Izithethe zothando: izibhambathiso zomtshato

Izibhambathiso emtshatweni kwiminyaka yamuva ziye zaziwa kakhulu. Kwaye xa umtshato kwiCawa yamaOthodox ukutshintshwa kwezibhambathiso akufanelekanga kwaye ungangeni kwinkolo, ngoko ngexesha lomtshato kwiofisi yokubhalisa okanye kwindlela, abantu abatsha banokuthi bathethe into ebalulekileyo omnye komnye, benze uthando luthembise.

Isifungo somtshakazi nomyeni senza intando kunye nesimo sengqondo kwimigaqo yeLaconic. Ngona iindwendwe ezingenakuzikhumbuza ziyafa intliziyo, xa uthinte amazwi ngamazwi, uthando, ukunyaniseka nomnqweno wokuhlala nomnye ubomi obuninzi obuhle kwaye buhle. Isiko somtshato esihle sitholakala kwimikhosi eminingi yaseYurophu, zombini kunye neecawa.

Ngokwemvelo, izibhambathiso akunakwenzeka nje kuphela, kodwa zincwadana. Emva koko banako ukucima imeko yexhala kwaye banike ithuba lokumomotheka kwakhona.

Isibhambathiso somtshakazi

Izibhambathiso zomtshato zihlala ziquka iinxalenye ezininzi. Ekuqaleni, abantu abaselula bayathelana ukuba bavuyiswa njani ukuba badibene neqabane labo, bebulela isithuba sabo. Emva koko kukho izithembiso kunye nezibophelelo. Unokufunda isigcawu esivela kumsebenzi ofanelekileyo okanye, ukuba unentlekele, yicula ingoma-isifungo. Into ephambili kukuba onke amagama avela entliziyweni aze agcwaliswe ngobuqotho.

Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukubhala isifungo somtshato somtshakazi, kufuneka uxoxe kunye nomyeni ukuba zeziphi izibhambathiso zomtshato zakho eziza kuba zilandelayo: ukuthanda okanye ukuthandana, kuba kungcono ukuzinceda ngendlela efanayo. Hlanganisa nomculo ozithandayo ozisa izikhumbuzo ezimnandi zomntu obathandayo, thandana nomoya wokuthandana kwaye uzame ukudlulisela iphepha okanye ngekhompyutheni ngamazwi akho neemvakalelo zakho. Khumbula ukuba uya kuphulaphulwa kunye neendwendwe, ngoko ugweme iinkcukacha ezingenasidingo.

Isibhengezo sombhambathiso womtshato akufanele sibe nude kakhulu. Nemizuzu emi-2 lide kakhulu. Zama ukuba mfutshane, kodwa uqiniseke. Emva kokuba ubhale isifungo, uhlaziye ngokufanelekileyo phambi kwesibuko okanye phambi kwintombazana ukuba unike intetho yakho inqaku elihle kunye nezobuchule.

Umbhalo wesifungo somtshato ungaba ngale ndlela:

Wena unami kusasa, uhamba nam, ubusuku kunye nawe kumnandi, unayo kwintlungu, kwiingcamango zam, kumaphupha am, kodwa kuninzi, ndoda, uyintliziyo yam. Ngonaphakade!

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Ndiyakuthanda. Namhlanje luyimini ekhethekileyo.

Esikhathini esidlulileyo wawuphela nje iphupha nomthandazo.

Ndiyabulela ngokuba ungubani kum.

Ndiya kukunyamekela, kukuhlonipha nokukhusela.

Ndikunika ubomi bam umhlobo kunye nentanda yam.

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Xa ndidibana nawe, ndiyazi intsingiselo yokwenene uthando. Ndiyathembisa ukuba, xa nje ndihlala, ndiya kukuzukisa kwaye ndikuhloniphe. Ndiza kuba ngcono kuwe kwaye ndiza kusebenza ukuqinisekisa ukuba ubudlelwane bethu kunye nonyaka bomelela. Ndiyathembisa ukunyaniseka kwaye ndikuphulaphule, soloko uhlonipha uluvo lwakho. Ndiyathembisa ukuba ndiya kuba ngumphefumlo wakho oyinyaniso nomzimba. Ndiyathembisa ukuba nguwe ngonaphakade.

