambo yomthetho, baninzi abangenakho ukuziphatha ngokuzimeleyo nabasetyhini - kulula ukukhulisa ubudlelwane, baze bavele bawaphule.
UAlphonse okanye isitya sokutya?
Ngelixa abahlobo bakhe basebenza ngokukhukhuma kwamathambo abo kwaye basindisa yonke i-ruble abayifumanayo, akhathazeki ngokukhathazeka okukhulu ngaye naphi na. Uhamba ngemoto ebiza kakhulu, ehamba ngendlela ephathekayo, uyazi ezininzi ngezipho ezibiza kwaye uhlala emkelekile kwimibutho yefestile. Uyazibuza, yintoni umfazi oqhelekileyo ophumelelayo apha?
Khawucinge ngomzuzwana ukuba intanda yakhe ngokwayo kwisizwe seofisi i-workaholics, uyakwazi ukusebenza, kodwa ukuphumla ... Ngoko ke, ukudibana nomntu oqaqambileyo kuye akuyi kubonwa. Yaye inyaniso yokuba uyisitya sokutya, iya kucaca kamva. Kodwa ubugcisa bakhe bokuphosa imali kwiinyawo zowesifazane othandekayo (ukunika iziqhamo ezinkulu, ukuqhubela kwindawo yokudlela, ukwenza izipho ezilungileyo) kuya kushiya umfazi onqabileyo ongenamdla. Kwaye akunandaba, ukuba kungekudala imali yakhe iyaphuma kwaye ibonisa ukuba unetyala njengesilikhi. Kwindwendwe yomntu ehlala naye, umfazi onothando uya kuvuyela ukumnika imali yakhe.
Ububambiswano, xa bufumana, kwaye buchitha, buqhelekileyo ngoku ngoku. Kwaye, ngokukrakra ngokwaneleyo, ezo mibutho zizinzile. Kutheni? Kungenxa yokuba ecaleni kwakhe, wayeqala ukuva inqabileyo yentsholongwane inkululeko kwimihla ngemihla. Ngenxa yokuba uyazi indlela yokuphila ngokuzilolonga kwakhe aze afake kuye intle yobomi. Abanye besetyhini bakholelwa ukuba inzululwazi enjalo iyafaneleka ukuhlawula!
Njengomthetho, amadoda abulalayo ayazi njani ukunyamekela. Kodwa nangona oku akuyona into ekhangayo kakhulu kwabasetyhini. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba lolu hlobo lomthandi aluze luthebe ukuthetha ngeemvakalelo zakhe nothando lwakhe. Indoda eqhelekileyo iya kuzikhukula ixesha elide kwaye ibuhlungu: ingaba uthethe ngeemvakalelo zakhe, kwaye kuya kwenzeka ntoni emva koko, kuba engakulungele ukuza kutshata.
Kodwa kukho amadoda angayazi loo mabango. Uyazi ukuba akayi kukhetha ukutshata, kodwa ukuba le yindlela yokuphela kwintliziyo yomfazi onqwenelayo, ulungele ukudlala ngemithetho yakhe. Ngaloo ndlela, ngomhla wokuqala unokuthetha ngokukhuselekileyo ngothando lwakhe oluthandayo, kwaye okwesibini - ukumenza umnikelo, kwaye ke ... ngokubanzi ukuyeka ukuphendula iifowuni zakhe.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngelixa ibhinqa liyamthanda kwaye ubudlelwane buya kuphakama, luhambelana ngokupheleleyo nomfanekiso "wothando oluhle", oluchazwe kwiimvumi nakwiimvanoveli zamakhosikazi. Yiyo le "ngcamango" yinto evumbayo apho amaxhoba ayo ahlamba khona.
Ngelikhulu lexeshana kwisigqibo esifanayo.
Ngenxa yobulungisa, kufuneka kuthiwe akubona zonke "ezinobungozi". Kukho a mabhinqa apho iingqungquthela zamadoda abulalayo azisebenzi. Kodwa amaninzi angagqithanga ngokukhawuleza kwinqanaba elifanayo, kodwa ixesha elide ngoko baqhawula amanxeba abo, abakwazi ukulibala ukukhanya kwabo. Ngombuzo wabo wesakramente: "Kutheni kum - ohlakaniphile, omhle, onesizungu kangaka?" - iingqondo zeengqondo zihlala zicebisa ukucinga nokuqonda ukuba ngubani na okhethayo amaqabane abo.
Makhe ndikuxelele encinane malunga nento enjengokuthi "thandana nongcola". Isitshixo salo silula. Kwintliziyo yanoma yiyiphi inkohlakalo yokurhoxisa imali yinto efanayo kunye nengqondo yomntu - ukungafuni ukuvuma ukuba ngumntu olahlekileyo. Yilokho i-scammers esebenzayo, ukunika i-simplified naïve: "Faka i-ruble kuyo-kwaye uya kuphumelela kabini!" Phantse into efanayo eyenzeka ngothando. Ukubeka umphefumlo wakho, amandla, iimbilini kunye neminyaka ibe ngumntu ongafanelekanga, awunawo amandla okuba uyingxenye nayo. Yonke ixesha kubonakala ngathi, kubalulekile ukufaka ingqungquthela encinci kwiprojekti engathembekiyo - kwaye kwimeko yonke iya kuvela into enengqiqo kwaye inelungelo ... Kodwa oku akukwenzeka! Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufumana amandla, isibindi, ukuvuma ukuba ilahlekile ayikwazi ukubuyiselwa, kwaye uqale kwakhona. Ubomi butyebi, kwaye kukho uvuyo olwaneleyo kuwo wonke umntu!
Unxibelelwano olunobungozi. Indlela yokuziphepha?
1. Izwi kunye neshishini. Musa ukugweba indoda ukusuka kwimbono yokuqala. Ukuhlawula ingqalelo amagama akhe kunye nokunye kwizenzo. Khumbula: umfanekiso awuyinto!
2. Yiba nenene. Ukwamkelwa kweklasi ye-hero-lover kukumangalisa intombazana enobubanzi obusisigxina, isipho esixabayo, uhambo oluya kwindawo yokudlela yase-posh. Musa ukucinga ukuba oku kuya kuba njalo.
3. Themba, kodwa khangela! Musa ukukhawuleza ukutshintsha umthwalo wembopheleleko kwishishini lakho kunye ne-real estate kumaqumrhu amadoda anamandla. Kunokwenzeka ukuba uzahlula imali engenayo kuphela, kwaye umsebenzi kunye neengxaki ziya kuhlala kunye nawe.
4. Ungakuphepha njani ukuphinda ubaleke? Ukuba iireveli zakho ziphela kakubi, kwaye amaqabane ahlala ehambisa iingxaki, musa ukukhawuleza ukuqala ulwalamano olutsha. Kungcono ukuya kwimina yeengqondo okanye uthathe ingcali.
5. Unganqikazi ukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo malunga nezikhalazo zakho. Abafazi bayesaba ukufumana ubuhlobo, ukucaphukisa iqabane elingathembekiyo. Kodwa umntu "olungileyo" uya kukuqonda, kwaye umntu "ongendawo" uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba awuyi kukhohlisa intloko yakho.
7. Musa ukuqhuba amahashe. Imvakalelo ayiyi-bamboo, abayi kuhluma ngobusuku bonke. Ukuba ungathandabuzeki, linda nje. Ixesha liya kufaka yonke into kwindawo yalo.
8. Musa ukoyika ukudideka. Ukuba ungekhohlisi, kwaye kwavela ukuba "iphosakele", shiya uze uqale ngokukhuselekileyo kuqala. Uthando lusebenza.