Enye into xa umhlobo wakho enakho konke, kwaye wena ... unokuncinci. Makhe sijonge kunye, sisiphi isipho esona sihle kunazo zonke amadoda afanele ukukhetha?
Ekupheleni kokufa kuza kukunika igama lomalume, othanda wena kwaye ngoko uyamema, kodwa uhlonipha kwaye ngoko akwenzi. Okanye nabazali, apho oye wazithoba khona kwiqashiso eliqashisayo kwaye ngubani ozama ukubonisa ukuzimela kwezemali kunye nokulungeleka okulungileyo.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukubiza inkwenkwe yokuzalwa kwaye uvuma ngokunyanisekileyo: "Andiyi kucinga into enokukunika yona." Ngaba unayo nayiphi na into? " Kakade, akusiyo into yokuba uya kunikwa ngokukhawuleza inkcazelo. Umhlobo wakho osisityebi okanye isihlobo, eyazi umahluko kumgangatho wezezimali, uya kuqala ukutshintsha umva: "Ungubani, into ephambili kukuba ubukho bakho!" Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba ufuna ngokwenene into elula. Kwaye yena sele esele ecebile kwaye exakekile kangangokuba akazi kakuhle apho izinto zilula zithengwa: iintyatyambo ezimbizeni, iingubo zeeplasma, i-slippers ekhaya, emva kwayo yonke into ...
Iisokisi ze-Woolen, ngendlela, isipho esihle kakhulu. Akukho mntu uthengisayo, ngaphandle koogogokazi kwiimarike. Kwaye bayashushu kwaye baphathe ngendlela efanayo nekhulu leminyaka edlulileyo - iingubo zangaphantsi ezisebushushu kunye neengubo zombane. Uyazi indlela yokudibanisa - ephezulu! Isipho sinokuthi siphumelele kuphela. Ngokukodwa umzingeli okanye, zithi, i-angler (abantu abazityebi bahlala benomdla ofanayo). Udibanise i-sock okanye igolfu - phantsi kweebhotile ezinqabileyo - kunye nonke ubude endaweni yesigqithiso osikhululayo okanye udibanise umyalelo: "Ukuzingela" okanye "Ukuloba". Ungathandabuzeki ukuba isipho siya kusetyenziswa ngenhloso yaso, kwaye ingathunyelwa ekulahlweni kwemfucuza.
Abaninzi bethu baphosakele ngokukholelwa ukuba kulula ukukhetha isipho somntu onomdla wokuzonwabisa ... Ukuba umhlobo wakho ungumlutha wokuzingela (ukuloba, ukunambitha iiguba, ubumba) kuphela ekuqaleni kweqoqo yakhe okanye nje ngemini ngaphambi kwangoku, ungangenelela. Isatifikethi somgangatho weklasi kwi-sushi (i-pizza, itiye), isifundo sombumbi, ukugibela ihashe okanye ukuxhoma i-intanethi kungathengwa kuyo nayiphi na "ivenkile yokuzonwabisa" - i-Intanethi igxile kubo. Ngokuba iwaka okanye ezimbini unokubhabhisa umqhubi kwaye uqhube kwi-vehicle-field.
Kodwa kungcono ukubuza nantoni na ukuba yintoni inkwenkwe yokuzalwa engenako ukuphelela kokonwaba. Kufuneka ube yingcali yokuqonda umgaqo wakho umalume othabathe iwayini, yiyiphi enye imali esele ikhona (kwaye yiyiphi, ngokucacileyo, akufanele ibe) kwifolda yenkwenkwezi ye-numismatic ... Ungathethi ukuba iqoqo lewayini eliselungwini lomalume inokuhlawula umvuzo wakho omine. Kanye kunye nexabiso elifanelekileyo ekuqokelelweni komhlobo. Kwaye awuyi kunika isibhamu kumfowenu-mzingeli ngesizathu esilula: unemvume yokuthenga izixhobo, kodwa awukwazi. Ngoko kufuneka ivalwe kwimveliso ehambelana nayo.
Ungayithenga ibhodlela elihle lebhotile okanye - sele sele liphuma ekukhutsheni kwamahlaya - i-puzzle rack, ukukhupha ibhotile apho ungakwazi khona kuphela kwintloko yentloko. Umqokeleli uya kusebenzisa i-albhamu yokugcina, ibhokisi, ityala (ibhokisi), i-cache efanelekileyo. Kwaye kwakhona, iingubo ze-antistatic, iikhomputha kunye neekhathalogu. Umzingeli, umlobi okanye umthandi ogqithiseleyo akanakuze akhathathwe ngeenqanda ze-coworker okanye amabhotile eboya eSiberia. Kodwa uThixo akavumelekanga ukubonisa izilwanyana (kwanoo-adorer). Ungaxhomeki kumntu ojongene nalabo oye wamdumisa ngaye. Izibophelelo zezilwanyana ezifuywayo ezikhoyo, ukungawaniki. Kuyinto engaqhelekanga nje ngokunika ilinen yelinen yomfazi wayo ...
Sikucebisa ukuba ukhethe isipho somhlobo ocebileyo, ugxininise kwisimo sakhe sengqondo.