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Ngoku, ndikhangele emehlweni akho, ndiyazi ukuba ndiyakuthanda kangakanani! Emva kokuba ube ngumhlobo wam iphupha, ngoku sele kuzaliseke. Ndiyabulela into endiyenzelayo, mbulela ngokuzalisa ubomi bam nenjongo. Ndibeka ubomi bam ezandleni zakho, umphefumlo wam nentliziyo yakho kuphela kuwe.

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Ndiyakuthanda. Wena ungumhlobo wam omhle.

Namhlanje ndiza kutshata nawe.

Ndiyathembisa, ndikukhuthaze kwaye ndikukhuthaze, ndihlekise nawe

Nokuba ndithuthuzele ngentlungu.

Ndiyathembisa ukuba ndiyakuthanda ngamaxesha amahle,

Xa ubomi bubonakala bulula kwaye xa ubomi bubonakala bunzima,

Xa ubuhlobo bethu buya kuba lula kwaye xa siza kuba neengxaki.

Ndiyathembisa ukuba ndikukhusele kwaye ndihlale ndihlonipha kakhulu.

Konke oku ndiyathembisa namhlanje kunye nayo yonke imihla yobomi bethu kunye.

Ndiyabulela kuwe, ndihleka, ndiyamomotheka, andiyi kuphinda ndiphuphe kwakhona.

Ndikhangele phambili ngenene uvuyo lokuchitha ubomi bam kunye nani,

Ukunyamekela kunye nokunceda kuzo zonke ubunzima obusilungiselele ubomi,

Ndifunga ukuba ndiyinyaniso kwaye ndizinikele kuwe ubomi bam bonke.

Izibhambathiso zomyeni

Amadoda amaninzi ayalibalala isifungo somtshato, ekholelwa ukuba ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zabo esidlangalaleni akuyona into efanelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umthandi wakho uphupha ukuva kuwe amazwi omthando emtshatweni, ngoko akufanele umcaphukise. Ekugqibeleni, akufuneki ukuba ubhale isifungo sakho. Unokuthatha iicatshulwa ezigqityiweyo okanye ufunde inkondlo yothando, uthathe umfazi ngesandla uze umjonge ngamehlo akhe.

Esifungo somyeni emtshatweni, ngokuqhelekileyo kuthembisa ukukhusela umfazi kuzo zonke iingxaki, ukukhusela kunye nokuba ngumhlobo othembekileyo rhoqo kunye nayo yonke into.

Imizekelo yesithembiso somtshato somyeni

Zonke iingcamango zam ngawe, uthando lwam olungapheliyo.

Ndihlala kuphela kunye nawe okanye ndingaphili nonke ...

Ndithande kwaye ungalokothi ugxeke intliziyo ethembekileyo yomthandi wakho.

Ngonaphakade.

Ngonaphakade ngowam.

Ngonaphakade.

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Ukususela kumzuzu apho ndiqala ukukubona ndafumanisa ukuba ungubani umntu, ndaqonda ukuba ndifuna ukuhlala nawe ubomi bam bonke. Ingqondo, ubuhle, ukuphefumula oye wanikezelwa yendalo, ugqugquzele kwaye wenze ndive ngcono. Ndiyathembisa ukukuthanda rhoqo, ubomi bam bonke. Ndiyathembisa ukuba ndiya kukuhlonela, soloko uthembekile kwaye uthembeke kuwe. Ndiyafunga kuwe ngoku.

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Sithembisana ukuba sibe ngabahlobo abanothando kunye namaqabane omtshato.

Ukuthetha nokuphulaphula, ukuthembela nokuxabana, ukuhlonipha nokuxabana komnye nomnye;

Gcina uphinde wenze okunye phakathi kwelo lonke ubomi kunye nosizi.

Sithembisa ukwabelana ngethemba lethu, iingcamango kunye namaphupha, ngokude nje ukuba sixabise ubomi bethu obudibeneyo.

