Imithwalo yemitshato yomtshato iqoqo leemfundiso eziye zaphuhliswa kwiinkulungwane ezininzi. Emtshatweni waseSlavic kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ezisentshona. Ubuncinane, ukuba sithetha ngomtshato wanamhlanje. Ngokomzekelo, kwimithwalo yethu yomtshato, indima yabazali bomtshakazi nomyeni isabalulekile. Oomama noomama kwimitshato yamantombazana abo abathandayo kunye noonyana benza imisebenzi ekhethekileyo, esiya kuthetha ngayo.
Iimfundiso zabazali bomyeni emtshatweni ziyafana nangeendlela ezininzi kubazali bomtshakazi. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ukungafani. Ukuba ukhangela kwixesha elidlulileyo, izithethe zabazali bamagumbi emtshatweni baboniswa ngomahluko kunye neengoma zomlomo. Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje, ezininzi zezi zinto ziye zacwangciswa okanye zacinywa, kodwa kukho izithethe ezisisiseko ezisenziwa emtshatweni.
Ukudibanisa abantu abaselula abanesonka kunye netyuwa
Ngoko ke, kuyintoni into eyimfuneko yokwenza kumama kamama nomyeni womtshato? Masiqale ngomnye wemigangatho yomtshato ebaluleke kakhulu, ziphi izithethe ezisichazela ukuba sizukise kwaye zizalisekise. Lo ngumcimbi we "isinkwa netyuwa", okufuneka umama womyeni enze. Emva kokuba abantu abatsha batshatile okanye batshatile, baya ekhaya, apho umama womyeni elindele khona. Le nkcubeko ineengcambu zayo kwixesha elidlulileyo, xa umfazi osemtsha emva komtshato waya ebudeni bendoda, kwaye emngceleni wadibana nomkhwekazi wakhe. Wanika umtshakazi isonka kunye netyuwa, eyafanekisela uvuyo lokubonakala kwilungu elitsha lentsapho, kunye nomnqweno wokuhlala ngokuthula nokuchuma. Umama womyeni unikela umtshakazi isonka, esila e-rushnyk enhle eluhlaza. Ephezulu kwinqanawa yincinci ye-saltcellar evulekile. Xa abasandul 'ukutshata beza endlwini, umama noyise womyeni baphuma baya emnyango wabo. Umama kufuneka abe nesonka esandleni sakhe, kwaye uyise kufuneka agcine uphawu. Xa umtshato wesibini udibana, unina womyeni ubapha isonka, ufuna ulonwabo, ubutyebi, ukuchuma kunye nothando. Emva koko unina noyise bayibusisa intsha phambi kwe icon. Emva koko abazali bayichitha endlini kwaye banikele ukunambitha isonka kunye netyuwa. Umtshakazi nomyeni bayaphula isonka baze batyelele ityuwa. Ngendlela, unina womyeni kufuneka aqinisekise ukuba emva koko, akukho mntu uthinte i-caravan. Emva kwakho konke, ngokweenkolelo yokuba ukuba umntu ombi uthinta isonka okanye uyamnquma, kukho iingxaki kwiintsapho. Emva komtshato, unina womyeni ubamba isonka kwi-rushnyk kwaye uyithwala ecaweni, ayishiye etafileni yokuthanda, ukuze loo ntsapho ilutsha ihlale ivuyayo kwaye ihlala kwindawo yokuchuma.
Emva kokuba abatsha banambitha isonka, umsebenzi wabazali bomyeni ukuwufefa ngeentengo zemali kunye neenkozo. Ngendlela, isithethe esifanayo senziwa kufuphi neofisi ye-registry. Kodwa kunokufafaza yonke into, kodwa ekhaya, kuyinqweneleka ukuba yenziwe ngokukodwa nguyise nomama wabancinci. Inyaniso kukuba, ngokukhawuleza, uMama noTata bayasikelela isibini esitshatileyo ngokufumana ubutyebi nobuncwane kwimpilo yabo entsha.
Kwakhona, abazali bomyeni baxakeke ekuhleleni ummiselo omncinci emva kokusebenza kwezi ziko. Emva kwakho konke, ngokuqhelekileyo, abatsha kunye neendwendwe baya endlini ngaphambi kwebhokisi, emva kokuhamba malunga nomzi. Ngako oko, umama nobafanele balungiselele i-champagne, iziphuzo kunye nokutya, ukuze umtshakazi nomyeni, kunye nabo bonke abaza nabo, banokuphumla kancane, baphumule baze bafumane amandla okubhiyozela.
Isidlo somtshato
Kwidlobo yomtshato ngokwawo, ezininzi iinkqubo zenziwa ngumama womtshakazi. Ngokuphathelele kubazali bomyeni, uyise unako ukufumana abancinci aze abeke etafileni. Ngokwesiko, iitheyibhile zigqithwe kathathu. Nangona kunjalo, esi siko sinokwenziwa ngubawo bomtshakazi. Konke kuxhomekeke kwindlela abadibanisa ngayo kunye nabantu abatsha bavumelana. Ngaphandle kwindwendwe yomtshato, abantu abaselula bahlala bedanisa nabazali babo. Kodwa, kwakhona, umdaniso womntwana womyeni kunye nomtshakazi uthathwa njengomdabu.
Ukuba ukhumbuza ngokufutshane iinkcukacha zobugcisa bomhla womtshato, abazali bomyeni, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, banomthwalo wemoto kunye nokudubula, njengoko abaqhubi kunye nomqhubi baqala ukufika endlwini yabo. Kuzo zonke ezinye iinkalo, imisebenzi yabazali bomtshakazi nomyeni ngokumalunga nezobugcisa zihlula ngokulinganayo.