Abantu abakhethiweyo bahlukeneyo ngeengubo zabo eziqaqambileyo, izibonakaliso ezicacileyo, ukuzithobela. Bazama ukutsala ingqalelo kubo nayiphi na indlela. Yaye bayayithanda kuphela. Khetha okubalulekileyo. Iinjongo ezifihliweyo ze-choleric azixabisi. Zama ukwenza isipho sikhulu, ngokupakishwa okuqhaqha. Yaye uyinike nge-pathos, kuluntu. Naluphi na uhlazo, kuba ngumtyholi entwasahlobo, uya kumnandipha. Mthobele kunye nesitifiketi sokugqoka iingubo zefashini, ngokubonisa ukuba wayegqoke ukuba angenguMadonna, ngoko ngokwenene uZhanna Friske ngokuqinisekileyo. Kodwa "ukuhamba" kwintambo ephosakeleyo (indiza kwi-fighter, skydiving, egibela kwi-zorb, njl.) Ayiyona nto ikhethekileyo. I-choleric iya kwamkela kwaye ivule ngokuphangaleleyo ngesipho sakho, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuyisebenzisa. Ekhohlo yodwa kunye naye, unako ukuhamba.
I-Sanguine iyayixabisa intuthuzelo, kwaye oku kungaba isipho esihle kunazo zonke kubantu balolu hlobo. Kwaye umsebenzi wethu kukumnceda kule nto. Waguqa waya kwikhompyutheni-kwaye apha yena kunye ne-slippers evuthayo, kwaye ikhibhodi iyinto encane, kunye ne-massage yeenyawo, kunye nekhadi kumqolo. Iingqikithi, i-sanguine yayiza kufezeka kwi-sauna okanye kwi-massage yaseThai. Kodwa isityebi sanguine umntu sele esele wayenomaster wakhe kunye nesitulo sakhe esithandayo kunye nomgcini wakhe wokuhlamba. Ngoko kukungcono ukuhlawula umva wakho okanye iwashi ye-alamu ngekomityi elivuthayo.
I-Melanchol yindonki uEeyore. Unako ukuvuyela ngokupheleleyo, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo lusizi oluncinane. Izipho ezincibilikisayo zimele zivuyiswe kwaye ziqhayise ngokusemandleni. Ukuba iCD yinto enomculo we-bravura. Ukuba le filimu yinkomfa. Futhi ukhetha into ye-melancholika, ukhethe izinto ezikhanyayo kunye nemibhalo ebhaliweyo-iziphakamiso-oku kuya kuba yisipho esona sihle kunazo zonke amadoda alolu hlobo. Ngokuqinisekileyo uza kuba mngcipheko wokunika intombi ecebileyo isambatho sakusihlwa? I-T-shirt enegama elithi "ngaphandle kwembala engumfanekiso" okanye "nceda uthanda kwaye uyenze" inokwenzeka. Ama-melancholics ayaqonda yonke into enhle kwimpilo. Banokumangaliswa ngokubhaliswa kwintlambo-eyona nto ifomayo ngoku indlela yokuphumla. Okanye isatifikethi kwikliniki yeyeza laseTibetan. Okanye simemo kumthendeleko weeyi.
I-phlegmatic inzima ukulungelelanisa yonke into entsha. Kodwa, ngokungaqhelekanga njengokuba kubonakala ngathi, nguye nguye oxabisa kakhulu. Uya kujonga isatifikethi esinikeziweyo kanye, kabini, abathathu, kwaye emva koko ugqibe, uthathe inxaxheba kwaye unomdla omkhulu kuyo, uthi, i-snowboarding okanye u-hang-gliding. Ukunika i-phlegmatic kulula. Into oyikhethayo kufuneka ihlangabezane neemfuneko ezimbini: amandla kunye nokusebenza. Ukuba wawusekhaya le-phlegmatic, ungathenga into yangaphakathi - isibane kwipopsti okanye umbhoxo ukuya kumakhethini. Ngexesha lomnikelo, musa ukulibala ukukhankanya oku. Inqaku oye wacinga ngalo ngesi sipho, wathabatha ikiti, ngoko ke, ndacinga malunga nenkwenkwe yokuzalwa. Uya kuwuxabisa.
Count Tolstoy uLeo Nikolayevich wabuya wahlamba izibhokhwe njengesipho sokufumana. Ndinekratshi! Ukuba awunayo amandla okwaneleyo okuthunga amabhuthi, unokuzikhawulela ukukhahlela ngomnqamlezo, umfanekiso weeqhosha okanye i-headcarf (nge-batik in aid). Ewe, ukuba uyazi indlela yokudibanisa kakuhle okanye ukubhala iifriji ukusuka kwimemori, ngoko iingxaki ngezipho akufanele zikho konke.
Unokwenza isilayidi okanye ividiyo malunga nobomi, umsebenzi okanye indlela yokudala yomntu onayo yonke into. Amanye ama-arhente anikezela ukuba awise yonke idokhumenti malunga nentlokoma. Into ethandwa kakhulu ngoku i-albhamu egcina izinkumbulo. I-Albhamu kule ndlela zihluke ngokuba zibonisa umoya kunye nemeko yexesha elivalwe. Iphepha ngalinye lenziwe ngokucophelela.
Ndixabisa kakhulu abahlobo (ingakumbi amadoda) njengesipho esilula, njengamaqebelengwane ayenziwe. Ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba yinto ekhethekileyo-evela kwimveliso yendalo kunye ne-recipe eyimfihlo. Kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, uCarlson omkhulu, wayebhekisele ukuhlaziywa kwexesha elihle lokuzalwa!