Ukuphila kwethu makubekwe ngonaphakade kwaye uthando lwethu lusinceda sibe kunye.

Siza kwakha indlu apho kuvunyelwene khona ukubambisana.

Maye indlu yethu igcwale uxolo, ulonwabo nothando.

Ndiyathembisa kwaye ndikuxabise kwaye ndikuthande.

Yonke into embi - yikhohlwa, yaqonda yonke into, xolela yonke into.

Ndiza kukujikeleza ngenyameko, ingqalelo, ukufudumala.

Ndifungela abo bakule tafile

Musa ukuzisola ngamagama afudumele omnene.

Ndifungela ukugcina ububele, ukholo, uthando!

Ndiyakhumbula loo mini, ukubukeka okutshisayo, ukungahambi kakuhle,

Kwaye umzuzwana xa umlilo waphuma.

Loo mlilo ongcwele ndiyawufungela ukugcina!

Musa ukuphulephula ukuqonda komtya onqabileyo.

Hlukanisa kwisiqingatha sobukrakra, ubumnandi, uphupha.

Futhi uthathe ukuphakama okungaqondakaliyo.

Ukuwa - kunye kunye kunye kunye nokuma.

Ekuseni wena kunye nosana uya kumanga.

Ngentlungu, ngobuthakathaka, ukwesaba-andiyi kubuya,

Andiyi kuthengisa, andiyi kungcatsha kwaye andiyi kushiya, ndifunge!

Izithembiso Zomtshato

Izifungo ezifanelekileyo ngokukhethekileyo ngehlazo, ukuba umtshato uphendulwa. Umzekelo, elwandle okanye kwisitayela somntu. Kunzima ukubhala eso sihloko ngokwakho, kungcono ukuba ulungele okanye udibane nomphathi wesonto.

Ngaba ngezolo izolo (igama lomama), namhlanje sele sele (igama lomyeni). Ewe, ndithatha umyalelo ezandleni zam. Kwaye ndiyathembisa ukuba akusayi kuba nexhalaba endlwini yethu! Ndifungela ukuba ndingabi naluncedo, kuphela ngeentsuku ezithile. Ndiyathembisa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ndiya kuhlala ndifumana umlingane endlwini! Njalo inyanga, ngokunyanisekileyo, ndiya kwamkela umvuzo, ndiwuthumele kwindlela efanelekileyo.

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Ndiyathembisa ukuba uya kuhlala esidla isidlo sakusihlwa etafileni, ukuze imanyano ibe namandla kwaye ihlaziywe. Andiyi kumshiya umyeni wam, kuba mna nguye ongcono kwaye ontle. Andiyi kunika nabani na! Ewe, ukuba kuyimfuneko, ndiya kumbetha!

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Mna, mfazi, ndenze ukuthanda umyeni wam

Kwaye kubushushu nokubandayo, intlungwini yabini!

Musa ukuphikisana kwaye ungabi nomsindo,

Musa ukuvuka ekuseni!

Kwaye kuyinto enhle ukunyusa imihla ngemihla!

Ukusebenza ngento engeyiyo ukuqhuba,

Umvuzo ngexesha lokurhoxisa!

Ngeeholide - indebe yokuxakisa ukukhonza!

Oonyana abalungileyo bayaphuma,

Uze ungalibali ngeentombi zakho!

Kulunge nini ukuvakalisa izibhambathiso zomtshato?

Ukuba utshatile ecaweni ngenkonzo yamaProthestani, unokutshintshanisa izifungo ngokubeka izindandatho komnye nomnye. Kwixesha lobu-Orthodox, oku kungafanelekanga.

Ukwenza isifungo kumthendeleko kwiofisi yeRejista, kufuneka ucebise wakho umbhalisi kwangaphambili, njengoko inkqubo ilawulwa ngokuthe ngqo.

Ukongeza, izibhambathiso zomtshakazi nomyeni zivula umthendeleko okanye ngaphambi kokudanisa umdaniso wokuqala.